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what album did mandy moore sing "Someday we'll know" in?
is osmeday well know a soundtarck from "awlk to remember"?
Yes, it is. You should check out other versions too - like New Radicals. I like that song, but not the Mandy Moore version :P
i am doing masterbution from one i think it get fall me in a illness please give a suggetion about masterbution and my quistion.
It won't give you any illnesses. If you use things which aren't clean - I suppose that can give you an infection.
Hello, you recently gave me advice on my boyfriend being mean problem.
well he texted me and said "Im sorry and stuff so we will talk about it later"
and then I texted him back and said
"The way your acting is no way a boyfriend should. Your supposed to make me feel special not put me down all the time. You can either change your selfish,rude ways or were done because I cant put up with this anymore"
and he texted me back and said "hold up you started this all and I was just tryin to apologize. Wait one min. You need to stop this now. and one more thing dont you ever threatin me talkin about your gonna leave thats a big no no!"
I dont know what to do anymore...
You know, if someone spoke to me in those rude, controlling ways, I wouldn't even bother giving them a second chance.
It's good you're standing up for yourself, though.
I guess the next step is your choice:
1. Give him a chance to explain and change.
2. Decide enough is enough and end it now.
Do you think he can change? If so, it may be worth giving him a weeks trial for example.. if there are no improvements, long story short:
He doesn't deserve you.
Whatever you choose to do is to make YOU happy. Not him. Don't be afraid to end it if you want to.
Im dating this boy whom I really like a lot.
But he is always really mean to me, and we fight all the time. He is always trying to make me have phone sex with him and he considers it "making up" he tells me all the time "lets fight so we can make up" and when I say no, he gets mad and starts saying I dont care about him and im selfish and I dont care about nobody but myself. He always has a way to turn things around and make me look like the bad person and feel really bad for something.
he calls me fat all the time and I only weigh 105 lbs and im 5'5. He calls me ugly all the time and then he says he is just playing. But sometimes he can be the sweetest guy in the world.
He is 16 and a preacher, so maybe he takes out his stress on me, or maybe its because he is black and im white?
Today him and I got into a fight and he told me
"If you were hangin off a cliff with lions and snakes under you, I wouldn't pull you up I would stomp you down"
I dont know what to do anymore.
Look, all you can do it talk to him. The way he is acting and talking to you is NO way a boyfriend should. He should make you feel special. Not put you down all the time.
He can either change his selfish, rude ways, or you break up with him. Let him know this. Give him an ultimatum.
Read your question back to yourself. Why are you putting up with that?
ok, this is a really dumb question, but what are the bases? like, i know first is a kiss, and fourth is sex (i think) but what are the rest of them? thanks
People have different opinions on this.
The most common is:
1st - French kissing
2nd - Handjobs
3rd - Oral
4th/homerun - Sex
I'm 15/f... Two years ago I was cast aside by my best friends for something out of my own control and I also got asked to leave the Christian school. Of course two years later I am going to a public school, have new friends and new life all that. But the people i left back at my old school that screwed me over are living the highschool life i wish I was living, it's all to easy for them. Is it because god just hates me?It doesn't make sense and it irks me to no end... it's two years I should be over this mess.
Sorry for the long question
thanks in advance
God wouldn't hate you.
You've had bad experiences - it does take time to get over them. I don't blame you for having these thoughts though. To be honest, I would too.
But you have to remember, they screwed you over. You shouldn't care at all about how they're getting on and living the high school life. You don't need them. You came out stronger from all of this. You have new friends, new school, new life.. Be thankful for it. Just forget about them. As I've said, it will take time, but eventually you will realize there's no need for you to be jealous over it. What happened in the past shouldn't affect your future. I can't stress enough you were only 13 at the time, too. People make mistakes (if you did) but become older and wiser.
Just think of it as a test.
You'll get through this.
i'm gonna show you a picture of my dog, right below here.
Tuesday night we found him on our porch, we don't know what happened to him, and i was hoping someone on here could tell me whats wrong, or what happened.
we don't have enough money to take him to a vet..but we have this ointment stuff, and one of our other dogs got cut and it healed him, so this should definetly work, but everyone else is telling us to get "blue ointment"?
well here he is, does anyone think he got cut or burnt?
my dad thinks he got ranover, but we're not so sure.
thanks alot!!
oh and this 'cut' is located on his back, almost by his tail, and it's really wide, thick, and kinda long.
here's the picture:
http://i12.tinypic.com/6s85eyr.jpg
Please, take him to a vet.
It looks very deep and in need of urgent medical attention.
I also wouldn't put anything on it either. It may hurt him ALOT and could do more damage.
Going to a vet is the only thing you can do I'm afraid.
I hope your dog is okay soon.
There is this guy I like, we flirt all the time, sleeps on my jacket, and he even got jealous when he saw a picture of another guy on my binder,and asked me if he could rip it up. Only one problem, he has a girlfriend. Everyone says they are g/f and b/f but he's says they're friends. So is he just flirting with me or he likes me? Should I go for it or forget him?
Thanks for your question.
Anyone can clearly see he likes you.
If he says he doesn't have a girlfriend, then I assume he's single - because noone would lie about something like that! Hopefully..
Just have another talk with him to be certain. If all is good, then definitely go for it.
If he does happen to be lying, you must forget him - He's an idiot and doesn't deserve you anyway.
blowjob???
why couldn't you use Google?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=blow+job
That website's good for other terms you may not know, too.
there is this boy and he is one of my bestfriends and i was the only one he used to talk to last year and now there is this girl who thinks she is perfect who came along and shes annoying and now he never talks to me anymore because her. help!
Maybe they like each other..
Although it's still no excuse for him to ditch you.
Just have a few words with him. Tell him you get upset because you don't really talk much anymore. ask him why that is. You will sort things out from there. All you have to do is ask.
i'm gay... how do i tell my mum?
Thanks for your question.
Firstly, you need to know if you are 100% gay before "coming out the closet".
If you are then there a many different approaches. I guess it depends on the relationship you have with your mum. Are you close to her? Do you tell her things about your life? If so, I feel the direct approach would be a good idea. Sit her down, then tell her straight.
"Mum, I think I'm gay"
or a long winded way of telling her, like;
"Would you love me no matter what? Well, I'm gay.."
I've heard those to work best to be honest.
If you feel a direct approach is too much for you, write her a letter.
Or subtly hint at it - but this may take a while, so it's better to just do it quickly and get it off your chest.
Your mum may be a bit shocked at first. If she is, she will probably come round to the idea eventually - after all, I guess she wants what's best for her son.
Best of luck!
how do you change the fonts on myspace? please hurry! PLEEAASEE!!
http://www.mygen.co.uk/index.php?page=tutorials§ion=colorfont
what are some good song about being in love, but we're far apart? i love this guy, i live in ohio & he lives in D.C. and i can't find any songs besides "hey there delilah." so if you know any, hook a sista uppp. (:
Check out the results:
There are tonnes of pages :)
Me and my best friend of 4 years recently stopped talking because things got awkward between us when we started accusing each other of lying (which we both did). We havn't talked for 6 months to be exact - and here's the weird thing - i havn't missed her! I thought my life would end without this girl.. but it didn't? Was there something wrong with our friendship (I dont think so because we even got the best-friend award at our school cause we're always together, and have supported eachother through funerals, earthquakes, broken hearts and soo much more!)? Well she contacted me 4 days ago through text message asking me why we randomly stopped talking and if I want to be her friend anymore, and I dont know what to answer. Do I? I dont miss her very much? But I dont know if Ive just been denying it to save myself from saddness? Actually, I dont know anything at all here.. what do you think is going on?
She is obviously missing you. Friends have tiffs all the time, although they don't stop being friends because of it.
4 years is alot to throw away. You have a past with each other.
I think it's normal not to miss her if you haven't really seen her since.
If you start talking and seeing each other again, you might realize you actually do miss her.
It's worth a try.
As I always say - you can never have too many friends.
heres what im making my boyfriendd
http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/6101/artwork2xn1.png
^^^as you can clearly see, im not done lol.
right now it currently says:
"ronny i love you"
its going to be a pillow.
now should the front of the pillow say anything
else with the extra space?
like "so much"?
or should i just do the rest black?
I really like it just how it is. I reckon overloading it with things just to fill up the space will ruin it. Sometimes, simplicity is best.
It's also a lovely idea by the way.
16/F
I'm due to get my period at the worst possible time! I'll be on a two-day class trip and we'll be going to a theme park. How can I prevent my period from coming? =/
You can't.
Just be prepared - take enough pads/tampons and don't let it ruin the fun.
Hi, I have wavy hair, and I hate it.
I want to get a hair cut.
What I want is:
side bangs
more layers
and three inches off
I want my hair to become curlier.
If I cut it will it become curlier?
Thanks!
Lara
Thanks for your question. :)
It would appear curlier, yes, because you are cutting 3 inches off and getting layers which is making it lighter.
I have curly hair too (although I straighten it) and the same thing happened to me.
I like this boy who is 17 and im 18 and we flirt all the time. I told him i liked him but he told me that we should be friends FOR NOW..
What does that mean?
Does he want to get together later or am i setting myself up for heartache?
You know what? You should ask him. Because it's impossible to know what he meant by it.
I assume he means it may happen in the future, but not quite yet.
If it was a definite no, he would have said so.. but it also might have been a way to make you feel less rejected. Just ask him what he meant.
last week i clicked on the "new friends" button and there was some guy's profile who ive never met and i never got a request from him, he just showed up in my friends list. then today i looked again and i had some clothing company's myspace in my new friends list. again i didnt get a friend request and even if i did i wouldn't have accepted it. is this some weird hack, do i have to change my password...AGAIN?
Change your password. Hackers are always finding new ways to get peoples passwords and do things to everyones profiles. I haven't heard of random people appearing on friend lists, but you never know..
Change it just incase. and don't fall for any of the phishing scams, such as entering your password on any pages unless it's the official sign in page. (if you're already signed in, you won't have to sign in again to view things, so be careful. and don't click random links unless you're sure what they are).
I am a 15 year old female and theres this guy that I've been talking to for a while. Apparently, I like him alot and I know he likes me even though hes too shy to say it. The thing is, my friends are on my case because hes a bit of a dork. Hes not bad looking, but hes not exactly Prince Charming. I want to be his girlfriend, but I'm second guessing it because of the remarks my friends make. What should I do?
Who the hell cares what your friends think or if they don't find him attractive.
It's YOUR decision, he would be YOUR boyfriend and he would make YOU happy. Not them.
Don't be afraid about what other people think. That is no way to live. You are your own person who makes your own decisions. You like him, so go for it and forget the comments people will make.
Being shallow is just awful.