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this guy has changed his mind!


Question Posted Sunday June 13 2010, 7:43 pm

So! As you all know i have written for your advice about the same guy. It was the age issue. Still not doing to great on that anyways but now for another problem.
At the beginning when we first started talking he told me that he wanted to be friends and NOTHING MORE! Hes never had a serious relationship with a girl, and i think he is just kind of scared, with the whole me being 17 and him being 21 thing..he knows i would do anything for him in the world. So we hung out, partied it up a little. SOBER! we kiss, and hug..he puts his arm around my waste, he lays his head on my shoulder. He "liked" me. you could tell. Well, I have been thinking about giving up because he told me he couldnt hang out. So i texted my friend and told him i was going to give up.he told me not to if i really wanted him..SO IM NOT GIVING UP! but my guy told my friend that we were just meant to be friends, and he took it to far on accident. like what does that mean? Obviously he likes me. What should i tell him? Because i like him more than he knows..People make fun of him so much, calling him a dumb redneck and stuff, and it makes me mad and i holler at people.What do i tell him, other than how i feel??? I LIKE HIM ALOT, AND I NEED HIM!!! AND I KNOW HE LIKES ME!


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Yazeed answered Sunday June 13 2010, 8:48 pm:
think about how he feels ....i mean if your younger than he is and he doesnt wanna mention you to his family or friends then hes not meant to be....i mean age is a number and thats it but if hes embarassed over age than imagine what else he will do to impress his family and friends so i mean he is honestly not worth your time...im sorry but i hope i helped-Yazeed

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kristamikele answered Sunday June 13 2010, 8:25 pm:
You have to look at this whole thing from his point of view; it's kind of like if you were to suddenly find yourself hopelessly attracted to a 13 year old. What would you tell your friends, not to mention your family? Wouldn't you do everything you could to deny that attraction? As far as your concerned, the two of you should get together, but you have to think about how delicate this situation must be for him.

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