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me and my ex ....
My ex and I are VERY close.We hangout all the time ,sometimes alone and sometimes with a group. We had an alone hangout the other day and got into a deep talk. We had both had drinkin that night so we were pretty much freely speaking the truth.He ofcourse started making moves on me and kissing me and all that and while he was doing all that i told him it was wrong because I still see him as more than a friend and he said he still sees me a little more than a friend but less than a girlfriend (whatever that means) He told me that he literally can't describe how he feels towards me and that he cares about me so much and that he sees me as his little sister and that he will protect me no matter what and that he wants me to be happy,and he wishes he could feel the same way about me as he did when we dated . Yet,i dont know how he could see me as his little sister yet want to hookup with me all the time. He told me that we won't hookup anymore because he doesn't want to give me mixed signals but all he does is tell me how im such an amazing girl and he trusts me and all this stuff and i just don't see how he can't see me as more than a friend! I'm always there for him but maybe if we spend a significant amount of time without eachother ,he will realize he really does have feelings towards me..but im not sure.What should i do?! Im crazy about him
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okay,take it from me,this guy is a total asshole.hes using you for his needs,if he just sees you as a friend then dont waste your time on him.he aint worth it.and if he thinks of you as a sister but wants to kiss you and bust a move,hes obviously using you,look just im a guy i know how they think,dont waste no more time on him,youll thank me later-Yazeed
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Sweetie, this guy is using you. He dosen't feel the same for you. He said so himself. He just wants you as a hook up. He's making excuses trying not to look like a jackass. This guy does not care about you. He only cares for himself. And you deserve better. There are going to be guys out there that are going to treat you and love you,the way you deserve to be treated. Time apart is a good idea. Spend time with your friends. Go out and have fun. Do a movie night, sleep overs, or whatever. Just dont think about this guy. Then after spending a good amount time apart, you can go and make a decison. It will be much smarter. You cant make a guy who dosen't share the same feelings you have for him magically appear. You deserve better. So good luck.
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RUN!!!!!!!!!!! It's clear he doesn't want a relationship with you. If a guy wanted to be with you he will make it happen. Theres nothing else in between... And when a guy describes you as his sister that means that he really don't want to much with you. I mean come on... What guy out there that really wants to be with you is going to call you a little sister. Get over this guy this is summer have fun! And I suggest that you stop hanging out with him until you can get over the feelings you have for him. Move on with your life and leave your heart open for a man who does won't you!
the best of luck to you and always
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He's using you. He wants sex with none of the hangups of relationships, no responsibility to you.
He continues to hang around because he knows you're crazy about him and your resolve on not sleeping together is weakening. The "sister" crap is just a line to bring down your defenses, as is the "I don't want to send the wrong signals"
He doesn't give a shit what signals he sends, so long as he gets laid as a result of them.
Walk away now.
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