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I have a problem. It seems like I get nervous for everything! In track, I get extremely nervous before an event. In school, I get so nervous to take tests and do oral skits. Is there anything I can do to help? Thanks

Try some deep breathing. Also counting to ten slowly helps. Maybe set up a "less stress" type thing (I did that in girl scouts lol). Try putting like poperi (idk how 2 spell it) or something like that in it. After a stressful day try spelling candels. Or maybe go to a spa sometimes! I hope I helped!

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okay so my mom smokes and i hate it.. like all my clothes smell like smoke b/c our house always smells like it and my teachers look at me evilly b/c i smell like smoke but i cant do anything about it do you know any way to either get my mom to stop smoking or to like at least have my house not smell like it all the time?!

You can explain to her how you can die from lung cancer. My aunt died because of lung cancer and now a lot of our families don't smoke anymore. Also you can ask her to smoke outside. My dad does and it never annoys my family and it gives them less time to smoke because your mom probably needs to be in the house most of the time. I hope I helped!

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2day my family and i(14) found out that my older sister (27) has a tumour down there, and is supposed to be haveing surgery in a week. after that they will be putting her on keimotherapy(sp?) and well if none of those cure her, she will then only have 1 more year to live..im so scared of loosing her!

That is terrible! I have lost 3 people to cancer. You just have to make the rest of your life good with her.Spend a lot of time with her. If you want to talk to someone who lost her mother to cancer leave one in my inbox. THis person who lost her mother is my cousin who is coming for a visit this weekend. She could help. Good luck and may God bless your family in this rough time!

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hey!! i have a chance to try out for my high school musical (i'm in 8th). It requires singing and dancing, so i definitely have a chance with the dancing part. but with the singing, i'm not bad but there are a couple of better people. does any one have any tips on what i can do... like projection, that sort of thing. thanks!

For projection you need to open your mouth wide enough so you can fit at least three fingers in you mouth. So you don't crack your voice each time before you sing you need to warm up. I hope I helped!

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any good colors for braces i am freaking here o yea i am a GIRL thanks xoxoxo

I don't know what clors you like so I'll give you some colors not to wear. Don't get white it looks like plack. Don't get hot pink it really stands out. If you want pink get a litter one. Only get green or black if its with another color. I hope I helped!

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i am directing a play . i don`t know what one i should do . can anyone think of a googd play

I think Grease is a good play to do. It's hard to get the rights though so if you can't get Them try Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dream Coat. I hope I helped!

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What color eyeshadow would compliment someone with light blue eyes? (I normally wear pink eyeshadow.) Does eyeliner look good? I have light tan skin and light brown hair with highlights if that helps. THANKS!

Well I have blue eyes and I wear gold, pink, or purple. I hope I helped.

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Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?

Thnx in Advance!

Try wearing some gold. Trust me it will look good. Thank ytou for asking a real question I'm sick of answering ones that are so stupid. If you have anymore question about your amkeup for school I'll help. I hope I helped!

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how do i get ryan and jess back together??

still tryin 2 figure this out myself . by the way 2 every2 i will answer qs bout kids in our skool.

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ok i know this is stupid.But i have a boyfriend and im scared to tell my parents. They wont get mad at me or anything for having a boyfriend the thing is i just dont know how to tell them. How should i tell them??

You should try to sit them down and tell them not in a "big surprise" type of way. Tell them calmly and when you say it sound confident. I hope I helped! Good luck with your family!

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is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?

No when I was younger I had straight male babysitters. My brother used to be a babysitter too. Don't worry he is straight too.

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do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?

It depends on how they act or how spoiled they are. My brothter and I have a three year age difference so when we were that age our babysitters had that kind of difference. You should ask other babysitters you know how hard it is or ask the parents how their kids act. I hope I helped!

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hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do?

Next time you hear someone talking about you in school be like "So who did you hear that one from." They will get kind of embarrassed and probably won't tell you. But it will start to let people know that you know what they say and you are going to put a stop to it. Try and blow them off. Or just try to find who started the rumors and be like "What gave you those ideas they aren't true." I hop I helped! Good luck!

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I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please!

Maybe if there is a local bulliten (i have no idea how to spell it) board in your town you can post some flyers for babysitting on it. Put your phone number and how much you charge on it. I hope i helped. Good luck with the biz.

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how do i tell someone that is cutting themselves that what they are doing is very dangerous, without a confrontation?

you should just go up to her and tell her what she is doing could kill her. my friend almost killed herself one time but me and my other friends told her that she would never know what good things could happen in her life. so tell your friend something like that. but if it keeps up you have 2 tell some1. i hope i helped.

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well i really like this guy and he knows who i am but am way to shy to face him and my friend did the stupidest thing ever,well she knows how to draw and she drew a pic of him and when we got out of class and she gave it to him saying i drew it now he make thing i'm a wierdo or worse a stocker and all of this happened yesterday (friday december 3,2004). now i need to know whats gonna happened and i was wondering if i should face him and tell him how i feel about him and it was my friend who drew that pic? help me please!

You should tell him that you like him and tell him that it was your friend who drew the pic. My friends do stupid things like that to (not to me to my other friends). They honestly think they're helping. Just tell her that she shouldn't of done that. If she thinks its all a big joke shes not a real friend. Anyways tell the boy that you like him and it wasnt you. If he doesnt like you there are still other fish in the sea. But knowing you are not a stalker he prob will like you! Good luck!

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Alrighty well I have a little dillemma with these boys. I've liked this one boy for over a year now, his name is Kyle...we have gone out before like a few times within that year and I like him again now. We did date other people while we were going out but my relationships didn't really work because I always had feelings for Kyle. Recently he told me that he loved me still, even more than before and I felt so special lol because he has never really acted like he liked me as much as he acts now. But I never know if anything will happen with us, I wish it did but that isn't all my decision. I met this kid named Danny and he's my friend's best friend and I like him and he like's me and all and he wants to get to know me and go out, but I don't know if I should do it because I'm afraid I couldn't take it because I would miss Kyle a lot. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do about Kyle or what I should do about Danny.

If you really like Kyle then go out with him. Follow your heart. If theres something that you didn't tell us here that like you don't want to get hurt with Kyle then go out with Danny. But if you like promised Danny that you would go out with him you know you should at least once because you made a commitment. I hope I helped!

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I just got a LiveJournal. I have a few questions. Where can I get layout designs other than the ones provided by LJ? Can I put music on my site? How? Any other LiveJournal tips and stuff would be cool too. Thanks, and I rate 5's!

To get music you need MIDIs. MIDIs are music you can download onto your computer then put it on your livejournal and stuff. Search google for MIDIs by your favorite band. I hope I helped!

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heyy i normally answer questions but now i got one!.. alright well im moving in january and my christmas presents are mainly going to be stuff for my new room.. but the thing is i dont want to get really expensive stuff because were gunna be spending a lot of money on the house.. so i need awsome but inexpensive stuff, i already went to ikea, and pottery barn teen.. and i picked out some awsome stuff.. anyone have any other low priced bedroom places?! x3

If you have a dry ice in your mall go there. Some things are really inexpensive. Watch out though cause some things there don't come cheap. I hope I helped! Good luck! If you have any more decoreating questions come to me I would be happy to help.

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Everytime I answer a question on my advice column this thing comes up it says:Chatspeak detected.Please type in English. That is all I speak,type and write...English.PLEASE HELP! i rate REALLY HIGH!

Sometimes that means you used IM talk. For example instead of saying to you say 2. I hope I helped.

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