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Should I tell her?
I have this aquaintence that I see on campus from time to time. We went to the same high school. 21/f. We had this class together and some girls were talking about her and being really catty because she has lots of money and she is sorta fake but not offensive. She has never been anything but nice to me. I didn't appreciate that those chicks that didn't even know her were judging her. I still see her every week and I think about that often. Should I say anything or is it just water under the bridge?
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There are always going to be catty, bitchy people. You can tell her if this is going to be a huge problem for you, but I don't see any reason behind it. Just be wary of what they say and what they do, but otherwise, it's nothing.
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Hey. Well if you hear those girls talking about her again tell them to shutup and stop being immature by making fun of people. If you think that the girl should know then go for it and tell her. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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yeah... you should say something if they do it again. right now it is over with and done. so dont bring it back up. but if it does happen again, you should have her back. she will prolly be glad that someones got her back.
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I remember in school, my best friend was always being talked about badly, and I felt like I should tell, but I knew that if I took it very offensively, then she would and it would hurt her feelings, so just water under a bridge is how it should be taken. You can say, "I know her, and shes very nice to me, when I got to know her, shes nothing you guys are describing." But, I think you should leave them alone.
-TheTeenGirl
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Definately water under the bridge. Don't start some unneeded drama. You aren't in high school and she doesn't need to hear it down the grapevine. If someone truly has problem with someone they really should say it themselves. No need to upset a friend.
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I wouldn't say anything to HER about it.I think she probably just doesn't know how to act any differently.Next time the others bring it up you should tell THEM that, hey I went to high school with her and she has always been nice to me.Sometimes people will cut down someone because they are jealous of them...That is probably the case here.Just put your opinion out there if it comes up again and leave it at that.
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Who cares what they think. Just ignore them and keep being a good friend to her. People like them are just annoying and probably jelous of what she has. x0
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Its nothing important. Ignore them immature people and move on with having a good friend!
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