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Go for it or forget him?
There is this guy I like, we flirt all the time, sleeps on my jacket, and he even got jealous when he saw a picture of another guy on my binder,and asked me if he could rip it up. Only one problem, he has a girlfriend. Everyone says they are g/f and b/f but he's says they're friends. So is he just flirting with me or he likes me? Should I go for it or forget him?
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How could you go for it if he has a girlfriend? He's a total flirt, but that sounds like that's about all he is. If you try something with him, the only thing that's going to come from it is a shit load of drama. If I were you, I would just stay away.
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Forget him because he'll do that with some other girl while he's dating you.
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It seems as though he likes you, please take a look at the link below and it should help you out. My only concern is the girlfriend, you need to find out from the girl if she's really dating him. If so, do NOT step over any friend boundaries, until if and when they break up.
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Whoever is saying he has a girlfriend, you need to find out who she is and talk to her. You need to confront her about it. "Are you ____'s girlfriend?" Simple as that. If she says yes, you can tell her how the guy is acting OR not. If she's not, then I'll be sure to go for it.
Or you can ask the guy if you three can hang out and observe their behavior?
You don't want to rush into something without getting your information straight. You don't want to be part of some drama. So you need to talk to some people about this 'girlfriend' and how long they have been dating [if they are], where they hang out, and if this guy talks about her around 'everyone'.
You could go for it, but if there's a girlfriend.. you know she's going to be angry at you.
he might be just flirting with you and he could like you, but if there's another girl in it, then it's not worth it.
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Thanks for your question.
Anyone can clearly see he likes you.
If he says he doesn't have a girlfriend, then I assume he's single - because noone would lie about something like that! Hopefully..
Just have another talk with him to be certain. If all is good, then definitely go for it.
If he does happen to be lying, you must forget him - He's an idiot and doesn't deserve you anyway.
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he sounds like a flirt. like how hes has a "girlfriend." obviously theyre not official if he doesnt consider her thatt, but then again hes probably flirting with her.
you should see. because he could really easily like youu, but you never know.
id get a mutual friend that you guys have to figure it out. like are you friends with any of his guy friends? have them ask about it.
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If HE says she's just a friend he's probably telling the truth. People talk ALL the time, so don't rely entirely on what they tell you. Since you like him (and he seems to like you) I would go for it.
However he seems to be the "easily jealous" type, so watch out for that. If he's a good kid it's worth a shot.
-LM
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