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well i guess this isnt really sex, but it was close enough haha.
alright so recently i got fingered for the first time by my boyfriend that i realllly like a lot, but the problem is i dont see wht the big deal is. like i dont really seem to enjoy it. It feels weird, even. like it doesnt feel good, like people say it does. i dont know if its because its the first time ive ever done anything like that and i need to just get used to it, or if hes doing something wrong.
and im really like sexually attracted to him, so thats not the problem
please please help, i would really appreciate it :)
14/f
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You may have been uncomfortable with the situation, or maybe he just isn't very sexually-skilled... There really is no way for anyone else to help.
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Because it was your first time you probably were nervous or a little uncomfortable making your body tense. Just relax, also if he is to rough don't be afraid to guide him and show him what you like, experament yourself so you know what you like. Also don't think you have to rush into anything, first become comfortable with yourself and take your time, if you rush into thinks you might find yourself bored, have fun with the little things like kissing and touching and when you move into a step like fingering you will be much more comfortable.
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i think you should guide him a little on how to make it feel good for you. you know what you like, so you should teach him so he can please you and i bet after he gets some practice you will find it very enjoyable
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Since it was your first time, it was probably less enjoyable for obvious reasons. Not to mention teen boys being inexperienced - but I guess that's all part of the fun - by doing it more and getting to know what you like and how you like to be touched. Practice makes perfect - it may get better for you.
Although, to be fair, some females just flat out don't like fingering because it basically does nothing for them.
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if i were you i'd ask him if he's ever done it before. maybe he just doesnt know how to do it. but usually, the first time wont be the best. the more you do it the more enjoyable it gets, trust me :)
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