Matt answered Sunday May 16 2010, 7:13 pm: K3587 is *mostly* write, though he's leaving out the minority of females that get off from fingering via g-spot stimulation; they do in fact need penetration. But hey, you're probably like 14 or 15, so this shouldn't matter.
Basically, if you haven't already, you should figure out what works best for you before leaving it up to an idiot boy to poke around at. If you know what works for you (ie: you've masturbated, or have at least found what feels best), your experience will improve tenfold once you get that information across to the boy. And this has nothing to do with virginity. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
K3587 answered Sunday May 16 2010, 2:29 pm: Most boys don't realize this, but "fingering" doesn't entail shoving your fingers in and swirling them around. Whether your hymen is intact or not shouldn't be a factor, as the point of it all is clitoral stimulation, which requires no real penetration.
In short, it's probably going to hurt regardless; because if you're asking this, you and your partner are inexperienced enough to not know what the hell you're doing. Your best bet is to guide his hand (I'm assuming this is a female asking this, but if not, reverse roles) exactly where you want it and tell him what to do. If you don't know what feels good, touch yourself beforehand and figure it out! [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
CLN answered Sunday May 16 2010, 11:29 am: Ok well I'm not going to say it hurt but I'm also not ganna say it don't hurt. But its will hurt just alittle not realy bad but as you do it it shouldn't hurt only thing you have to worry about realy is sex your first time some people say it don't hurt but 4 me it hurt like hell so yeah hope I help not alittle 2much bye friend [ CLN's advice column | Ask CLN A Question ]
BabyGurl21 answered Friday July 30 2004, 1:12 am: No it does not hurt..it may feel weird your first time but after that it wont any more..
XoCrYsTaLoX answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:43 pm: yes more than lickly it will or it might be a little uncomfotably like in the lower part of your stomach but if your usd to wearing tampons it shouldnt feel THAT BAD!! LOL [ XoCrYsTaLoX's advice column | Ask XoCrYsTaLoX A Question ]
xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:01 pm: nope... i've a virgin and i've been before... but it depends on if your coochie is like big or not... if you're tight it's gonna hurt. if you wear a tampon when you get your period it shouldn't hurt because you're used to having things shoved in there... hope i helped :-D [ xXxpinky615xXx's advice column | Ask xXxpinky615xXx A Question ]
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