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I think he is cheating
My boyfriend is not coming home right after work but he calls me and stuff and recently he hasnt been coming over. I feel like my heart is tearing apart but I cant leave him because I love him to much. His attitude has changed a lot and its like i am alone. Someone help me i want to be loved. Do you think something is up? Oh by the way his ex is back in town.
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Usually when you think someone is cheating on you, most likely, they are. I would trust your intuition, as far as my opinion, something is definitely up. I think you should talk to him, because there may even be something going on with his ex. I hope I'm wrong, but it is a possibility.
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Trust your instincts. The clues are there. It could be totally innocent, or you're right and he is cheating.
Talk to him and explain everything you are feeling so he can tell you exactly what is going on.
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You know exactly what is up.
Ask him about it. He should be able to give you an acceptable and reasuring response. If not, at least you can begining the mourning process and the kicking him the hell out of your life process.
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the best thing to do in this situation is talk to him. if you assume he is cheating and accuse him of it with no actual proof, this will show him you have little trust in him and make matters worse. if you dont want to full on confront him, try asking him where he was in a curious way. not an angry way. Ask him what he did or how his day was. if he is trying to keep something from you ask about it. there is no easy way to talk to a partner about cheating but if you do it calmly and dont get angry or accuse him, it will work out best. i hope i helped and i hope all is well for you both!
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