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Nice = Like?


Question Posted Sunday December 2 2007, 9:01 pm

Okay, so here goes. I'm 15/f he's 15/m

I met his this school year and he is so perfect. I'm not even kidding when I say perfect. He's a complete gentleman, he respects everyone, he is very kind and generous and nice, he is really friendly, he is funny, he is very smart, he can draw like whoa, and he works out every morning and *drool*

Anyways, the problem is I don't know if he likes me back because he's in general a really nice person (from what I can tell anyway) He asked me for my e-mail in a really gentleman type of way and my phone number (which I kind of stupidly didn't give) & he's walked me to a class and stayed with me in the hallway for a while because I didn't want to go to the class he walked me to. He's a touchy feely type of person and so am I so we always hug. But he is like so amazing and I'm head over heels for him!

Should I just wait and try to figure him out more before trying to figure out if he likes me? i mean, I've only known him for about 2 months now and I don't even know if he's just like that with everyone or just me =/


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koshii answered Monday December 3 2007, 9:12 pm:
He likes you. Boys at this age don't waste their time with girls they don't like!
If he's a gentleman, be a lady. Get him a simple gift or make him some cookies. Involve him in CONVERSATION--talk about politics, religion, world issues, art, etc. Not only is it fascinating to see what other people thing, it will let him know that you're not just some airhead girl who likes his looks. Show him that you're worth the effort!
Talk to him about his drawing and do research about it. I am an artist as well, and when someone shows interest in my drawings it's a VERY high compliment, because it's what I put real effort into.

It's not too late to give him your phone number. Just hand it to him and say, "I'd like you to call me some time if you're not too busy. Can I have yours too?" Keep it smooth. ;)

v.s. f/22

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thelaura answered Monday December 3 2007, 12:44 pm:
Well, it would be a good idea to find out if he is like that with other people. I mean, there are signs there that he does like you, but you never know, you could be one out of the many others he is nice to.
Basically, he's either a generally nice person or he likes you. Noone here will be able to say for sure which he is - or if he is both - so that will be for you to find out.
Although if you don't find any evidence of him acting that way towards anyone else, then he most probably likes you and you should find a way to tell him how you feel, if he doesn't tell you already.
Just hang in there for a while whilst you try to find out. and in the mean time, don't let the spy get the better of you and start talking to him less. He may think something's up :)

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