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my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time?

don't kiss a ton... just every now and then to show him you care about him is fine. if you just want to cuddle then do that.

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me and my boyfirend have been goin out for three months today he got me a ring for christmas do u think that is to early to be gettin somethin like that?

it's not up to us...we're not in the relationship.

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Ok. I recently bought my first pair of Converse. They are Chuck Taylor Premiere All Star, Low, and I was wondering if I am supposed to wear socks with them. If it helps, I'm a girl.

i wear low socks with mine usually. if you wear a skirt, you can wear knee highs too. journeys has some really cute ones!

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Hello. I am a 14/m. A few months ago I made a REALLY bad choice and it got me arrested. :-\ Now everyone of my friends parents hate me.... except for two. Those are the two who have met me. The ones who have met me like me. All the others hate me for no reason at all. Half of them have never even seen me and they hate me. They won't even give me a chance. I regret what I did. But i think I deserve a chance. It just pisses me off so much. Is there anything I can do?

Well, i can see whay it would matter right now, but don't dwell on it. Some people are just going to dislike you no matter what you do. It's happened to me and I'm sure it's happened to a lot of people. Just be good for now on, do good things in front of their faces every now and then. If they don't see that you are a good person, they're not worth trying to please.
ideas on good things to do: go to service (if you belong to an organized religion), do some community service, help someone when they need you, send their family a christmas card even if they hate you, send thank you cards if they help you out..be good.

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where do they sell equipment for dj-ing?

Try a local music store. I think Guitar center is nationwide & has DJ equiptment.

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lately i want to go bi because i dont like having sex with men anymore ive never been intimate with a girl before i mean their were lots of times but never all the way im physically attracted to woman but emotionally attracted to men but want absoulutely no sex from guys whats wrong with me im only 21

No, there is nothing wrong with you besides the fact that you are 21 years old and are still writting run-on sentences.

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Hey guys. well i just got my cartillage pierced on my right ear and its only a little stud. Well, i play basketball and we can wear earings during practice as long as there not dangly, but we have a game on wednesday and i just got my piercing done this previous wednesday. do you think it would be ok if i took it out for an hour while i play in the game or will it close up?

For an hour, you should be ok. it'll hurt a little bit to put it back in but it wont be too bad since you survived the initial piercing. most leagues won't let you have earrings in even if they're covered so i wouldn't even try. you'll be fine. play hard!

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I have pimples here and there. I have tried like almost everything. Proactive doesn’t work for me so don’t say that! Pulse half of you just say it because everyone else says it works because you just want a good rating. I need any home remedies or anything I can buy. I have oily skin btw if this helps! Plz what can I do??

i used to have acne and the rubbing alcohol thing will stinggg a lot and will dry out your face. do it if you are DESPERATE.
see a derm if you can. it will change your life, i swear! The longer you wait, the longer it takes to get rid of it.

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AHHH!! how can you tell if your cherry's been popped?? i've never had sex

sorry but the "alleycatt" person before me is wrong. yes, you can pop it by doing the splits, using a tampon, horseback riding, etc. so, even if you havent had sex, it could happen. also, by a certain age, it "disintigrates". it's not a big deal. some people aren't born with one.

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me and my gf r getting pretty far sexual wise and its to the point where im fingering her....im worried im gonna pop her cherry n she will freak out...cus weree not havin sex till marriage....i need some advice

ask her what she wants. if you do end up fingering her, don't put more than 1 finger in so you don't pop it.

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my boyfreind never talks to me and we never see eachother..
what should i do.?//

i think you should break up. you guys aren't bf and gf if you dont see or talk to one another.

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What's a good muscle relaxer liquid (you know, spread it on the stiff, sore muscle and the soreness goes away) that doesn't stink? I tried Tiger Baum and it worked wonderfully but it also smelled very strong and very bad.

Thera-gesic & sportscream. there are off brands too that might not smell as much but most do smell.

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I was shopping yesterday and I bought a shirt and my total was 17 dollars and something cents. Well I grabbed into my wallet and thought I pulled out a 20 and gave it to the casher.


I don't know if she wasn't paying attention or what but after she put the bill into the register, she asked me what I gave her. I said it was a 20 because I thought it was.


When I was at home I was looking through my wallet and I REALIZED THAT I GAVE HER A 100 DOLLAR BILL!


Now I don't know if it's too late to go back tomorrow and see if I can get my money back. Would they give it to me??

she asked you what the bill was before she looked at it? honestly, i don't think you're going to get your money back. the chick probably kept the $80 bucks since it didnt mention anywhere that you gave her a $100. go back as soon as you can if you still think there's hope tho!

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Hey. Well, I am 13/f in the 8th grade, and I'm doing a science project about light and heat energy. I was wondering if this is a good science fair question-"Does a 23 watt Compact Flourescent light bulb give off more heat and light energy than a 25 watt Incandescent light bulb?". Please let me know if this is a babyish experiment, or if it's advanced and good or whatever. Thanks!

I think that's a good project to do. make sure you record the information several times a day and take good notes on it.

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where do you find a serial number on an olympus camera?

I guess it depends on the camera itself but some places I would look would be: the bottom, somewhere on the sides, the box or in the instructions.

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hey my boyfriend is coming over today,and i want to do somthing romantic for him.so can anyone give me any ideas????
i rate high!!!

you could make him some cookies, watch a movie, cuddle...

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i have an assignment due for my world history class, and i'm supposed to make a collage of main events of 2005.. and i cant think of anything.. any ideas?!

the tsunami, hurricane katrina, the war in iraq, britney spears' pregnancy, pope john paul II, rosa parks...
look in people magazine.

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For school, we had to read the book "To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee and I really didn't like it. Not to sound shallow or immature or anything, but the whole racism theme was rather dull (not saying that racism is dull, but I mean that it's dull to read about when you could be reading other things. If you want to read about racism, go take a History class and learn about it from a text book), and the background setting of a dusty little town in Alabama and the boring, nosy, gossipy people without lives was not appealing. It's not exciting to read about. And Scout wasn't a realistic person. I mean, what 7-year-old uses words like "morphodite"? Take Les Miserables, it's about redemption and is very dramatic and exciting---a renounced thief on the run.I am the only person in the whole grade who didn't like TKAM. Whenever I talk to anyone about it they always go "OMFG I LOVED IT HOW CAN YOU NOT LIKE TKAM?!" Now, we have to write an essay about whether we liked it, and saying that it was not appealing and Scout is not realistic is not tangeable. She'll say it's off-topic and has nothing to do with the meaning of the book. I understand the meaning of the book, but I still don't like it. I talked to my dad and he just said that I'm not mature enough for such advanced literature, which is not true. What am I supposed to do?!

Ihave to read that for school...I opened to the first page, read the first paragraph then put it down. I just wanted to say I admire you for actually reading it and getting through the whole thing. just tell your teacher the truth that you hated it but don't just whine and complain in your essay!

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hey everyone. need some help.. well im goin to a party tonight for a friend who moved away but is in town now.. i dont know if this is just like a chill party or like dancin. you know? so i was thinkin of just jeans and a cute top.. but now i dont know bout hair.. i was thinkin either a cute messy bun or completely straight. anymore ideas.. the outfit is not dressy so nothing dressy. if you could give me a link too that'll be great

x0o
--tosha

i would go with the messy bun. have fun!

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First of all, please don't give me the evils or alcohol or drugs or any crap like that, I'm of legal age where I live.
Secondly, about a month ago, I got drunk. This was the first time I got actually drunk with a hangover and all. I used to drink before that and ocassionally got tipsy but this time I let all self control go and downed a two six of Smirnoff with my friend. I threw up and was sick all of the next day.
About a week later, I took a sip of Vodka again and promptly threw up. Now, everytime I thing about drinking Vodka, I feel like I know I'm going to be ill.
New Years is coming up and I bought a lot of alcohol and now I'm afraid I won't be able to drink it. Can any one find a remedy for this? The thought of not being able to drink is thoroughly depressing.

Wow, that seriously stinks! try something besides vodka...there's all kinds of possibilities && try not to get completely wasted.

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