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if a boy strocks a girls nose is tht a sign tht he likes the girl

There is no possible way of knowing from just that. but if a guy makes excuses to touch you randomly like that, it's probable. Look out for more signs. :)

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okay the guy i like asked me out today and we were taking he said this"can i flirt with other girls?" and i also asked him"can i?" and he said yeah so i said yes to him is this okay?

No. The whole point of being in a relationship is being committed to just that one person. Why would he want to flirt with anyone if he has a girlfriend.
It will cause problems in the future, such as jealousy, arguments and possibly even cheating.
Talk to him about it. Ask him why he feels the need to "flirt". Who knows, he may have a different definition to flirt and might just mean if he can still talk to other girls.

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hi im 15 f,

ok well i like watching people having sex like n theintenet n stuff and rent porn movies with people well doinit does that mean im bi or gay? and if im not what am i?


plzzzzz help.

Alot of people watch porn. Just because someone of the same sex is in it or if it's lesbian porn, it doesn't necessarily make you bi or a lesbian. You may just enjoy watching it for different reasons.
If you can see yourself dating/in a relationship with just a man, you are straight.
If you can see yourself dating/in a relationship with just a woman, you are a lesbian.
If you would willingly be dating/in a relationship with either, you are bi.
Also, many teens go through phases, so don't be in a rush to figure out your sexuality just yet. Give yourself time to find out who you are.

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okay.
so me & my boyfriend had sex, for the second time. He went in like 10 times and pulled outt cause he didn't wanna [ cum ] in me. so he pulled out and stuff. when he pulled outt my " stuff " was all over his thingg. Maybe a day or two after that i've had serious migranes, heat sweats out of no where, and veryy tired and weak. Now its supposed to be my time of the month. All my friend have got theirs and i usually get mine kinda close to when they do. I havent got it yet but i'm having like all the syptoms of getting my period. do you think i'm pregnantt? i am so scareddd. i'm only 14. i don't know what to do. sometimes when i'm stressed and stuff my period doesn't come but thats rare. & sometimes it comes at diffrent times. i keep feeling like i'm gonna get my periodd but its just discharge. GOD i've been crying for about 5 days straight. i can NOT talk to my mom about itt, or my 16 year old sister. so theres no way i can get a pregnancy testt. whats the deal? please please please help meee ASAP !!
thank you so much, & be honest please.

It can be symptoms of your period, especially if they are normally like that.
All you can really do is wait to see if it comes. If not, you can go to a family planning clinic or a doctor to determine whether you are pregnant if you can't get a testing kit yourself. Your parents will never have to know. It's strictly confidential, I promise.
Don't worry, as it will only delay your period. Also, you wouldn't be getting symptoms of pregnancy this early, just so you know.
Please let this be a valuable lesson learnt and use protection next time.

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home skillet biscuit mean lol
i hear people saying it i just duno what it means.. lol

"friend or your boy. it can also be used for another "gangsta" friend eg: Yo what up my home skillet biscuit"
Taken from UrbanDictionary.

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So my boyfriend was hitting my face with a shoe [sparring gear] He didn't realize it was hurting me. He didn't stop after I gave him a look to. So when he stopped a few seconds later, he did it again so out of nowhere, I slapped him. He got really upset and later said it was disrespectful. I don't know what to do! He didn't even think about what he was doing to me. I know what I did was wrong, i quickly realized that. I did something before thinking but it wasn't a hard slap. What am i supposed to say or do? he's completely pouring this out on me. i just want it to stop.

Give it a bit of time for things to cool down. Apologize for slapping him. Tell him he was hurting you even though you know he didn't mean to. This isn't all your fault - if someone did that to me I would have the same reaction, BUT I wouldn't "give him a look" to stop. It must have been very unclear to him and he obviously can't have seen it as a "stop". Tell him you should have made it more clear and you are sorry for that. Hopefully he has already apologized for agitating you so much you had to slap him.
Just have a little chat just explaining the reasons for your actions. Don't blame each other because it will just make you have arguments. Things should be okay soon, so try not to worry. and make it clear it won't happen again! :)
Best of luck.

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what are the rules for the "that's what she said" phrase?!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=thats+what+she+said

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My boyfriend is really shy. In general. So i was really amazed when he asked me out. Here's the problem. I'm getting really bothered by his shyness. He doesnt do anything a boyfriend should so. He hugs me occasionally. When he does they are really stiff hugs and very quick. I feel like he hugs me because he has to not because he wants to. We dont hold hands or kiss. He never compliments me. He acts like a friend even less. He doesnt flirt or anything. I want him to start acting like my boyfriend and not like my friend. I at least want hugs that mean something. My friends with boyfriends all have held hands and hug and do normal things like that. I want him to start doing that but i dont want to talk to him about it. What should i do? Is there any way i can hint at it without coming on too strong?

Well, I'm sorry to say, but you are going to have to talk to him about it. Why don't you want to? Relationships NEED communication. Without them, there's not really alot of point.
You can hint at it too. Why are you waiting for him to make the move. Girls can do it too. Grab his hand and hold it. See how he responds. Hug him from behind. Or you can even ask him to hug and kiss you more often. He could just be one of those people that don't show affection alot. You can work on it, though and it most probably will get better within time. Just give him a while to adjust to your relationship if he really is THAT shy.
If you do talk to him, you don't have to make it sound harsh. Say it in a jokey way. "I wish you'd hug me more!!" with a smile on your face.
Best of luck. :)

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15/f
ok i kinda like my boyfriend best friend and one night i had called him and we was talking for a while then our conversation got deep and we started talking about sex and what will happen if he comes see me cuz hes coming down here for christmas im very interested in him b/c hes different but i love my boifriend and i dont want to cheat so do you have any ideas on how to stop liking my boifriend best friend thanx

The most obvious thing would be to NOT contact his best friend in any way, shape, or form. Don't be tempted. Think about how you would feel if you found out your boyfriend has been having sneaky calls and initiated cheating.
Just don't do it. It's that simple. People DO have control over their actions.
Just think about what you're doing. You can't "love" him if you're interested in cheating with someone else.

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15/f
ok me and my boifriend cant wait to have sex but im still wondering if im ready to have sex with him i have had sex before 4 times but not with him and all those times have been with the wrong person and this time im kinda taking it slow compared to all the other times we have been dating for 4 months now but we've known each other for bout 6 or 7 months so how can i find out if hes the right person to have sex with...

You aren't ready because you still aren't sure yourself. You will know deep down when you are ready physically and mentally, 100%. Just wait it out so it can be a special, memorable moment. Don't forget you are only 15, too.

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would it be better to hav sex with circumsied dick or uncircumsied one....which one is better any experiences shared so far plz help

I appreciate you asking me questions, but I have to say I have only experienced the one type.
To be perfectly honest though, I don't think there's a disadvantage if you have sex with either.
Some women might have a preference, but that's because every person likes different things.
If you just work on ways to please yourself and your partner with a circumcised or uncircumcised penis, there's nothing to worry about and I highly doubt the ladies will notice anyway.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Do_women_have_more_pleasure_during_sex_with_circumcised_or_uncircumcised_men


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how do i give a blowjob and a handjob.

Sorry, but we can't offer you that type of advice on a child friendly site.
I'll redirect you to thousands of websites. Have a look.

only search advicenators.com

only search advicenators.com

It would be helpful if your guy would tell you what he likes AS you do it, too.

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14/f
Ok, so I like this guy (R). He's really funny, but he's not the brightest crayon. But that's not the point because I don't really care about that. My friend (C) is friends with one of his friends (M) so I asked her if she could try to ask M if he could find out if R liked me or something. What she got back was: M said that, when he asked R what he thought about you, R thinks I'm cool, but we don't talk that much (e.g. I'm guessing he doesn't really know me that well). Today, during class, we're doing mock trial (Political Science) and he kept looking at me. He also says hi to me in the hallways now.

Does this mean he's sort of interested in me? Because it's not like he's looking at me because he thinks I like him or something and he's weirded out by it, because he says hi to me in the hallways...

If he's making the effort to say hello when he never really used to before, he must be interested at least a little. Work on it. :)

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when yourout somewhere with a friend and they say "this is fun" a lot does that mean its not fun? bc i dunno it sounds weird to me

If they are saying it in a sarcastic manner, it's probably not fun. Listen to how they are saying it. Or if you aren't sure, just ask them. :)

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I lose a lot of hair. I was wondering why this was. Is it due to stress or do I have a nutrient defincienty?

I answered a question like this the other day so this should be of use :

Your hair loss could be from a number of reasons, so to find out your cause, you should see a doctor.
Here are a few examples:
*Are you on any medication?
*Do you have any illnesses/medical conditions?
*Do you dye it or treat your hair often?
*Are your eating habits bad?
*Alopecia

Just so you know, the average amount of hair a person loses daily is 100. So are you 100% sure you're losing alot more? It could be in your imagination!

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does anyone know how i can get about €/$ 1500 in a couple of days or possibly a week?

It's probably not even possible, but you can certainly try.
*Babysit
*House sit
*Clean
*Cut grass/gardening
*Car washes
*Chores around the house
*See if you can get a small job (fruit shops/cafe's/paper round)
*Walk dogs
*Sell things
*Tuck shop
Every little helps. Best of luck.

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okay i started my period like yesterday..but like both yesterday and today i only got like one quater size amount. that was it. i normally start either the 24th day or the 25th, yesterday was the 24th day. i was just wondering what was goin on with it??!! cause i have never had this happen before in like the 2 years i have had it

Hi. Thanks for your question
I wouldn't worry about it. Even though you've had your period for 2 years, you can still get the odd dodgy cycle.
You failed to mention whether you are sexually active. Although I am assuming even though your period was shorter than normal, it's not spotting and it's basically just a short period.. and nothing you should worry about.
See what your next one is like. If it keeps happening, mention it to your doc.

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I am in a completely enclosed room with only a mirror and a table. How do I get out?

"you look in the mirror and see what you saw
use the "saw" to cut the table in half
two halves make a whole
crawl through the "whole" to escape"

http://www.jiskha.com/net_riddle/display.cgi?id=1154958868

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My boyfriend is not coming home right after work but he calls me and stuff and recently he hasnt been coming over. I feel like my heart is tearing apart but I cant leave him because I love him to much. His attitude has changed a lot and its like i am alone. Someone help me i want to be loved. Do you think something is up? Oh by the way his ex is back in town.

Trust your instincts. The clues are there. It could be totally innocent, or you're right and he is cheating.
Talk to him and explain everything you are feeling so he can tell you exactly what is going on.

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If your on your period.. and the boy stays inside of you and doesnt pull out can you be pregnant?

we did that about five times on my period.

It doesn't matter if you are on your period or not. Unprotected sex can result in pregnancy - end of.
Take the morning after pill if you did it within 72 hours (remember its less effective the more you leave it) or just wait for your next period.

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