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Member Since: June 14, 2010
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My girlfriend and I were fooling around a few weeks ago and she let me finish ON her vagina area. She's a virgin and hasn't wanted me to pop her cherry yet so we always do stuff like that without having sex. Plus we so totally don't want a baby because we're young.

Anyway, she had told me that sperm dies when it hits air. Something about oxygen kills sperm or something. I'm not really sure. I'll be honest, I didn't really care at the time because it was in the heat of the moment and you know how that is.

So, today, she calls me and is freaking out and panicking. She said she just read online some place that sperm doesn't die when it hits air. I mean, we've done this thing a lot the past couple of months and so I didn't know why she suddenly looks it up online. I asked her why she was so worried and now she's all being like her period is late. So...

...Does sperm die when it his air or not? (link)
sperm can last twentyfour hours in the air. it is acctually still a pretty high risk that she could be pregnant. if any pre ejaculation fluid or cum got within the lips and was close to the vaginal hole its possible for the sperm to get to the egg, especially if when she washed of the fluids she forced water up herself or with her fingers because that most times pushes sperm up farther instead of washing it out. if you dont want children or an std use a condom any time there is naked body contact when there is sexual arousal. good luck i'll be crossing my fingers for ya'


So down there i have these bumps, and there full of like, blood and puss. i also have them on the lining on where my leg and butt meet. iv had them for years and they only hurt when they get really big but i want to know:
What are they?
How can i get rid of them?
because i want to start getting intimate with guys and i think its gross to have like, bumps and scars from popping them. (link)
i would bet that they are pimples. sounds odd i know. i suggest buying unscented soap designed to be used down there, use it every time you shower and be sure to rinse real well. if they get worse or not any better in a couple weeks go see your doctor immediatly


Hey there I am currently in my last year of high school in Ontario, Canada and I have been thinking of what to do after I graduate. Which brings me to my question is there any foundations or companies I can join like Red Cross or Habitat For Humanity to come down to Louisiana and try to help them with the oil spill, cleaning up after hurricanes and such and building houses? Also how can I go about doing something like this?
Thanks for your time links or any information will be greatly appreciated (link)
i guess you should search online, check out the organizations' web sites and contact someone from that web site through email or phone. im certain they'll know exactly what you can do to help


I have the weirdest problem. Everytime I have a little sickness, I think it's huge. Like if I have a headache, i think it's a brain tumor. If I have a stomach ache I think I'm gonna hurl or that I have the flu. Yes, I know it's weird and freaky. But I need help!! i wanna stop. Please help me (link)
well it sounds more like your a bit of a hypochondriac 'spelling?' someone who thinks they have a horrible health problem and dont or take small sicknesses and make them seem bigger. just sit down and analyze your problem. taking it in slowly and sensibly. if in a little while things do infact get worse and something is deffinately wrong, then go see the doc




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