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Does he maybe like me???


Question Posted Monday December 13 2004, 5:01 pm

okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him

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lyDia_LoU answered Friday December 17 2004, 8:05 pm:
I know everyone was saying to ask him out.. but i think you should talk to ur friend first. My brother's 18 and my boyfriend is one of his friends-even tho he's 16. I'm just saying that it's going to be really wierd for her, i don't know how close you guys are but if you're best friends then she'll really appreciate it if you came to her first! If she's cool with it then go for it!

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KMUL05 answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 5:23 pm:
Dude..make move yourself..just ask him out..him being younger..might be too scared to ask you out..just make a MOVE! goodness! hehe ask him to the movies or something..! hehe xoox muah

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DrummeR4LifE answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 12:33 pm:
It is highly possible that he likes you. But if you're not sure, try to ask him.

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xSammieXlubsXux answered Tuesday December 14 2004, 12:25 pm:
your 16 he's 14, you dont care about age (very good!), you like him but your unsure if he likes you back. hmmmmm....well he hung out with you the whole time at that one party thingy...so..ya kno. its pretty obvious that he does. lordy..if you like him just ask him out, screw the other girs, i think he likes you.:)
~Sammie~

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vickiooos answered Monday December 13 2004, 9:48 pm:
awwwwww!!! he sounds super duper sweet.. just bring it up and be like hey ___ i like you ok.. and see wat happens! you'll never know til you try it and from what you've told me he sounds like he is interested.. goodluck and if it doesnt work out.. dont worry. give it some time =D

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Briht_knee_89 answered Monday December 13 2004, 8:08 pm:
hey hunny * if i was you, i would just tell him exactly how i was feeling. just tell him that you have all these feelings for him, and that you've kind of noticed that MAYBE he has a little sumthing for you too! and if he denies liking you or just tells you straight forward that he doesn't like you and that you got the idea all wrong just say 'alright, well i wanted to tell you how i was feeling, and now that i know how you feel, i can try to move on' i mean your gonna regret NEVER telling him how you feel about him, and knowing what COULD BE, then not telling him, and never really knowing how either one of you would react! so babayy, GO FOR IT! and i really like your attitude on not caring about age, and what others think.. thats the trouble w/people today, age is way over*rated! but you go girlie! and if he doesn't like you then just 4get about him and try your hardest to move on im sure ur a beautiful girl with a lot of stuff going for you, but he does seem like he likes you too! GOOD LUCK! feel freee to ask me nething if u need to. Merry X*mas~ x o *brittany

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givingbackmonday answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:50 pm:
it seems like he really likes you. so i think you should tell him and if you dont want to tell him yourself get his sister or one of your other friends to tell him. i hope i helped, let me know how it goes

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xShOrTiEx answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:19 pm:
tell him that you like him.

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pinayprodigy answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:19 pm:
I think you should ask him out or wait til he will and if it takes more than 3 times you see him ask him out your self and if you don't you'll be sorry unless he asks you out in the future well I'm just another girl like you with the same problem so I'll give you the advice somone gave to me GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Shaylee answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:18 pm:
Is there something there? Thats a hard one, we have to leave that one up to you because only you will know if you like him. People surrounding you guys already think there's something up obviously because of all the looks you were getting and from it all it sounds like he likes you as well. So go for it if you like him. It will be tonnes of fun. Talk to him about it and see what he thinks, if you don't want to be that direct then just flirt with him and lead him to make a move. It couldn't hurt could it. If he still doesn't get it after all that just get a bit touchy and that should get the message across.
But be careful, although you say that you don't care what other people think, if we are all truthful we do care a bit and have feelings that can be hurt. Be braced for some critiscism because I know at my school that would definately be looked down on- so just be careful

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jamziix16 answered Monday December 13 2004, 7:13 pm:
k.. tell him how you feel. it's about the only thing you can do! be like "i thought i should let you know that i like you a lot. i don't know how you feel about me, but now you know how i feel".. if he doesn't like you, make sure nothing changes between the friendship ya'll have. good luck :o)

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LlamaGal answered Monday December 13 2004, 6:13 pm:
Well, do you really like him like him, or his he really more to you like a good guy friends/ little bro? My friend is in a situation like that. She found out that one of her best guy buds is crushing on her, but she doesn't feel the same way, and she didn't know what to do. It sound like he likes you, but do you like him back? The way you keep bringing up the age diff. and stuff makes it sound like you aren't sure. You should think about that.

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dancinqueen08 answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:34 pm:
Well, it sounds like he likes you, but there is always the possibility that he's just a flirty guy. Also, he might think that he doesn't have a chance with you, so he's moving on to someone he has a chance with. I guess you need to find out from your friend what's going on with him because sisters always have the dirt.

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aNgeLxfOrEvEr answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:25 pm:
Wow-long question. It sounds like he really likes you, but I don't know him..he may just be very friendly. But he sounds like a great guy. You guys are like close friends (it seems) now. Talk to his sister and see what's up. If you trust her enough, maybe you could tell her that you like him. I mean, if you're going to go out with him, she's going to find out eventually! I'm sure he likes you..he's younger than you, and he's probably happy that you enjoy hanging with him. If you really feel comfortable with him, you could just tell him you like him. He may like you and it may work out! But just be careful that you don't ruin your friendship though! :)

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jeanine answered Monday December 13 2004, 5:19 pm:
hey... it sounds like you like REALLY like this guy lol. i know exactally how you feel about the couple years younger thing, i went out with a guy who was 2 years younger than me so, yeah. If you really like him that much maybe you should tell him, like before he goes and asks out another . Maybe he doesn't think that you "like him like him" because hes younger, thats what i would do... but i don't know if you'd want to do that or whatever. so... I think you should tell him that you like him :) hope i helped a little bit -*Jeanine

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