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Personal space issues + a boyfriend = wtf get away from me?
Hey. So I'm an 18 year old girl and I have never been in a relationship before. I really don't give care about that, It will happen when it wants to. But I'm worried about what may happen when I do finally get a boyfriend. I hate having people touch me. I can't wait for hugs to be over most of the time and I enjoy my personal space. Im not a bitch if your wondering, Im actually nice and friendly in a very shy way, it's just the space thing. What I'm wondering is, do you think that I will still be like that if I'm with a guy I really like? or do you think my space issues mixed with my horrible shyness can/will effect my relationships? I'm leaning towards I won't give a shit anymore... but still I tend to notice when people sit too close to me or I freak mentally when hugs last way too long. Ughhh :/ Help?
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i think that you dont have a problem it's just that you like your space everyone has a point when they step out of their relaxed zone when every feel ut of your zone just tell them that it makes you feel akward. and sofar as daating oes i think you will grow to like yur boyfriends hugs
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I am also like that, I love my personal space! I also love when my boyfriend touches me, hugs me, etc. It is totally different with him than it is with anyone else. I still am not a hug person and I can't stand if someone is sitting or standing too close to me, but with him I dont ever think he's standing too close. I dont even think about it.
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im like that also!
but i think that when you have a boyfriend that every thing changes..
i mean if your not comfortable around him,
then whats the point?
but everything takes time & when you do get a boyfriend then he should understand how you feel & will give you your space or whatever.
that's my point of view..
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