The_only_Girl answered Saturday December 1 2007, 3:37 pm: Uhm, I classify being 'fingered' as his finger...going in you. Just touching around you is exactly what it is...just touching. If his hands are clean you'll be fine. [ The_only_Girl's advice column | Ask The_only_Girl A Question ]
thelaura answered Saturday December 1 2007, 2:20 pm: If his hands went in and/or around your "area" then you can classify that as being "fingered".
His fingers don't necessarily have to go "up" you.
You can get infections/diseases from BJ's, yes. Fingering on the other hand is safe as long as hands are clean. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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