Question Posted Thursday November 22 2007, 12:37 am
I like this boy who is 17 and im 18 and we flirt all the time. I told him i liked him but he told me that we should be friends FOR NOW..
What does that mean?
Does he want to get together later or am i setting myself up for heartache?
grandma_d answered Thursday November 22 2007, 8:07 pm: hello honey
i would be careful with boys like this. where they do one thing and say another. i would look carefully at how he talks and treats other girls because he may just be a flirty guy but if he is only flirting with you but then saying "friends for now" well he is setting you up. he is saying i like you your cute your something i would like to be with but i'm looking for something without strings. and that is a trap that will give you heartache.
good luck
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thelaura answered Thursday November 22 2007, 7:47 pm: You know what? You should ask him. Because it's impossible to know what he meant by it.
I assume he means it may happen in the future, but not quite yet.
If it was a definite no, he would have said so.. but it also might have been a way to make you feel less rejected. Just ask him what he meant. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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