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im so confused!
okay so every time i like a guy, i like him until he starts to pay any sort of attention to me. Like if he starts to act maybe a little interested, I freak out and like stop liking him! I don't know why! Like ever since my last major bf (we were together for 4 months) I've been like afraid or something to like a guy when he likes me back or like have a boyfriend its so weird does anyone have any ideas on how i can like stop whatever it is and why im doing ? ty so much
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Well i would think that you are just having a hard time getting into a long relationship thinking that in the long run you will get hurt. I am not going to lie. You may get hurt but thats life and there is going to be alot of guys we go through and we are going to get hurt. I got hurt over Colin, Issac, Jamie, and Chad. Those were the main ones i got hurt over but now im going out with Nathan and yeah i may get hurt but if i really like him then im not going to worry about it because i am happy right now and im willing to take that risk and if you think that guy is worth taking a risk over then go for it!! Good luck!! And take a risk!! Trix!!
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I dont know if this will help but maybe you are afraid of commitment, and you think you are, but in the back of your head you feel scared in a way. Just try your best in making your relationship stronger. Hopefull I helped :-/
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you seem to have a similar problem like me. I get nervus when i talk to boys lol. But if you like a guy and he starts to like you back you should go for him and flirt some more. Don't be scared of what you think might happen next.
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I would suggest that when you find yourself in this situation again, work through it. Tell yourself to breathe and take it slow. You dont have to say, 'Go out with me!'right when you discover his is interested. Slow yourself and remember that things wont get wierd. I understand that u havent have a BF in a while and your last one was awesome, but u need to get over it. It sucks to hear it, but it is true.
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Ty So Much, it's normal! you said you were in a relationship for 4 months right?! maybe you fear commitment for another relationship because you think if you give your heart away then it will break again! it's fine you are just looking out for yourself so you won't get hurt! get to know the perosn before liking them and see if you really like him still be cautious but be patient and the right guy will come ur way!!
*BeSs*
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Try to work round it. The next guy you feel attracted to- explain the situation and that you want to take it slow. Then try to make a good friend and establish an understanding- that way you're less likely to get cold feet. Also... who says you need to be with a guy? Why not enjoy bein single a lil while?
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Ok,you should either a) just remind yourself that you're gonna be friends 1st, and that it might not even get to the pnt where u ask him out, or b) if he starts showing intrest, get up the nerve to ask him out! Hope i helped!
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