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is it weird that i like to finger myself?
No. It's called masturbation. Lots of people do it as it allows them to get to know their body and know how they like to be touched.
to be cynical? or what does it meean? l0l
:)
1.like or characteristic of a cynic; distrusting or disparaging the motives of others.
2.showing contempt for accepted standards of honesty or morality by one's actions, esp. by actions that exploit the scruples of others.
3.bitterly or sneeringly distrustful, contemptuous, or pessimistic.
i have a video on my myspace that i uploaded from photobucket, and my friend put the same exact one on her myspace but it's smaller...and i was wondering how i could make it smaller on my myspace..? thanks.
Look at the code for the video. There should be something like "width ____, height ____". Just make them smaller.
Okay, so here goes. I'm 15/f he's 15/m
I met his this school year and he is so perfect. I'm not even kidding when I say perfect. He's a complete gentleman, he respects everyone, he is very kind and generous and nice, he is really friendly, he is funny, he is very smart, he can draw like whoa, and he works out every morning and *drool*
Anyways, the problem is I don't know if he likes me back because he's in general a really nice person (from what I can tell anyway) He asked me for my e-mail in a really gentleman type of way and my phone number (which I kind of stupidly didn't give) & he's walked me to a class and stayed with me in the hallway for a while because I didn't want to go to the class he walked me to. He's a touchy feely type of person and so am I so we always hug. But he is like so amazing and I'm head over heels for him!
Should I just wait and try to figure him out more before trying to figure out if he likes me? i mean, I've only known him for about 2 months now and I don't even know if he's just like that with everyone or just me =/
Well, it would be a good idea to find out if he is like that with other people. I mean, there are signs there that he does like you, but you never know, you could be one out of the many others he is nice to.
Basically, he's either a generally nice person or he likes you. Noone here will be able to say for sure which he is - or if he is both - so that will be for you to find out.
Although if you don't find any evidence of him acting that way towards anyone else, then he most probably likes you and you should find a way to tell him how you feel, if he doesn't tell you already.
Just hang in there for a while whilst you try to find out. and in the mean time, don't let the spy get the better of you and start talking to him less. He may think something's up :)
lol sorry, my details probably haven't been telling you much about it to find out if i am or not. okay, me and my boyfriend has safe sex, and we check if the condom broke and all that stuff.. if it leaked or whatever. and it never broke or leaked and stuff. last night it broke, NEAR my vagina, not in it though. once he took it out, he hit my lip that's near the vagina.. i call it lips cause it looks like a mouth. lol but yeah, it hit the lip and the condom broke, and he didn't stick it back in me. he took it right off, he said that nothing got on me, and he did not cum. he said it was surpisingly dry. and told me not to worry cause he promised that i wasn't pregnant. becuase my boyfriend is safe, i mean SAFE. am i pregnant? what should i do? my period is supposed to be coming soon later this month, my period is weird.. it comes at different times, but i don't want it to be delayed because i'm worried. so am i pregnant?
The risk of you becoming pregnant is very slim, although, there is always that slight chance.
For now, you really shouldn't worry, because what's done is done. Wait for the time you should get your period. If you don't, or if it's late because you have irregular periods, you should still take a test.
In future, if it ever happens again, I suggest getting the morning after pill - it can be effective for up to 3 days after the incident.
You may also want to look into other methods of birth control, because as you can see, condoms don't always do the job.
Best of luck anyway. and I'm sure you will be fine. Don't worry
I was just wondering, when you give a guy a handjob..do you have to use like a lube? does it feel okay without it cause it seems like it wouldn't feel that good
Lube is better, but it's not a necessity, as I'm sure plenty people give handjobs without. When it comes to that time, just ask the guy what he'd prefer.
so i shave my "down below" because i hate hair. and i do but there is still like little black ones that you can see and it grows back in like two seconds. is there anyway that you can get the hair all the way off and keep it that way longer? thankss
The only thing you can do to get a closer shave is to use a new razor and go against the hair. Even then it won't guarantee hairless results and you can get a nasty razor burn - which is why you should try other methods, like waxing. Or perhaps get it done professionally if you're afraid of doing it alone. But this way will eradicate your small hair problems and you won't have to do it so often.
For christmas, I'm making my parents a DVD with pictures from the day they were married to now. This has taken me about a total of 7 hours so far and i'm only halfway done.
Do you think i should get them something additional on top of this?
It depends on you, personally. Do you have a budget or any money to spare? If so, you could get them somethng small, yet quite meaningful, just to add to the dvd - like candles/bath oils/chocolates/photo frame/etc.
Either way, I'm sure they will be happy with anything they receive - especially something which has come from the heart and taken alot of time to make. Well done by the way. It seems like a really nice idea.
If I have a big oval shaped head, poofy hair but getting a little bald at the front, is it a good idea to get side bangs?
If not, what style would look probably the most decent?
"The oval face is the most versatile face. You can pull off almost any look -- short, long, straight or wavy. No matter the length of your cut, you'll look best with layers near your cheekbones, lips or chin -- basically whatever feature you want to highlight."
So basically, any style goes - and as for the bangs, they will go too, especially if you need to hide the fact you're getting "bald". Heavier "Blunt bangs" will stand out more and add texture to your hair.
well i guess this isnt really sex, but it was close enough haha.
alright so recently i got fingered for the first time by my boyfriend that i realllly like a lot, but the problem is i dont see wht the big deal is. like i dont really seem to enjoy it. It feels weird, even. like it doesnt feel good, like people say it does. i dont know if its because its the first time ive ever done anything like that and i need to just get used to it, or if hes doing something wrong.
and im really like sexually attracted to him, so thats not the problem
please please help, i would really appreciate it :)
14/f
Since it was your first time, it was probably less enjoyable for obvious reasons. Not to mention teen boys being inexperienced - but I guess that's all part of the fun - by doing it more and getting to know what you like and how you like to be touched. Practice makes perfect - it may get better for you.
Although, to be fair, some females just flat out don't like fingering because it basically does nothing for them.
my gf is coming over tomorrow
and we're gonna do stuff
but i have this massive smot on my penis
i'm worried... i dunno what to do!
help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You should start by not worrying about what your girlfriend thinks for one.
Two: I assume you mean spot? You need to determine whether it's your average pimple or whether you need to see a doctor. If it doesn't clear up within a few days, get checked out.
Why you asked me this question is beyond me. You're better off asking a male.
but if you're worried about your girlfriend seeing it, don't be - she might not even notice anyway. Just make sure you're using protection - who's to say it's not an infection?
Ok I want my son 2 have a uniqe name that starts with a " M " but that not very known one of a kind I want it cool, uniqe, cute, and maybe even emo a little plz I need help by the way it has 2 a boy name
Madison, Magnus, Malachi, Marlin, Massimo, Matteo, Miles, Morley, Maddox, Makoto, Maarten.
say someone got drunk at ten one night and didnt drink anything else after, what time would they be sober at? and like does going to sleep make a difference in how long it takes? and does how much you drink affect it
There's not enough information here to determine even a possibility.
Alcohol effects everyone differently.
Your weight, height, age, what you've had to eat, what you're currently drinking and it's alcohol content, if you're a regular drinker etc etc are all factors that need to be put into consideration.
Drinking alot of water will help to flush the alcohol out. Also, eating will help (before and after). Sleep can help.. but may also help bring a nasty hangover in the morning.
Personally, If I were in that position, I'd probably start sobering up by 12 because I drink the same things, same amount, each week.. just not at 10pm.
Also, you mustn't forget it's very dangerous if you're a minor and you let it happen to you. It's late, you're drunk and very vulnerable.. So be smart about it.
i think i might have been fingered but i'm not sure if it was just touching. how do you know?also can you get anything from fingering/bjs
If his hands went in and/or around your "area" then you can classify that as being "fingered".
His fingers don't necessarily have to go "up" you.
You can get infections/diseases from BJ's, yes. Fingering on the other hand is safe as long as hands are clean.
How do I get a zit to go away by Sunday?
Use things around your home to dry it out.
These include:
*Toothpaste (best before you go to bed - dab it on and remove when you wake)
*Lemon juice (dab it on)
*Rubbing alcohol (dab it on)
and if you have any spot treatments, use them.
Do you feel it's okay to change your significant other? Let's saying, you liked to drink. Do you think it's okay for your bf/gf to persuade/threaten your relationship for you to stop? Vice versa. Do you think it's okay for you to tell them to stop or make them feel guilty because you don't like it? What if they only drank on special occasions or every other week/month. Is it okay to control them?
I'm curious on your thoughts :]
I don't think it's okay to control someone.
You can certainly tell them you don't like what they are doing and help them quit, but it's up to them whether they want to give it up in the long run.
The only time I feel it's necessary to start the "threats" is if what they are doing is putting themselves and others around them at risk. but that suggests the person needs help because it could be a dangerous addiction.
Other than that, people know what they are letting themselves in for before being in a relationship. You should know whether a person likes the occasional drink, smoke, whatever - and you should accept that. but don't forget, you can still tell them you don't like it. They MAY stop for you.
Noone's perfect. Maybe you could both find things to give up on to help each other through it.
My teacher is very annoying. One day, as soon as i came into the classroom, my teacher gave us cards and then she told us to go to the back of the room. If the card had a gold star, we would go into the front row. Anything without a star on it had to sit in the back. She said that the back row would get lower grades on their tests and they couldnt run (or vote ) for class presdient. So i got very mad. What should i do?
You may be reading into this in a different way. She may have given cards without stars to people she may think were slacking or weren't trying hard enough. To be honest, I very much doubt it's going to be permanent, because people work better and work their way up. I'm guessing she's doing it to scare you, because there are only limited amount of seats at the front row.
If you really think you deserved a gold star on your card, you can either talk to her, or show her how fantastic you can work and behave in class.
Why would a guy ask me if I got laid over break? Why tell me he got laid? What in the world did he tell me that for?
He's probably bragging about it, being nosey and wondering if you did.. Yeah, seems a little odd - but most people are! :|
My birthday is coming up soon, i am turning 13 adn am having 30 some girls sleep over at the local sports complex..it should be a balst but there is this one friend who is nice but she ditched me and my other firneds for more popular ones we had this huge fight for 2 years now were finally made up but then last night we kinda you know butted heades again but now were cool.....do you think i should invite her to my birthday party? shes really controlling but is SO nice, but sometimes we just dont get along and its definitly not like old timeswe dont sit with eachother at lunch or anything. should i invite her?
I reckon you should invite her anyway. You're friends, so who knows what may come of it. It might bring you closer together.
Plus, if you don't, it'll just cause more friction between you.
Remember though, at the end of the day, it's your decision. :)
i go to beauty school and i was getting a pedicure one night and another student was sitting next to me chatting to meand the girl doing it and he looked at me and said it looked like i had fallen arches. What does it mean to have fallen arches? how can it be corrected? and is it a big problem?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flat_feet
Read this. It will tell you everything you need to know. It's not bad, really. Lots of people have flatter feet.