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Rejection
I'm 13 and i have gone out with this boy i really liked him and he was my first boyfriend but he dump me and now i don't want to go out with anyone because i have losed my confidence and scared i'm going to be rejected
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Same advice for you that i gave for another person! Im not gunna lie. You will get hurt but thats life and there is going to be alot of guys we go through and we are going to get hurt. Life is full of many things and there'll be on guy that wont hurt you. I got hurt over Colin, Issac, Jamie, and Chad. Those were the main ones i got hurt over but now im going out with Nathan and yeah i may get hurt but if i really like him then im not going to worry about it because i am happy right now and im willing to take that risk and if you think that guy is worth taking a risk over then go for it! But you will never know who is the perfect guy unless you date other guys! Good luck!! And take a risk!! Trix!!
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Ive never gone out with a boy but i know how you feel. If your scared that you're ganna get regected, don't worry about it. You will get regected everyonce and a while. But if you really like him, go for it.
simone
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Hea a jerk and dont loose confidence in yourself
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Who cares if your rejected.. everybody gets rejected sometime! Dont be scared, and DONT loose confidence! dont worry about it..!
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Every once in a while you will have a break up that will cause you heart ache. But you just need to move on and find someone that will treat you right. You are only 13! You have plenty of years to find the right guy!! So my suggestion is keep looking! You will find a good one! I promise! <3 good luck and xoxo's
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Believe me girl,there will be a few break ups in everyones life.You're going to have to learn how to take some time out and think for a while about the breakup.There is always some one else waiting for you if you open up.So don't stick to one guy because he will eventually move on and you will have to do the same
Good Luck<3
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hey sweetie! aww, don't worry. i used to feel just like you! when i went out w/ my first bf, and we broke up, i felt like my world just crashed down. now i look back and just think, how could i EVER have even liked him? sooner or later, everyone gets heartbroken. its a lesson inlife that practically everyone goes through. you've got nothing to worry about hun, im sure there are *plenty* of other guys who like you and would want to go out with you, but you just don't know it. besides, you're 13, if you think this is bad, lol, wait till you get older. =) just a little heads up!!! lol. go out and hang out with friends and have fun, hopefully you'll get your confidnce back! if you need to talk or need anymore help, drop one in my inbox or IM me @ lollypopgurl769 on AIM ... or ... yahoo messenger - genuinelove88 ...... hope everything goes well! *xox-angie*
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Well your goingto get dumped and your probualy goign to dump people. But you cant be afraid to date. I mean other wise how are yio ugoign to find the person that you love??? If you are really upst wait a little bit before dating. But dont be afarid of rejection... just have somethign or soemone to fall back on likea friend. Hope i helped
-beccers_boo
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Everyone is scared of being rejected and it's ok to be scared, but never allow someone to make you lose your confidence. Of course, you guys were going to lose interest in each other, that's normal. Now, you can move on to someone else. If you're not ready right now, then don't rust it, but don't let this one person stop you from having a relationship with someone new and better.
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that's a very common feeling to have after breaking up with someone for the first time. but that's the risk you take when getting involved in relationships. you put yourself out there and risk getting hurt. don't lose confidence in yourself just because your boyfriend dumped you. all relationships end in breakups, unles you end up marrying them, but at your age that's not an issue. but you can't think of it that way-you have to take advantage of the time you had with ur bf, and then learn from it. if you convice yourself of that, you'll be fine. i hope this helped.
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Sorry to hear that, but time heals most things and you'll get over him. There will be TONS of other guys, promise. You're still young--don't let one guy ruin the rest of your dating years, lol =P And although rejection isn't fun, sometimes you just have to go for it. Good luck =)
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Hun, that is normal... You just gotta put yourself out there and you will find a guy that will like you and will get over your ex very soon! I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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After a while you will get over him and find someone new and better. Trust me I have.
XOXO
Charmed-Cherry21
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