Member Since: June 10, 2010
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Last Update: June 12, 2010
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this is really intended to be for guys 20+ but anyone could answer i guess.
what do you think about girls waiting until marriage? like say if you're engaged to a girl and she tells you she's a virgin and has been waiting for you, is that a turn-on? any comments on it is great (link)
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If you going to marry try the merch. This is coming from a woman. What if your not compatable. It would suck big time...
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I don't know how I feel about my boyfriend anymore.
We used to be so happy together. I still love him, but I don't know how he feels about me. Now I just feel like he only wants me around when there's nothing better to do (or if he needs me for something). We see each other at school and everything's fine. But that's just it. After school, we just go home and that's that.
I don't know if I sound extremely needy saying this, but nowadays he just hangs out with his friends ALL the time and never even bothers making plans with me. We haven't done anything together on the weekend in over a month. We hang out after school sometimes, but that's extremely rare now. We usually just end up going to his house or a fast food place, and half the time I have to suggest it. If I ask him to hang out on the weekend, he always says he already has plans. We don't even communicate on the weekends anymore; if I don't IM him, I won't hear from him until the next Monday at school.
It didn't use to be like this. When we first got together, we'd spend every Friday together. And this went on for months.
I'm finding myself really jealous of my friends' relationships.
To some extent, I feel like he's a kid and I'm like the kid's shiny new toy. When you first get the toy, it's exciting and you just want to play with it all the time. But after a while, it gets old and you seek other toys to play with.
I've considered breaking it off with him, but I care about him SO much and don't know if it's the right decision. I also don't know if I'm overreacting or not.
I haven't talked to him about it, either. I feel that if I do, he'll just start making plans with me not because he wants to, but because I bitched about it.
What should I do? (link)
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walk away and if it's real he'll be there for you..
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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now. We have had sex for 6 months now with protection (condoms AND birth control pills). We're both 20 years old so we're out of high school and we live together in his mom's basement right now.
I really want to have a baby and start a family with him. I want us to get married and have a nice little life, you know? Well, I heard that it's better to have kids when you're young and able to do things with them so I think 20 sounds reasonable.
I haven't talked to my boyfriend about having children. When we starting doing it together he said all kids scare the hell out of him so he wanted to make sure we were extra safe by always using 2 forms of birth control (hence the pill & condom). I didn't say anything about it because I do want children.
I feel like my body is screaming at me now to do it. I want to tell him to not put a condom on next time and I want to stop taking my pills. I want to have a baby so bad.
How do I tell him without freaking him out? I wouldn't do something stupid like "accidently forget" my pill or something so I NEED to tell him. I need him to say he wants to have kids with me because I love him but I'm afraid he's going to hate me. What do I do? How can I tell him I want a baby? (link)
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I did it at 22, Didn't work the way i wanted it to. I had a great support system with my family, but finacially it was and still is hard. My daughter is 15 and my ex finally decided to do the right thing. unfortunatly to my demise she moved in with him and his wife. We were VERY CLOSE AND NEVER SAW IT COMING. Now the little girl i idolized doesn't talk to me for weeks on end. It breaks my heart everyday and I didn't do anything wrong, but give up 15 years of my life for a child that doesn't care. I remarried and have a great life, she was very much a part of it and now she's not. I don't think i would do it again. It hurts tooooo much. not fair to her 10 year old bro. and 5 year old sis. They don't understand why she doesn't call or visit them. Think very hard, you can't go back. Good luck.. If you need to talk you know how to reach thru.....
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I got my industrial pierced about two months ago and one of the holes will not stay healed. Sometimes it gets a red blister-looking lump that pops up right where the piercing is. It doesn't hurt incredibly bad but it's annoying because it doesn't look good. I really don't want to take it out because i paid 70 to get it pierced and plus i like it. Anyways I clean it with peroxide and alcohol and the red bump still stays.
What should i do? (link)
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herpes lol
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Ok I was boating not to long ago and I got Sun burned. My friends mom told me to put Vinegar on it because it would take the sting away but it gave me a bunch of sun blisters on my chest. And one day overnight the Blister went down and when I woke up it was barely there. And so I peeled it off, but it wasnt such a good idea. I started to get all red and veiny in that spot. But now Its starting to peel but its still red. And I dont really know what to about it. So if you know what to do Please reply. (link)
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Aloe vera
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Alright so it's exam week and my motivation level: low.
What tips can you give me that can help me focus better on my studies ? (link)
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redilin... Lol jk Just take out all distraction and concentrate
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13/f
we just got our yearbooks and i dont know how to ask the guy i like to sign mine...i REALLY want himtosign it..but im a little nervous and scared...and he sits right next tome in science (link)
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duh?????????????????????? ask him the worst he'll say is no. I sat behind the guy I wanted to go to prom, needless to say i was a chickenshit. He saw me a year after H.S. Chase my ass for a year and then I went out with him and dumped his ass. Revenge was awsome
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where do u live? please i need help!
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Are you for real?
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Okay this might be long... i am a fourteen year old girl (soon to be 15) and i\'ll be a sophomore next year. i just got out of a seven month relationship with a sixteen year old boy, the grade above.
Here\'s the thing. he basically guilted me into giving him blowjob... yeah it was a big stupid long story and i\'ve already asked a question about that haha. but anyway it\'s been about three weeks since me and... uhm we\'ll call my ex sam... broke up. anddd i kind of already like this new boy :/ hahah yeahhh... is that bad?? to start liking someone three weeks after a break up?? of course sam waited very close to two days (a day and a half basically) to start hooking up with girls... whatever he\'s a douche. and see, this new guy i like (we\'ll call him matt?) we kiiind of have history. i went to new york city for four days to play for my orchestra and matt came too because he\'s in band.
Well matt kinda sorta started liking me on this trip and i kinda sorta started liking him. even though i was dating sam. however i think i only kinda sorta liked matt at that time because through a very huge misunderstanding i thought sam was cheating on me... which he kind of was but not really. haha thats a long story too. but when i came home everything was back to normal except that i think matt still liked me. and now that sam and i have broken up well i\'ve started giving matt more time and i kind of like him too.
Thing is i don\'t wanna rush into a new relationship. and even though matt is the biggest gentleman you\'ll ever see, he has a kind of rocky romantic past. he cheated on his gf with this girl i think he sitll might have feelings for. but his girlfriend cheated on him six times before he did so i feel like their relationship was a little toxic anyway. well i just wanna know how i can take this matt thing slow. without having to discuss any big relationshipy things with him because we are not that serious yet. we\'ve been talking for like two weeks...
Also, i wanna know just what you think of this whole situation and if i should drop matt because i feel sort of guilty for lking a new boy so soon even though sam doesn\'t seem to care at all... ughhh i don\'t know what to do! help! (link)
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Why don't you just forget about both. I f you are able to get two guys that close in time than you should be able to find a guy who isnt a douche. Gentleman or not, number 1 rule if someone cheats once they will do it again.. I promise you. And you guys hooked up cause you were cheating on others, again chances are he'll cheat on you or you on him. Good luck. Look You rate me as not know what the finnnn I'm talking about guess what i'm 40 your clueless. i have a 15 year old girl. Same problems. She listen, closed her legs and her mouth. Apparently your not. With all parts of your body on lockdown you'll find someone. I met my husband at 21 not too far from your age. the douches peak in high school, you'll see that. So much more to look forward to....... you'll see. Guys REALLY don't get blue balls. I have a brother, he told me the truth.
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