Hi Guys! I'm 15/f. I'm pretty experianced, in a lot of aspects of life. If you have questions about guys, sex, school, relationships, family, babysitting, cooking or cleaning.. Ask me! Always happy to help! :)
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Location: Kitchener, ON
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Age: 16
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im 15 male and im gay ive known for awhile im only attracted to guys i get turned on when i stare at guys and seeing pictures of naked guys turns me on i havent told anyone yet im not sure how they will react it is normal to feel this way? (link)
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Of course it's completely normal. When you know it's the right time, you'll tell the right person. Just make sure you remember, you're better than any trash anyone can talk about you or your sexual orientation. You need to keep your head up, and proud. I don't know about your school, but at my school we have the GSA, the gay-straight alliance. We meet once a week, and talk about our feelings, and problems. The opinion in the community about us, and how to deal with people who don't agree with our lifestyle. Try to get into that, and if your school doesn't have one, talk to a teacher or principal and try to start one. Check out http://www.ok2bme.ca/
Hope I helped.
iloveyousomuchxo!
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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You need to sit down with him, and straight up tell him you don't like what he did, and you want to see the group from his facebook. There are things in relationships that are no one's business, except the two people in the relationship. He sounds like he needs to grow up, a lot. I think you can find better, and you don't need him. I think you should find someone else.
It's not long, it's okay.
Follow up on this, if you'd like.
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I am losing my virginity this weekend and I know it's going to hurt a lot. I don't want it to because my boyfriend thinks I've had sex before. I've NEVER been fingered and NEVER masturbated. I never even wore a tampon. It'll really be my first time having sex in any way so it's a big deal for me to not sound like it hurts. My boyfriend already had sex with 4 girls before so he knows what to expect from somebody who isn't a virgin.
My question is what would be the least painful way to lose virginity. Like should he be on top then so he doesn't notice or is there an exercise I can do or what? Is there something I can put on me down there that will numb my vagina? (link)
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First off, I don't mean to nag, but if you have to lie to your boyfriend about being a virgin, why would you want to lose it to him? Personally, I think he has a right to know, because with taking someone's virginity, comes attatchment. You're ALWAYS going to remember your first time, and your first guy. If your relationship is built on lies, that's all it's ever going to be. You should tell him.
Anyways, for the advice... make sure you don't get right into it. Fool around lots, have him finger you (and finger yourself, before hand). Use a condom, always. Honestly, it shouldn't hurt that much, as long as you're wet. Oh, and don't be tense, relax your muscles when he's putting it in.
Hope I helped.
iloveyousomuchxo!
15/f
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Girls Out There, Do you all notice when a guy is staring at your boobs or butt? How do you feel about that,do you just want to smack him on the side of the head or do you care at all?If u don't care would you show them off on sometimes just to get a guys attention?I just want to know how girls think (link)
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I don't know about most girls, but I don't mind guys checking me out one bit. I'm bi-sexual, so I check out other girls all the time. :P
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I recently returned from a vacation in Mexico. I was on vacation with my family, not looking for anything, but I met a guy who changed everything. Thanks to his family we started talking, and we just instantly clicked. I normally do not look for anything on vacation, but I couldn't help myself. I have never felt this way about a guy, he is absolutely perfect. I live in Pennsylvania and he lives in Texas so we are about a 3 hour plane ride away. He said he'll visit me, and I know it's completely ridiculous, but he just seems like the one right now. Do you think it could work? Miracles happen, right? (link)
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Once in a lifetime, we get a little fairy tale in an ordaniry life.
You might as well give it a shot, if it's kind of a why not thing? Right? Just don't get your hopes up to high, and be ready for the fact that it's a 1 in 100 shot type thing!
I really hope you guys work out.
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I need upbeat songs to dance to that are appropriate for children! No LADY GAGA PLEASE! (link)
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Destiny's Child - Survivor
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J6G3FDxb-mM
My First Kiss - 3oh3! ft. Kesha
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N1MMoZ-DLlY
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when i was 15, i had the babybug. it was almost aching, i wanted to have a baby so bad. it lasted for about 4 months and then disappeared for a while. now i'm 17 and its back, but its much worse. i have a boyfriend and we're active. we use protection sometimes, but most of the time we don't. everytime we dont, i have this instant spark of hope that maybe this might be the time that i finally get pregnant. i know, i'm young. i'm almost in my senior year of highschool and i know it'd completely ruin my life if i had a kid now, but i don't care at all. i'd be a great mother. i'm at the point right now where i don't even want to live anymore unless i have something to live for, and in this case, that something would be a baby. i keep having urges to trick my boyfriend into thinking i'm on the pill, but i love him too much to do that to him. he doesnt want a kid.
why am i like this? any why so young? my friends are all scared for me, my boyfriend, too. i'm starting to worry a little, myself. (link)
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I completely understand where you're coming from.. Trust me. I've been through, and am still fighting the baby bug.
The way I get through it, is just realizing how much better of a mother I could be if I can give my child the things that I was never able to have. The most important thing in a child's life is to have a loving family, but it's also important to be able to finacally and mentally support your child(ren). Think about how much you've changed and grown up since you were 15.. Now think about how much you'll grow up by age 20-25. That's how much more you'll know that you can teach your child(ren).
Hope I helped!
iloveyousomuchxo!
15.f
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