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Q: Whenever it gets cold out and my hands are exposed and then I come back into warmth, two of my fingers go white and feel numb. I can't figure out why it does that. My hands don't go white it's just my fingers. Can anyone help?
Do they hurt when you do that? Because thats what happans when you go straight from coldness to warmness

Q: Well ok, today both of my pointer fingers were really red at the tip and hurt really bad. I walk to school in the morning and I do wear gloves, but for some reason today my two pointer fingers were really red and warm. Any ideas of what it may be??
Well they could have been numb and does it feel like you slammed them? cuz maybe u did or maybe just maybe.. frost bite i have no idea what frost bite feels like but it could be maybe.

Q: hi, next month i have my first appointment for the gnyo, becuase im 15 and have had my period irregular since i starting getting it 4 years ago,so my mom made me an appt...so anyway my concern is that, a couple months ago my boyfirend and I of 9 months decided to take are relationship a little farther and he fingered me, quite intensly and has done it a couple times..(but I have never had sex, and dont plan on it anytime soon)I am worried that the gyno will tell my mom,(becuase i know the gyno will be able to tell,becuase i am quite stretched out from it) and i really dont think that my mom wants to hear "oh by the way your daughter has been fingered" and she will be quite dissapointed in me. If i ask should the gyno keep my information confidential?

Yeah you could ask cuz you have to right for your privacy

Q: I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks.
South beach diet

Q: What the hell do i get my boyfriend for xmas? of course, he told me not to get him anything but i have to. im lost for ideas. hes 13..he likes pink floyd, jimi hendrix, and ppl. help me please
I got mine Cologne.. adidas-moves

Q: I'm 13 and i have gone out with this boy i really liked him and he was my first boyfriend but he dump me and now i don't want to go out with anyone because i have losed my confidence and scared i'm going to be rejected
Same advice for you that i gave for another person! Im not gunna lie. You will get hurt but thats life and there is going to be alot of guys we go through and we are going to get hurt. Life is full of many things and there'll be on guy that wont hurt you. I got hurt over Colin, Issac, Jamie, and Chad. Those were the main ones i got hurt over but now im going out with Nathan and yeah i may get hurt but if i really like him then im not going to worry about it because i am happy right now and im willing to take that risk and if you think that guy is worth taking a risk over then go for it! But you will never know who is the perfect guy unless you date other guys! Good luck!! And take a risk!! Trix!!

Q: okay so every time i like a guy, i like him until he starts to pay any sort of attention to me. Like if he starts to act maybe a little interested, I freak out and like stop liking him! I don't know why! Like ever since my last major bf (we were together for 4 months) I've been like afraid or something to like a guy when he likes me back or like have a boyfriend its so weird does anyone have any ideas on how i can like stop whatever it is and why im doing ? ty so much
Well i would think that you are just having a hard time getting into a long relationship thinking that in the long run you will get hurt. I am not going to lie. You may get hurt but thats life and there is going to be alot of guys we go through and we are going to get hurt. I got hurt over Colin, Issac, Jamie, and Chad. Those were the main ones i got hurt over but now im going out with Nathan and yeah i may get hurt but if i really like him then im not going to worry about it because i am happy right now and im willing to take that risk and if you think that guy is worth taking a risk over then go for it!! Good luck!! And take a risk!! Trix!!

Q: i am a 13 year old girl with a lot of friends. boys and girls. but mostly boys. im a girly girl though not a tomboy or anything. when i am with my guy friends i am totally normal and myself.the only problem is that whenever i am going out with a guy, i get nervous. i dont really act myself around him. do you know anything to help me over come this problem?
Well your probably just shy and thats nothing you can automatically just stop being. You just have to hang out with the guy more often and hopefully overcome that

Q: Hi!Um I like my friend and he likes this one girl that has a boyfriend.His name's Evan and we sorta went out last year but I just started liken him again. He knows some one from skool likes him he just doens't kno it me.. I'm not sure if I should tell him how I feel or just give up on him...What do u think?
I wouldnt just pass the chance but i wouldnt want to ruin a relationship either.. Thats a touchy subject i would just leave them alone unless i couldnt possibly pass that chance up but i would just leave it alone because im not one to ruin a relationship and there are plenty other guys out there

Q: Where can i buy a du rag??
a store

Q: am 19 and my bf is 24, he hasnt called me in 5 days,we only been going out for a week but in the first two days we really hit it off, but i dont know why he is not calling me,he would call me faithfully but then it just stop,please help me what should i do.
Well maybe you should call him or maybe he thinks that you are to young for him.

Q: yea we go to the same school how do i know if my bf likes another gurl how does a boy flirt
some.. are shy some are touchy and some are really out there like put themselves out there to the girl

Q: I was just wondering if anyone could give me some insight as to what a normal age is for like, giving head, and oral sex and stuff. im 13, and i've never wanted to do anything like that but i was just wondering at about what age are girls doing it now a days. if anyone could help me out, i would really appreciate it.
I would say 16.. but i still think that is very young! but alot of people are doing it.. I would until your older and know the guy 110% and know if he has STD's but girls are doing it younger now then 16 its like between your age and that

Q: well im 14 and i been with my bf for1 year and almost 3 mounths he doesnt act the same as the first 4 mounths when i lost my virgenity with him
im gunna put myself in his shoes.. like why i would act diff. if my bf lost his virginity to me.. i would act diff. maybe because i was just using him but not completely i would still have feelings for him you no but idk maybe it was a awkward sit. I would defintly want him to come and talk to me about it if he was having a hard time over this though because i wouldnt want our relationship going down the drain from something that lasted so incredibly long!! so i would just talk to him about it maybe something is going on.. like something in his family. My 2 grandma's have cancer now and my bf tells me that i've gotten alot quieter.. i dont know if thats the case with him but you dont know that and maybe he just really needs someone to be there for him at time like this. so maybe you should talk to him to see whats going on with him and why he is acting like this.. Do you to go to the same school? If you dont he could possibly be seeing another girl. So you may want to ask around and see what people have to say but before you go and believe other people you should ask!

Q: 13/f...Ok, so I'm a really shy person when it comes to guys. I like this guy named Tim. I think he stares at me in spanish and sometimes science because I can see it out of the corner of my eye, ya know? In science the teacher stands like a few feet in front of Tim. So naturally I'm looking up at the teacher because he's talking lol. Yeah anyway, Tim looks at me a lot. He likes glances over at me. I think he might think I'm looking at him instead of the teacher. I know he's really shy also so should I strike up a conversation? And do you think it's possible he likes me? Thanks
Yeah strike up a convo!!and i bet it is that he likes you or at least wants to talk

Q: hello! me and my boyfriend have dated for 3 months and then we broke up. But know we started dating again. And know he is different, he wont touch me i always have to grab him. like grab his hand if i want to hold it. what should i do?
haha my boyfriend was the same he did it wen i was like next to him he wouldnt just walk up and grab it like i did and i grab his hand and said u no its okay lol and thats when he started to just randomly grab my hand

Q: Hey I recently dyed my hair black and I was wondering if it will look good with red highlights. I have brown skin. if you have anyother colors that might look good please tell me. not blonde everyone has blonde i wand something different.
I like the red idea

Q: i like this guy and he kinda likes me but all my friends say hes really bad and they call him pot head and stuff like that. but i dont think hes bad at all. i kissed him at the movies and every one was like eww and stuff like that. but i really like him. what do i do? thanks.
i would tell them what you think of him and why you like him you need to point that out to people so they can see where you are coming from

Q: me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me??
I would let them know..

Q: do u have to not be a virgin to be put on birth control??
nope

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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