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Can I masterbate with a Purity necklace?
I recently self blessed a crucifix necklace and promised that i would not have sex until i was married. i am 15 years old and I have so much tension and horniness so this is incredibly hard. I want to masterbate so bad, but i feel like if i don't masterbate, i'll only get hornier and want to do bad stuff before i am married. I don't want to have sex though i think it's awkward and disgusting kinda, considering that my labia is huge. But is masterbation considered stroking your vagina? cause i don't finger myself. what i do is i watch stuff and stroke my.... ya know. I don't know if thats considered masterbation, but i am catholic. I don't know what to do. I can't wait about 11 years to have pleasure, i have to take it out someway..... i dunno what to do!
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Ignore that last answer about it being wrong and a sin. We don't have these urges as some part of a test to see if faith outweighs primal urges. We have these urges because, well, we're human, and they're natural. To deny yourself personal pleasure will build tension and stress and cause problems in other unrelated aspects of your life.
I'm in no way considered to be religious, but I was raised Episcopalian which is not very far removed from your own Catholicism. I was never faced with this same issue, partially because I never took it seriously, and partially because any decent Christian wouldn't deny a kid in his sexual prime the right to masturbate.
Waiting until marriage is a personal choice. Abstaining from masturbation is a stupid and self-harming one.
Also, I must admit I only clicked on this question initially because I thought you were asking if it were wrong to use your purity necklace as a masturbation tool. That just raises all kinds of new, disturbing questions!
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it's wrong and you should not be doing it. that is like a sin and you said you promise to wait to have sex and doing that it's just as sinning like having sex before marriage. plus that thing is not good for you it can hurt you. anyway if you are afraid it's a sin, then it is probably one. so just wait don't think soo horny think about God stuff like maybe you should read the bible or ask God to help you because it's the devil that is making you do this things.
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masturbation: it temporarily relieves you, but like most sins it requires more of the same thing in order to achieve more self gratification.
No, it's not okay to masturbate, who has the right to lead you astray? who has the right to tell you it is okay? your answers should be the Bible. your conscience tells you it is wrong, yet you cannot stop right?
When you masturbate, do you not fantasize?
what is the soul goal of it? To please yourself
quit saying "how far can I go before It's a sin"
The focus should be Lord Jesus, your body is a temple under God, and when you find a marriage partner you become one with them. All other sins are outside the body, sexual is inside the body
Though the bible doesn't say specifically that masturbation is wrong, it does say that being sexually immoral is, and that anything that leads to explicit fantasy, pictures etc is wrong.
Because you say you're Catholic
The one you should be asking is Jesus or Godly people. Not false idol, mother Mary or secular people
I wish it could be defenestrated.
Remember no one is perfect, but where is your heart with Jesus
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It's alright to matrabate, its not sex. Just don't get addicted like me, it's an everynight process in wich i believe i will stop when i have sex for the first time.
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Yes,
Masturbation can mean coming in contact with your private parts, It is not a bad thing and masturbation is the safest way to pleasure yourself. There is nothing wrong it, Everyone does it.
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