I'm friends with this one guy and I like him alot. I've heard that he used to like me too, but I'm not exactly sure if it's true. he is the only guy I've ever felt this way about, and I know it sounds stupid of me to say that because we are only 14. In the past, he has hurt me bad emotionally and once physically. But now, everything between us it great we talk all the time I just don't know if I should tell him how I feel, just forget about him, or keep it a secret. Please help.
Additional info, added Wednesday July 28 2004, 5:52 pm: The guy and I, are basically best friends now, and I don't want to jepordize our friendship.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iindEpEndEnt55giirL answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:04 pm: hey im sorry to say .. but if he once hurt you .. whats there makin him not do it again. i bet your really preety and you could do alot better then him. but i cant tell you what to do. but for all the people that i help i dont want to see any of them hurt. i think you should move on.. but its all up to you if you think hes the one for you then go for it. just be careful. because an abusive relationship is horrible - you dont need that. just take care of your self and i hope i helped. <3 Nicicole [ iindEpEndEnt55giirL's advice column | Ask iindEpEndEnt55giirL A Question ]
Lena answered Saturday August 7 2004, 3:37 am: If you guys are best friends.. dont go out with him.. believe me.. its the WORST thing you can do.. no offense.. its just my opion cuz it happened to me.. and it sucked sooo** much when we broke up cuz we never talked after that.. and i used to tell him *Everything* n now we dont talk.. and if we do its always "hi.." 'hi' "whats up?" 'nuthing you?' "Oh thats cool" BEEEEp end of convo.. it sucks.. but hey.. he even promised we would talk if we broke up.. so I hope you get the right advice.. =) and that everything works out.. but u still should tell him how you feel.. or ya'll could just be 'friends wit bennifits' [ Lena's advice column | Ask Lena A Question ]
awwshucks25 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 2:43 am: tell him how you feel because he just might feel the same way about you!! and feelings never lie so if you have strong feelings for this boy, tell him and ask if you two could ever be more than friends. but remember..its easier to go from being friends to being together than it is from being together to being friends. [ awwshucks25's advice column | Ask awwshucks25 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:14 am: I wouldn't get with him. He's huRt you befoRe.. what makes you think he won't do it again? ShoRe.. they can say they'Re "SoRRie" and pRomise they won't do it again, but who knows.. those aRe only woRds, and I wouldn't even botheR taking the chance! I do hope eveRything woRks out though! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
jazi14 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:08 am: hey i am jasmine and i think that it wont hert if ya say somthin to him.... but if u are not sure what to say just say.......soo how do u feel about me and u? then say well i heard that u liked me in the past!.......and if he says yea i did then say how u feel.....trust whats the worst that can happen?(knock on wood)
*tasha* answered Saturday August 7 2004, 12:06 am: HIYA!I think that you should definetely tel him how u feel!Cuz when you do that it makes you feel a lot better..and sometimes you'll lose the interest if its not "real"...but if it was me,and he hurt me EMOTIONALLY AND PHYSICALLY then i definetely not go out w/ him..even if he said a zillion times. lol..thats just me cuz i dont go for the abusers ya kno? And yea if you really dont wanna jepordize ur friendship maybe you should just forget about likin him as more than a friend...I hope I helped..lemme kno how it all turns out! GOOD LUCK! any more ?'s just ask!
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