ok well i used to go out with this boy im not saying his name tho and well he treated me with respect and he cared about me and he would always see how my day was and cheer me up he was the only guy who could ever make me laugh and smile when i was crying or deprssed and then i dumped him for another guy that i thought was sweet but apparently not becuz he keeps telling me and with alot of force in his tone to give him head and to have sex with him and i reallie miss the guy i dumped becuz he was the closest thing to perfect that i had in my life and when it was just me and him it felt like nothing else existed but me and him and the least i could have done was treated him with respect in return. and this is all my fault!!!
plz help me
i dont know exactly what the question is here. but im going to take a stab at it and say that yu want to know what to do about this... so my answer to that would be to dump this jerk that your are dating now and go back to your ex. tell him you didnt realize how much he actually meant to you until you lost him. he may take you back but he may not because you hurt him once and he doesnt want to be hurt again. you got a 50/50 chance girl. so get on that. alteast you know you tried. and dont stay with this new guy. he seems like a total ass.
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I'm really close to my cousin who is 2 years younger than me (we're both girls). But its the fact that we've been around eachother our whole lives that makes us close. If it wasn't for being related, I would never hang out with her. All her life, she's been a follower and there is absolutley nothing thats unique about her. AT ALL and I'm tired of it. When the whole "skater" thing was in...she pretended to be a skater. Now that the "punk" thing has been in for awhile shes followed that. I know, I know..."some people like it, so let them be". But she's always posting things like "peace" "drop food not bombs" blah blah blah because her older brother does it (he's a punk, but he's been a punk for awhile and he's truly into it). So she's going around posting all this crap, and she has NO CLUE whos running for president. She has NO IDEA on politics whatso ever and here she is posting all this crap. Another thing is her vegetarianism. She became a vegetarian because her brother and all of their punk friends were vegetarians. I asked her why she became one, and she would not answer me because she had nothing to back it up with. Its cool that she doesn't eat meat--I don't either (I don't eat it because of health/personal reasons whereas her brother does it for the animals) and I have no problem sharing that with people. But her on the other hand... yea. And she's embarassing to go places with because of the way she dresses. Her pants are super tight and she'll sew the bottoms for them to look like that and she's not exactly skinny or someone who would look good in those pants. The other day, her pants ripped in the butt area and she was embarrassed. Then she shouldn't wear such tight pants. She can afford regular pair! Thats what she buys at the stores. Its not the fact that shes "punk"...its the fact that its all a stupid little show. And she's such a drama queen too. I'm so sick of her. She hardly takes a shower and she thinks she's the best at everything, I'm not even kidding. She thinks she sings really, really good and everytime I sing in the car really low to a song on the radio, she'll hear me and start trying to sing over my voice (I'm not even singing loud in the first place, so I don't know how she can hear me). Her voice is TERRIBLE. Even my other family members talk about it behind her back. To sum it up...my cousin is so unoriginal its disgusting. I know the world is full of people copying other people, but some things you only see once or twice. But everything on her is like every sellout thing imagined. And she's so self-absorbed. I'm sick and tired of it. But because we're cousins I can't just tell her all of this. How can I tell her in a more polite way to stop living off of what other people do or say and start becoming your own person?
ok for one, she can act how ever she wants. nothing u can do or say will stop that so just let it go. im not sticking up for her none the least bit, but i ma just simply letting you know the facts. if you dont like hangin out with her, then stop. when your at a family function do your own little thing and everytime she comes around you just simply walk away and let her be. that is really the only thing you can do. when your in the car with her and she starts singin, turn the damn radio off. when she says something about it tell her u dont feel like listening to it. if she still continues to sing then just tell her to shut the hell up. i know how annoying it must be but you cant change that. so just try to avoid her in any way possible. gl.
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goes anyone know where u can get free music download cuz i want a alot of songs from korn and judest priest
- bri
limewire- www.limewire.com
kazaa- www.kazaa.com
winmx- www.winmx.com
lime wire is prolly the best. i think anyways. and kazaa is also a good one. but winmx sucks. i hated it.
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What is the title of the song that goes.."I'm goin crazy, I wanna be your lady..." And who sings it???? i'll rate everyone a 5 if it's right.
the song is "Goin Crazy" but Natalie. its a pretty good song. i got it on cd.
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hey ok heres my problem. my boyfriend thinks im too shy too kiss or do anything!!! im not evenshy in the least bit! is there anyway i can tell him im not too shy to do that kind of stuff without sounding slutty?
u can tell him by showing him that your not shy. like kissing for example, if your out with people in public... kiss him. that will show your not shy. and kissing is not slutty, so dont worry about looking or sounding it.
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my step-dad made me download mozilla firefox because it is supposed to be better than microsoft internet explorer.. so my question is.. is it really better? and i also am having a problem seeing my mail on optium online
i had to use mozilla for a while. and i hated it. i thought it sucked. but hey, some people like it better. just try it out and see which you like better.
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Ok i know this will sound stupid but i dont know maybe it means nothing but when someone types
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i have asthma and i wanna start smoking cigarettes *kinda depressed* but yah.. i don't wanna die from it lol.. but you'd think i'd be getting used to it bc my sister smokes everyday on the way to and from school.. soo ya.. would it be that big of a harm to me? if ur gonna lecture on how bad smoking is.. then dont answer
no... i know lots of people who have asthma and who smoke. no worries. you should be fine. and plus your around it all the time and second hand smoke is even worse than actually smoking... so go for it and do as you wish! smoke away!
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um.. ok i go to a catholic school and i'm going through rough times. i know many of my friends who've cut themselves well i was doing my s.studies project and i was using sharp scissors and i was questioning myself if it would go through my skin b/c the last time i had i tried to cut myself it didnt work.. well this time it did. so know i have 3 cuts on my arm, i seriously regret doing it, i showed my mawmaw and im never doing it again BUT i have a passion play tommorow and i'm afraid that my religion teacher will see it.. should i be afraid or is there any tips to hide it b/c a big band-aid will be noticable. thanks for the help
13/f
its cool. u shouldnt really worry about it. but if u...
if the cuts have stared to heal and are lke scabbing already then use some cover up on it. blend it in. if the cuts are still open in any way though, dont do that. u dont want them to get infected.
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The last couple of weeks i've been noticing that I have been eating A LOT!! now i'm afraid i'm gonna gain a lot of weight. i eat when i get home from school up till dinner and no matter how hard i try, i can't stop!! does anyone have any suggestions? if u do please help!!
well instead of being home to eat all day after school, so outside and hang out wth some friends, away from your house (so u cant go in and get anything). that way you wont have anything to eat... unless u pack stuff to go, but you dont want that, lol.
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My cousin's family invited me to go on a cruise with them to Cancun and Cozemel. I really want to go but if my cousin and I spend at least 2 hours together, we don't get along. She will get mad at me and I will have no one to hang out with because her dad's side of the family is coming, too (I don't know them because we're not related) But this is a once in a lifetime opportunity...Should I go or no??
hell yes you should go. its cancun, if you dont get along with her, then there is always someone down there to hang out with. you will be able to find someone to hang out with.
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My hair is gets all this static in it and it's driving me crazy! It's like when you rub a balloon to your hair and it just sucks! Does anyone know of any hair products that would help with my problem??
♥ Mee! (=
you could just take a fabric softner and carry it around in your purse or something and when your hair is really staticy just rub the fabric softner on your hair! Trust me, it works!!!
♥
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THIS IS PRETTY LONG AND BORING....
Im 20m and never had a girlfriend!!!I never even hold or kiss a girl before.... It's not that im ugly or gay, although im not the cute or handsome type either. When i was in high school there were a few girls that come up to me but they weren't my type so i refused them all. But the girl that was my type, i never had the courage to ask them out (im very shy around the girl i like). Now that i drop out of college and work fulltime, i dont have the chance of meeting new people. HOW AM I GOING TO GET A GF? I dont hang out that much and i had never step foot in a club before. Here's the weird thing, the older i get the pickier i am about girlfriend. I thought that not having a gf is suppose to make me desperate, but im not, although i do want a gf pretty bad. What make it worse is that i dont like party girls or girls that would go out with someone that just met and thought he is kinda cute, of course there is nothing wrong with that, im just being picky. I would like to get to know the girl a lil bit before i go out with her, but HOW AM I GOING TO DO THAT????
well you obviously have to meet the girl and go out together or atleast get together a few times for you to get to know her. you cant just meet her one day and know all about her that very instant, you ahve to meet up a few times whether it be to dinner or for coffe at starbucks or lunch or just a movie at your place, your still going to have to be together to know about her. sheesh!!!!! quit being so picky about that. u have to give her a chance atleast.
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hey there, some of you know that I answered a LOT of questions in this site. My friend doesnt have internet in her house so she asked me to ask for your opinion.
She likes her best guy friend, a lot, she cant stop thinking about him and she always gets upset when hes around other girls. I know he considers her as his sister, HE TOLD ME!
What she wants to do is let him realise she likes him more than a friend but I told her it would screw up everything! things would get awkward and stuff. So what she's asking is, should she tell him? Personally I dont think she should.
And she also asked why he hangs out and fools around with other girls instead of her?
I told her because you dont have the same interests and he thinks youre too calm (he told me). So do you agree with me or do you have another opinion?
in my opinion, i dont think that friends should become an item because it ruins the freindship you once had. if anything would go wrong, so would your friendship. often times, it never ever works out. but then again there is an occasional time when thing work out between the both of them and if it doesnt work in a relationship, they can still be friends. so my opinion on this would be if she wants to tell him after she already knows he doesnt like her that wya, then fine. but before she does decide, she should find out what he thinks of her first. and since you have already stated that he doesnt like her in that way, i say she should just try and be friends with him so it doesnt mess up the friendship they already have... but hey its her choice. if she wants to tell him so she can hear from him herself about how he feels and what he thinks about her then just let her go and let her tell him. nothing you can really do or say is gonna want to stop her from telling him, so she is going to do what she wants.
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Umm. This is pretty awkward to say, but I recently just got a boyfriend for the first time, which is exciting and all..except he has been all the way, meanwhile I have never even kissed anyone..but he doesnt know that.. what should I do?
well kissing-- there is nothing to it. it is easy and it comes naturally. at first you can just follow his lead. after you have done it you will be better at it. but just let him know that you havent done anything. i dont think he will be too upset.
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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.
Thanks!
tell her the truth about what you think about her. some thing for example could be
i like your laugh
your pretty
your beautiful
i like your eyes
you make me laugh
i love to be around you
i cant help but smile when i see you
your amazing
your everything to me
whatever you feel and what ever you like about her, specify it to her. but dont go overvoard with all of it. you wouldnt want to scare her off by making her thing you are obsessive or anything. and dont make stuff up when your telling her these things, just to make her feel good. be truthful. and that should do it.
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couple of nights ago i had sex with one of my best friends we were really into the moment and we did it without a condom i pulled out way before i came and she orgasmed and the next mornin she started her period. i know im prolly being paranoid but i always hear theres a chance of a girl being pregnant even if the guy didnt cum so if anyone knows how high the chance of her being pregnant is please tell me thank you.
there is a chance of her becoming pregnant because of pre ejaculation. but f she started her period, then you most likely have nothing to worry about. it is however possible still. but your chances are very very low.
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i was just wondering about this with some friends the otherday:
-If a word in the dictionary were misspelled, how would we know?
--and
-If you ask someone if they're a compulsive liar and they answer yes, should you believe them?
--ohh also
-If a person with multiple personalities threatens suicide, is that a hostage situation?
thx and plz answer asap :)
hmmm... i would say that true bordom has gotten the best of you guys. lol but
-try looking in another dictionary, but i dont think they are spelled wrong
-i guess youll just bever know, now will ya? just something to have to think about... truth or not? believe it or dont believe it?
-its all one person so i dont see how it would be, but hey who knows!
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I have this aquaintence that I see on campus from time to time. We went to the same high school. 21/f. We had this class together and some girls were talking about her and being really catty because she has lots of money and she is sorta fake but not offensive. She has never been anything but nice to me. I didn't appreciate that those chicks that didn't even know her were judging her. I still see her every week and I think about that often. Should I say anything or is it just water under the bridge?
yeah... you should say something if they do it again. right now it is over with and done. so dont bring it back up. but if it does happen again, you should have her back. she will prolly be glad that someones got her back.
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my boyfriend always fingers me and eats me out but the problem is i never have an orgasm. i was wondering why that is or if theres anything i can do to have one?
14/f
most girls dont orgasm that young in age. most girls dont have a real orgams until they reach their twenties.
but if u think it is just you or just him not getting the job done, then tell him what you would like him to do. he will be more than willing to do it if he can make you orgasm. but just remember what i said avove this though. if it doeant help then you'll just have to wait to experience it.
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