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Liking my best friend
Okay so i like my best friend alot but she has this best friend with benefits/ boyfriend only because them two were force to break up. Well i liked her since i have know her but she still have feeling for him. Being her best friend i feel like im always there for her more than he is, im always with her and i do just about anything for her. We are constantly texting and talking and it kills me that we are not going out cause i would like to. Its even to the point where people thing that we are dating but we are not. So ive told her all of my fellings that i have for her and she was like well i like you but i still have feelings for the other guy and then she starting saying that she felt so bad cause i was feeling down and stuff and that it was her fault that i am depressed. Well idk what to do or think and im constantly thing about her and it kills me so i need people advice on what i should do.
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hey man i know exactly how you feel..i actually have a huge crush on my bestfriend...and i mean dont let this guy take her away if your always there for her let her know that your the one for her.show her that your the one who will blow her away...have her go somewhere wit you where you guys can be alone.tell her and tell her that this guy cant treat her how you can...i would do that for the girl i like but i cant its sort of hard at this point but dont do what i did and wait to long...if you want her...bro go get her!:D,I hope i could help
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Hmm... This is a very tough situation that your in. Well it's good that you actually tell her how you feel. But she needs to know how she feels about you and that guy. She needs to be clear on her feelings and not to string you along for the ride. That's not fair to you. If that's the guy she wants to be with- then be supportive of her. She's your best friend. It's not worth loosing your best friend. And if she makes it clear that she returns those feelings for you as well, then great- it's a win- win situation. Good luck.. hope this helps.
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I can just imagine the torture you are going through... all I can say is to look at the positive side of things, you are spending a lot of time with her, you constantly see her/talking so this is not bad at all, you should be very glad for this. I know she is into another guy at the moment and that whole situation is basically driving you crazy but just hang in there for now, enjoy the time you spend with her, cherish all those laughs, talk, and trust you two have... remember, she is your best friend, and she will more than likely go to you if she ever has an issue with the other guy... If a thing like this happens, be there for her just like you always have, she will slowly notice by herself what an amazing person you are and who knows... she might start to develop deeper feelings for you hey, you mentioned that she DOES like you. It is just a matter of time if you do things right and be there for her no matter what happens a woman likes to be cared for and you do just that. Take it slow and don't get too frustrated you already have her trust, and friendship which is awesome! but love takes time to develop if it is really meant to be so hang in there and don't lose hope but at the same time, don't get your hopes up too high either, if it isn't meant to be it just simply isn't, you are sure to find another amazing person to share all that love you have to offer.
Best of luck to you my friend.
-trueadvice3
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