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Okay this might be long... i am a fourteen year old girl (soon to be 15) and i\'ll be a sophomore next year. i just got out of a seven month relationship with a sixteen year old boy, the grade above.
Here\'s the thing. he basically guilted me into giving him blowjob... yeah it was a big stupid long story and i\'ve already asked a question about that haha. but anyway it\'s been about three weeks since me and... uhm we\'ll call my ex sam... broke up. anddd i kind of already like this new boy :/ hahah yeahhh... is that bad?? to start liking someone three weeks after a break up?? of course sam waited very close to two days (a day and a half basically) to start hooking up with girls... whatever he\'s a douche. and see, this new guy i like (we\'ll call him matt?) we kiiind of have history. i went to new york city for four days to play for my orchestra and matt came too because he\'s in band.
Well matt kinda sorta started liking me on this trip and i kinda sorta started liking him. even though i was dating sam. however i think i only kinda sorta liked matt at that time because through a very huge misunderstanding i thought sam was cheating on me... which he kind of was but not really. haha thats a long story too. but when i came home everything was back to normal except that i think matt still liked me. and now that sam and i have broken up well i\'ve started giving matt more time and i kind of like him too.
Thing is i don\'t wanna rush into a new relationship. and even though matt is the biggest gentleman you\'ll ever see, he has a kind of rocky romantic past. he cheated on his gf with this girl i think he sitll might have feelings for. but his girlfriend cheated on him six times before he did so i feel like their relationship was a little toxic anyway. well i just wanna know how i can take this matt thing slow. without having to discuss any big relationshipy things with him because we are not that serious yet. we\'ve been talking for like two weeks...
Also, i wanna know just what you think of this whole situation and if i should drop matt because i feel sort of guilty for lking a new boy so soon even though sam doesn\'t seem to care at all... ughhh i don\'t know what to do! help!
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Why don't you just forget about both. I f you are able to get two guys that close in time than you should be able to find a guy who isnt a douche. Gentleman or not, number 1 rule if someone cheats once they will do it again.. I promise you. And you guys hooked up cause you were cheating on others, again chances are he'll cheat on you or you on him. Good luck. Look You rate me as not know what the finnnn I'm talking about guess what i'm 40 your clueless. i have a 15 year old girl. Same problems. She listen, closed her legs and her mouth. Apparently your not. With all parts of your body on lockdown you'll find someone. I met my husband at 21 not too far from your age. the douches peak in high school, you'll see that. So much more to look forward to....... you'll see. Guys REALLY don't get blue balls. I have a brother, he told me the truth.
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