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ok i've had my period for bout 5-6 months. And if been at the end of the month but this time if hasn't happen i got it at the end of September but not at the end of October? Is this normal? What's wrong?

yea. the first couple of years of your period your schedule will be irregular. dont worry about it. if your really really worried you can always go see a doctor, but i think your fine. after a couple years if it still does this you might want to go get it checked. but i seriously doubt anythings wrong.

michelle;

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To be honest A part of me doesnt want a boyfriend right now and another part does. Ive been going out with my bf for two years today.. I'm still young and my boyfriend is two years older. I dont realy know what to do or say right now but ive felt like crap today. Its hard to expalin..When he kisses, hugs me, or anything i dont feel butterflys or somthing special. But.. When this new kid that i just met yesterday (ive hung out with him all day the last two days) if i just think about him i get butterflys and i can feel my heart pounding...


Signed,
Confused



13/f

P.s The new kid is only a year older and is in my grade.. My bf is 15 1/2 and is in 9th..

dont keep leading your boyfriend on. if you dont feel the sparks anymore just let him know. just tell him things arnt the same anymore and you feel that hes more of a friend then a boyfriend. but dont go after this new guy right away cause that could really hurt your currant boyfriend. just take it slow and dont rush into things. tell your current boyfriend your young and you want to experience with others too and you think now is the time! good luck hun.

michelle;

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Okay Does anyone know what I can use to wash my face in that will not make my face dry and will make it soft. I use Irish Spring soap it it like makes my face peel and makes it really dry it seems like it tightens my skin up or something. So does anyone know of anything like soap or face wash that want dry my skin out and make it feel soft?

dont use regular soup as a face wash. soup has chemicals in it that are used to pull the oils out of things. thats why there are special soups out there for your face. a good soup that doesnt make you peel is cetephille. it helps keep acne away and washes away makeup and what ever else you want to get off like dirt and stuff. but stop using regular soup as a face wash because thats whats making it peel. also if your face continues to peel you can get moisturizers that help keep away dryness but dont make your face greasy. just go to a drugstore or something and look around at "lorel" products or any other stuff you might think youd like. good luck!

michelle;

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ok look its been about 5 weeks now.. how do you no if you are preganent wat are sighns.. i mean its been 5 weeks i figured i would like my belly getting to show or something

its only 5 weeks your stomoch wouldnt be showing already. it starts to show around 5 months..if you didnt know that you shouldnt be trying to get pregnant. i dont know if you are but im just saying. some signs would be a missed period obviously. also tender/sore breasts, moodswings, cravings, fatigue, etc. you can look other signs up on the internet. also just get a pregnancy test. if your a teen they cant deny you of buying one just like they cant deny you of buying condoms. so get a pregnancy test because its the only way you can be sure your pregnant.

michelle;

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Right well we got a swimmin pool built in our school last month and when the girls are on their periods they aren't allowed to sit out but are forced to use tampons!!!!!! I haven't been on since it was built but oomg. I am so scared. I have never used a tampon and I'm never GONNA so don't suggest I do. Isn't it like illegal to force us to use tampons or somethin? My friend even got her rents in about it and they still made her use tampons!! What can I do on swimmin days that I am on? I'm not using a tampon but I'm not standin in the changing room arguing bout whether to use one or not with the PE teacher its embarassing!!

no its not right for them to do it. they cant force you to do anything. and if they do you can get the court in on it. so just tell them your not going to swim. they cant do anything about it! they cant like throw you in or anything. and if they threaten to give you an f take it. then tell your parents and have them get the court in on it because trust me i know, they cant force you to use tampons or do anything you wouldnt normally.

michelle;

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okay well lately the area around my vagina has been really itchy. like since firday (today is wensday). its like really sore and pinker than usual. i told my mom but she didnt think anything of it. she thought it was a reaction to the soap so i tried the kind i used before and it still is like this. before my discharge was just white but now its like yellow and smells gross. should i go see a doctor and if so what do they do? and what should i do/not do before going?

*i rate 5's*

you have an infection. go to the doctor. she or he will perscribe you with something. if you just tell them your symtoms they can probibly tell you have an infection and give you the right medicine for it. so just tell your mom if you havnt already about the discharge and that your worried and you want to see a doctor! good luck.

michelle

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ok i wanna have sex with my boyfriend.
but some part of me is scared....
why is that??
i'll rate.
and dont give me some "your to young to have sex" bullshit.
or any of that.

it means your not ready.

if your scared then that means your having doubts and your not ready. so just wait. you dont need to rush into everything.

michelle

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there is this boy that i have liked for ever and he always tells me how he likes me too, as a friend. well he is preppy and im preppy but turning skater and im scared he wont notice me at all if i change. what should i do because i really want him and his attention?

you cant just "turn skater"..specially without people giving you shit for it. good luck with that.

be yourself dont be fake. then he'll notice you.

michelle

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What is that piercing called when it's right above your lip off to the side (kinda where Marilyn Monroe had a beauty mark)?

a monroe.


lol


and i think theyre awsome. i love peircings.

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okay well my friend went out with this guy and she treated him really bad, she played games with him and didnt really act like she liked him and they finally broke up cus he couldnt trust her cus she was always lieing to him && flirting wiht other guys and a few..weeks--maybe?--he started talking to me and we started liking eachtother and after a few weeks of talking and getting to know eachtoehr a little better, he ask me out and i said no cus i think my friend still likes you, but i talked to her and she said it wouldd be okay, so he asked me out again and i said yes this time and she was okay with it until after a few weeks,about 2 or 3 maybe, after i had started to really like him. she started getting mad at me and spreading rumors about me and everytime she saw him she would try to be all over him adn kiss him and all that and he'd be like get off of me i have a gf, and she would be like who cares about her? and she talked really bad abotu me behind my back but then around me shed be like ohh i love you! like she wanted to figth me at one point and then she took my best friend from me...and she doesnt like me anymore but she'll be all nice to me when she needs a ride somewhere or something ... so what should i do? i mean i want us to be friends but i dont want her to go on talkign about me behind my back. and dont say to break up with him cus we've been going out for a while now and i love him a whole lot. so please tell me what i can do to get her to stop spreading rumors about me and about him to break us up!

you still want to be her friend after she did all that shit to you?? shes a bitch! you shouldnt be friends with her at all. if she keeps doing it just stand up for yourself and tell her to knock it off and that shes really immature and jealous. seriously. you dont want to be friends with someone whos a bitch like that!

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I get these little bumps on my face,you cant see them that much but i can feel it..there tiny and come in clusters.What might these be? And also,will these/how can i make these go away?

...theyre pimples/acne/zits. what ever you want to call them.

go to a dermatologist or get some medicine at the store. ask your parents to take you.

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OK this is for people who have maybe recently gone to a my chemical romance concert.

I'm going to one soon and I was wondering if you can bring a desposable camera? thanks!

theyll either take it away when you get there or it should say where you got your ticket. ask them when you get there if your really worried about it. but the ones ive looked into allow them but idk where you live. so just do what i said and im sure youll be fine.

michelle

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Im thinking about getting a tattoo or my belly button pierced. which one do u think hurts the most and which is sexxxirr? thanks

it depends on how big your tattoo would be.. if it was small then the belly button might hurt more..if it was bigger then id go with the belly button..personally peircings dont hurt me. idk why. so id say belly button. but i kno for sure that a tattoo would hurt more.

michelle

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ok i hope i don't freak anyone out but sometimes i feel like i belong in a previous time. i feel like i dont' belong in this world.....(for intance i feel like i was supposed to live in the 1950's or something)....what should i do?

this might sounds weird but they say that if you feel that it means thats what you were in the past. and now. your here as yourself. like you were some lady named mary who died and now your you in this life. idk. its hard to explain but you can look it up on the internet i know they have alot of sites about it. just type in "psychic" stuff and stuff like that should come up.

michelle

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OK im the one who wrote about the MCR concert.

All I want for my birthday is to be able to go to my birthday. its seriously ALL i want. My mom says I'm forbidden to go even though I'm paying for the tickets. She said theres no way I'm going to a rock concert even though thats the only kind of music I like. So my moms like "all she wants is to go to the concert I forbid to let her go to" and my dads like 'I know what you need to go to is boot camp" and I didn't even say anything. I really want to go to this concert and thats seriously the ONLY thing I want to do and what I want for my birthday. What can I do for my parents to let me go? I'll be 14.

yea well i couldnt go either. but thats because my friends mom didnt want to drive an hour to the town it was in. life sucks. and sometimes you just gotta deal. you think wanting to go to ONE concert and not being able to go is bad. try 5. and try having somones parent say yes to going at the LAST MINUTE. yea. its sucks pritty dang bad. i wanted to go to warped but my friends dad said yes at the last minute.. mcr, fallout boy, the used, & a7x were the other concerts he sed yes to at the last minute..so. wait..and show that your not going to throw a tantrum because you cant go. ask one more time and if they say no again just say ok and walk away. maybe theyll see a more mature side of you and decide to let you go. i can understand why they wouldnt want you to go cause concerts get crazy. and if theyve only heard BAD stuff about them then that could make them not want you to go even more. so. try the mature thing. and if they dont let you go. then deal with it. you cant get what you want all the time. trust me. i know what its liek to miss amazing concerts.

michelle

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I'm getting braces in the beginning of October and want to know about teeth whitening. Should I do it now? During Braces or when I get my braces off?

when you get ur braces off. theres no point in doing it now when your just going to cover up your teeth ne ways. and DO NOT DO IT WHILE THERYE ON! thre will be spots from the brakets if u whiten your teeth while you have braces on. so just wiat until they come off.

michelle

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OK i'm watching a martha stweart show and why is she aways says it's a good thing?!??! Won't she eva shut up!?

cause she can & no.

michelle

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how do you ease you address bar so that when you click the arrow nothing comes up.

hah..someones been doin something their not supposed to :]

k well..

go to tools..(at the bar on the top)

then hit internet options

then when that box comes up click clear history..

then when its done hit O.K. dont just exit..

there you go :]

michelle

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okay... can you get stds from someone like for example if they dont have one? any names? i know its a weird question

omg..if they dont have an std...how the hell would you get one from them???

dude..ppl..THINK!

michelle

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is it posibble that you can be on your period but still be pregnant??

no..there isnt..

if you didnt know that or dont know shit about being on your period and getting pregnant and what not..what makes you think your ready for sex.......

michelle

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