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what do i do?
My birthday is coming up soon, i am turning 13 adn am having 30 some girls sleep over at the local sports complex..it should be a balst but there is this one friend who is nice but she ditched me and my other firneds for more popular ones we had this huge fight for 2 years now were finally made up but then last night we kinda you know butted heades again but now were cool.....do you think i should invite her to my birthday party? shes really controlling but is SO nice, but sometimes we just dont get along and its definitly not like old timeswe dont sit with eachother at lunch or anything. should i invite her?
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yeah, invite her. you shouldn't hold grudges.
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I think that you should invite her, because she was once you friend and people who are you friends need to be treated like them.
You guys might have your differences but you will be the better person because you might invite her to your party. And since you said that she is very nice, maybe when you guys do Butt heads, you can talk to each other calmly, it's easier said than done, but try it, it might help. :)
-AJ
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i think you should invite her.. because she will find out about it and it will probably hurt her feelings to beyond repair.. if she's controlling at you party you should just think "hey its my party and i'm going to make it mine not hers!" so i would just have fun with her, and be outgoing towards everyone, and just ignoor her if she starts getting on your nerves. but i honestly think because all of your guests know its your party they will be more interested in you. if you invite her it could be good for both of you, it could turn into old times again! :)... just have fun!!! and don't worry about her
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Whatever your decision is after reading this, keep this in mind.
"Sometimes you just have to forget what
you want, & remember what you deserve."
Personally, I think it`s really stupid when people ditch real friends to have a bunch of fake "popular" ones, so I`m sorry you had to go through that. Even though you probably want her to come, you don`t need someone to control you. You don`t want one person to mess up the whole party & if you think there`s even the slightest possibility of that happening, don`t invite her to ruin your night.
Although if you think it would bring you two closer together, go for it. Just try not to mention anything that could make her even a little bit mad if you decide to invite her, because that could easily start a fight between the two of you & ruin the party. & if something happens where she mentions something & it makes you mad or bothers you, just try to ignore it & stay away from her the rest of the night.
It really just depends on what you think is more important. =]
Goodluck!
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I reckon you should invite her anyway. You're friends, so who knows what may come of it. It might bring you closer together.
Plus, if you don't, it'll just cause more friction between you.
Remember though, at the end of the day, it's your decision. :)
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i say if you have been friends with her so long you should. jsut think about this, if you don't invite her, would you feel bad that she isn't there or would you feel lonely without her. Just think of how u would feel. You might as well jsut invite her and it is her decion weather or not she comes. i mean, if she doesn't that means taht she really doens't want to be with you, most likely, and if she shows up..then you know she is still your friend and wants to be with you. Good luck.
~sealgirl~
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