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Hay! well,i got 200 dollers at victoria's secret, and i'm planning on useing it to buy a cute bathing suit and some other things. But you see, i do not have a loverly bunch of coconuts so to speak.What i'm getting at is- what style bathing suit would be good for a girl who is,ehhh, about a 34B? and would victoria's secret run big?
muchos gracias =]
haha I love how you put that lol
Well, what I did was I checked the bathing suit top before I got it to make sure the top was somewhat stiff. That way, it kind of poked out a little more then I really fit into hehe :) Also, I always thought the girls who wear the triangle bikinis looked like they had bigger boobs then any other kind, because it shows more skin and you can adjust the size. As opposed to bikini tops that dont tie or adjust sizes, because those cover more of your chest and pull tight on your "lovely bunch of coconuts" so they look smaller. So yeah, those things worked for me and I'm like a 32 A haha so I am always looking for new suits to make me look bigger lol :) goodluck!
Jessica 15/f
15/f
I want to make out with my boyfriend but i scared evertime i think he wants to. We only pop kiss. I don't know how to make out so can someone please tell me what to do? thanks!
It really isn't too hard. I was scared the first time too but you basically just go with the flow :) If he's made out with people before, he's probably experienced and will do most of the work. If he's inexperienced, then you won't be alone if you mess up. Plus, he won't have anything to compare your make out with because he'll never have experienced it and won't know what it's supposed to feel like. And he will probably just think it's cool that you two made out, regardless of whether or not he liked it. I mean, when you're done it's not like he'll give you feedback on the kiss, so the only humiliation you could possibly experiance is if you bump teeth/noses or something like that. But that's not really too embarrasing, I've done it before and we both just laughed and tried again haha :) I know how nervous you are the first time, but believe it or not, the guy is always a hundred times worse then you. Just follow his lead and keep it smooth and simple. Here are a few tips:
-Don't wet your lips before you make out. Making out can sometimes get a little too wet and you don't want to be drooling all over the guy :/
- Try to put on some kind of flavored lip moisturizer or something so your lips aren't all dry and chapped. A good way to start a smooth make out is with smooth lips. Plus the flavor won't hurt either ;)
- Don't cram your tongue down his throat. Try to take notice of how his tongue moves and try to just copy that. Too much tongue and you could choke the guy, too little and you're basically just breathing your spit into him.(ew haha)
-As weird as it make sound, watch a movie where the characters make out. It may be weird, but study the way their lips move and what they do with their hands. Believe it or not, it helps a LOT :)
I hope I helped a bit, and goodluck!!! :)
Jessica 15/f
I just bought a strapless dress for prom. I tried it on and it fit perfectly. The thing is the dress is very heavy and I was wondering if anyone knew any tricks on how to keep it up. It wouldn't fall of my chest, but it falls lower than it should.
You could do a few things.
1) where it a few times. Get used to it and the style.
2) go to a tailor or sew it yourself at home.
3) Safety pins. Safety pin the hem of the dress so that it stops shorter.
I'm sorry that's really all you can do about this. For future reference, always try on a dress before you buy it and make sure you move around in it and only buy it if it's a comfortable fit. Hope I helped a bit!
Jessica 15/f
How do you get letters on your keyboard such as: ℓ (l) and ८ (c).
I know that you can get symbolds such as ♥ and ♪ using your keyboard too, I just can't seem to figure out the code for letters.
Please help!
Is this what you're looking for?
http://www.ascii.cl/htmlcodes.htm
I just typed "html codes for letters" in google. That was just the first site that popped up, so there are a lot more if you just google it :) hope I helped!
Jessica 15/f
he is a freshman, im a sophomore. ever since the last time we saw eachother at our friends' house he has slowly been asking for sexual things from me. [these questions came gradually.] NOW he thinks were having sex. [i never said no, but i refuse to.] in the begining i said, i dont know about that i dont think thats gonna happen sorry [i would never want to have sex now anyways] and he would just say ugh grr fine. but now, he is completely convinced that we are going to do it. its starting to scare me. alright, you may think im crazy, and maybe i am. but the only reason i have been putting up with his shit is because i want to see him. i dont know why, but i just really want to see him. although, he treats me like a hoe and only talks to me when he feels like it. but im hoping he'll be himself when i see him. anyways, friday night i was over my friends house on her laptop in her kitchen while she was somehwere else. he IMed me and asked me to send a naked pic and i said im at my friends sorry [i wouldnt do it anyway] and then he said, wow. oh my god were havin sex just send it. [by the way we arent. he just thinks we are. im just too afraid to tell him no] and then he was just being really cruel to me and demanding. he said, ugh you wouldnt send it even if you werent at your friends house, your just like that. i want it damnit.
and then i started shaking and getting scared because i didnt know what to say and i didnt want him to get angry. then he said, ugh do you want my dick or not, hoe. and i said, yo dont call me a hoe.. and he said, then send a pic later. so then i just said i dont know..and he said, fine im fucking your vag then. and i said, do i have to..? and he said, im gonna fuck your vag now. i dont care ill bring a condom.
..thats so scary. he sounds like he wants to rape me. even at one point in our conversation a few days ago he said something like, "im gonna pin you against the wall and fuck you so hard your gonna cry" i told him that sounds like rape. because it does. i am kind of scared of him in a way..look at this conversation..[i changed the names]
matt: your my sex slave
me: whatt.
matt:
you mess up in sex ill slap you in the face wit my cock\
me:
what the fuck
are you being serious
matt:
only if you get naughty (:
me:
...
matt:
suck it till i jizz down your throat
me:
you dont really think of me as your sex slave do you
matt:
no
but im gonna slap you wit my cock
me:
why..?
matt:
cuz then youll suck it
me:
ill do whatever i want
matt:
youll do what i tell you to do
me:
someones being demanding
matt:
i dont care
i cant believe he thinks im his "sex slave" that hurts. and makes me feel like im a nobody and he is using me and getting everything out of it and probobly telling all of his friends and then what am i left with? nothing. whenever i think about the things he says to me, i get this weird stomache feeling, not a good one. and im really scared because yesterday he said to me, im going to their housr tonight. i want your ass, go tonight. and i said, should i ask if i can go..and he said, nah its ok. just go march 28. and i said okay, do you not want me to go tonight or something? and he said, i dont care, but im fucking your vag without a condom so..
first of all when did i ever agree to that. but i dont wanna say no because then he wont go to their house on march 28. he even said, i wont be busy if i get to fuck you. I DONT WANT TO! I WONT LET HIM. all i want to do is hookup. i dont want to have sex with him, never. ever. but i cant tell him that..and then when were at their house, after they all go to sleep, he wants to go on the other side of their basement and do it. but i feel like..hes gonna be really mad if i tell him while hes about to do it to me..hes gonna be so pissed. and i dont want him to slap me. i want to see him though..i dont know why. what is wrong with me. im starting to scare myself
EDIT: after reading your feedback comment, I have a little more advice. If you do meet up with him, I don't recommend you do anything sexual. I know you want to, but this will turn him on and it might lead up to something. Or he'll keep pushing you to do it with him. Either way, you probably won't be happy. It's your choice, but if you really want this guy to actually start respecting you, you should lay down the law early :)
Ok, it sounds to me like this guy is either jacking off when he texts you and uses your responses to incorporate into his weird horny fantasy world, or he is seriously dangerous. In either case, I'd suggest you start avoiding him. He thinks of you as weak right now, that's why he feels he has the right to talk to you like that. You need to stand up for yourself and tell him no. You're right, he probably would be pissed if you told him no right before you guys were about to have sex. In which case, I don't know the guy so I don't really know what he would do if he got angry, so I'd say you need to avoid that situation completly. Just stop messaging him. Better yet, the next time he says anything perverted, just tell him "You're creepy so leave me the fuck alone or I'm calling the police". You have the right to do that you know. This is sexual harassment and that's against the law. I know how you feel when you say you just want to see him. You're probably just attracted to the "bad boys" or something. But guess what? There are other fish in the sea. And as overused as that phrase is, it's true. There's a guy out there who's nice and sweet and will love you for you and will wait to have sex when you're ready. Just always remember, you don't need a guy to make you happy. This guy's obviously just a jerk looking for some ass and you're his target. I know it's tough, but you just have to let him go. If you can't stand up to him yourself, bring your friends into it. Tell them how freaked you are and they will probably stand up for you. If there's anything a guy will back down against, it's a group of pissed off girls haha. Trust me honey, you deserve a lot better, and if this jerk knows how to make you feel happy when you see him, you can bet your bottom dollar that another guy who's not a jerk can make you feel ten times that happiness. Just stop texting him, tell him to stop harassing you, and, if he gets sad and wants you back, demand an apology, at the least. Never allow a guy to treat you like this. Just tell him "i'm not going to have sex with you, and if you keep saying stuff that creeps me out, I'm going to call the police and report you for sexual harassment". I really hope you can find this strength to over come this fear you have of him and no let him control you, but the decision is yours. Goodluck!!!
Jessica 15/f
Do girls really play hard to get when they know that you are on to them or somewhat you like them?
I have this crush on a girl and we've been hanging out together. I haven't told her that I have feelings for her... but I think she already had a clue that I'm courting her or I'm in love with her or something. Do they get pissed off when you don't say that you're courting them or is she playing hard to get...thanks
Well, as the person below me stated, all girls are different. I, for example, don't play hard to get because some boys are clueless and just think I'm not interested in them lol. However, I assume it would be the more daring, prettier girls that would play hard to get, because they know they could get by with it because boys will always be chasing them. If she's trying to avoid you, ignoring your calls/texts/messages, she's probably just not interested. It gets pretty obvious when she continues to be "busy". However, if you two run into each other every once in a while, or if she says something like "Well, I'm busy this friday, but next saturday is good", or if she answers some of your calls/texts/messages, or if she laughs a lot around you, she might just be playing hard to get. It might help if, when she says something like "I'm busy this friday", you ask what she is doing that is making her busy. If she gives you a reasonable excuse, she's probably not interested. Girls playing hard to get usually try to be more mysterious about something like that and say "oh I've just got something I need to do" or something along those lines. However, it could also be completely different. All girls are different, all girls play hard to get differently. I think the best thing for you to do is just keep at her because persistance is the key. That's why most of my friends go out with the boys they do, because after the boy tells them they like her about ten times, the start to believe him and think he's sweet and must really care to keep wanting her. So just keep at her buddy :) I wish you luck!
Jessica 15/f
18/f
i am very confused whether this guy likes me or just "wants some" and is attracted to me. now he's only had one girlfriend, and lost his virginity to her meaning he's only had sex with one girl
liking me signs:
1. whenever i see him he always asks about ME. he asks how i'm doing, whats new, hows school and my new job, etc.
2. he opens up to me, he shares almost everything with me!
3. he always notices if i dye my hair or cut it, or if something is different
4. he can ALWAYS tell if something is wrong with me
5. he gets upset when he finds out something about me, and i didnt tell him. he says "you never tell me anything anymore" :(
6. he always wants shotgun when we're in my car and we're with others
7. we'll have those moments where i'll be talking to him and after i'm done he'll just be looking at me and we'll both start smiling
8. we've known each other for 4 or 5 years now
9. we've cuddled when we're alone many times and fell asleep together
10. when it's cold and i don't have a jacket he'll give me his to wear
11. some people think that we're already dating because of how we act with each other, but i dont know if it just because we're so close or what
signs he just "wants some"
1. usually when i see him he'll whisper in my ear.. "wanna fuck" and have a little smirk on his face
2. he flirts with me ALOT, sometimes in a "sexual" kinda way
3. he recently broke things off with his ex of almost 3 years, rebound?
4. when we hang out alone, he tries to get down my pants 95% of the time
5. when we're texting, usually something dirty will come up
it's just hard for me because i've never been in a real relationship before.
Well, first off, all guys "want some". This doesn't mean emotions can't be attached to it, but if you ask any random dude if he wanted some, he'd probably say yes. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but it's usually true. So yes, it sounds like he "wants some" but it also sound like he likes you a lot as well. Especially if he's been treating you like that (liking me signs) for 4 to 5 years. So yes and yes, I think he wants some and he likes you a lot too. If you really want to know, ask him flat out "So what's the deal, do you want a relationship or sex?". Usually if you put him on the spot, you can tell if he's lying so he won't be able to lie. Well I hope I helped!
Jessica 15/f
My little sister and I are planning to sell bracelets, we need to make as many as we possibly can before wednesday.... but they need to be simple to make, i mean, we COULD make complex ones, but we would rather make simple ones that look great. Please tell me of any websites you know that have different ways to make bracelets/necklaces with beads or simply threads.... Please and thank you! We need them A.S.A.P.
You should make button bracelets :) I made these for a class store thing and made a LOT of money :D
http://blog.creativekismet.com/2006/07/03/button-bracelet-tutorial/
http://www.craftbits.com/viewProject.do?projectID=1873
http://westcoastcrafty.wordpress.com/2008/06/02/cute-as-a-button-bracelets-at-the-craft-party/
they're super fun to make and not nearly as hard as they look! You can switch around the sizes/shapes/colors and even find different ways to put the string through :D Goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
there's this baby kitty that lives outside my house and my mom wont let me bring him in. at night he always looks through my window and i feel so bad because its cold and i want him in with me. should i open my window and sneak him in at night?
Oh no. The cat will get attached and stay at your house. Eventually, your mom will know someone's been giving it attention because it will continue to hang around. Plus, he could have a disease or something or he could attack you. You never know with strays. Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
Oh I am 13 and Female.
Okay, so, I really like my best friend, *Nat*, he is smart, funny, handsome, athletic, and great to be around. He keeps his temper most of the time, and is very kind to me. He likes girls in general. My mother and friends say he likes me, but I'm not sure. I really like him, and he waits for me after class, but isn't that simply what best friends do? I mean, I've never really had a best friend before, and it just happens my first best friend, is a guy who I have grown to like. I just went through a break up though. About 2 weeks ago. This is Nat's best friend, and we had complications. So I ended it. I would like to ask Nat out in late April or May, but I don't know if it's such a good idea. I think I'll wait until summer, and then ask if he likes me the way I like him, but I'm not sure what to do. I would really appreciate advice on if you think he likes me or not. Thank you very much.
Woah woah woah woah... late April or May? Summer? How about you snag him NOW, while the crush is still active? That's a while away and trust me, it is NOT good to wait to ask someone out. Eventually either he'll lose interest in you or you'll lose interest in him. First of, confidence is key. Yes, best friends do wait outside of certain classes for you, but I think this guy likes you considering it's a guy who's waiting for you... so yes, I think he likes you. Now, what should you do? Well, I'll tell you something that's worked for me 98% of the time; flirt. Flirt with him a lot. This includes playfully touching/pushing him, giggling and smiling around him, etc. I assume you know what flirting usually looks like :) the trick is, you flirt with him enough until he asks YOU out. This method is great because he knows you're flirting with him (if he doesn't catch it, a friend of his will notice and tell him) and if he asks you out, that means he likes you (duh haha) but if he doesn't, that means he doesn't like you like that and you can play the whole "Oh sorry, I didn't know I was flirting" card and get yourself out of the embarrasment of rejection :) The thing is, guys are just as nervous as girls to ask someone out. Therefore, if it's obvious that you like him, he'll feel more confident to ask you out because he'll know you'll say yes :) it works with almost any guy who likes you, and sometimes it tends to cause a guy to like you :D So, goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
I have a 'friend'. We are both boys. His name is Kyle. The two of us are good friends i suppose. But I feel he doesn't exactly contribute to help me. I talk to him and everything. Give my input when he needs help. But its not mutual. We don't really have much of the same interests. He always criticizes the type of music I listen to, and what not. He irritates me sometimes. For example. He thinks he's too cool for school functions. We were talking about it. He said there was no way he would go to this show our school was putting on. But that night, when I went, he was there too. He wouldn't even spare a passing glance. I tried to let go of him. Sacrificing my happiness, for a better life for the both of us. But it is hard to when I really want him as a friend. He treats me horrible. Making me feel guilty. But when we are actually doing something together, we get along. However we usually do what he wants to do. I knew I could ask you, because you are the same age as me. So tell me, What would you do in this situation? Let go of a friend? Or Sacrifice him for happiness for the both of you?
To me, he doesn't seem like that great of a friend. A friend shouldn't be putting you down, and it sounds to me he might even be trying to avoid you. He's obviously insecure about himself as well and tries to make you feel bad so he can feel better about himself. Here's my advice: don't give him that control. It's up to you to decide whether your friendship is worth trying to fix, but I will tell you that it probably won't last to long if he keeps acting like this. He wants to think of himself as cool, so he's changing himself around other people to be someone he isn't. Obviously, this guy's probably not going to have very many friends because none of them know who he truly is. I think you should talk to him. I know, it seems weird, but it is what I would do and have done before. Just tell him what's up. The next time you see him at a school event or at something else he was dissing earlier, confront him. Be like "Dude, what the heck? I thought you didn't want to come?". It's really great to catch them in the act because then they eventually have to tell the truth. If it were me, as I've been in this position before, I would drop-kick him to the curb (haha...) but if you really don't want to, then just confront him about what's bothering you. This guy isn't a true friend if he's making you feel bad and stupid. Hope I helped a bit!
-Jessica 14/f
ive had the same best friend for 5 years now. weve had a few falling outs and we have always gone back to eachother. shes outgoing and makes friends easily where as me, im outgoing but i am not good at meeting people on my own (my friends are jess's friends) (jess has everyone over cause she has an amazing basement to hang out in) (i have no where for groups of people to hang out in) jess is wanting to have closer friends than just me. i would like to too. i am afraid to DEATH that i will loose her and i honestly cant imagine that. another problem is that jess always asks me to come over a few hours before she says to go over so if she doesnt call me that night, i dont go anywhere. i wait for her to plan cause its her house and shes the one with the friends. i wouldnt be so jealous i think if i had my own friends or closer friends. what do i do to keep jess close while letting her have friends and also finding my own friends? i know i need someone else to go to when im upset i just dont know how to find good friends (i just need like 2 close friends) and then make them best friends *most important thing is to keep jess as close as we normally are!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well, Jess sounds like she would be cool with you having other best friends, considering she's technically doing the same thing. She's not replacing you and you're not replacing her, it's just that you can have more then one best friend :) Ok, so if she even tries getting mad at you about it, just remind her she's doing the same thing. She doesn't really have any reason to get mad at you, so that probably won't be an issue. Also, to make friends, as obvious as it may be, be yourself! I know, it's what everyone always says, but I can not stress it enough. Just don't be friends with someone just for the sake of having a friend. They will eventually get really annoying and by then you'll just have to put up with it. So yeah, pick someone who makes you laugh (I mean can make you crack up, rolling on the ground lol) because that means you can develop inside jokes with them, forming a friendship! :D Also, if you're shy, try to break out of your comfort zone. Every once in a while, talk to whoever you wish to be friends with. Just make it casual and crack a few jokes. Be careful though, to think about what you say before you say it. If it sounds too stupid or pointless, don't say it. And ESPECIALLY don't say it if it might offend the person. Just think of something that would make YOU laugh and try making them laugh with it because then you'll know who shares your type of humor and who doesn't :) After you eventually develop a friendship with someone, you can always just invite a friend to the mall or somewhere else to hang out. If your house isn't big enough for a lot of people, just invite one or two over. During the sleep overs, maybe play a secret-revealing game like truth-or-dare or maybe just bring up the topic of secrets and share a few of your own first, if they're uncomfortable about telling you. This should make them feel like you trust them, so they'll trust you more. Just make sure it's not a big secret, you might not end up being 'bff's with this person, so keep it at a minimum (ex: a boy you like, something silly you've done in the past, etc.). If you don't want to accidently replace Jess, just remember that with a lot of friends, comes a lot of taken time. Meaning, you'll have to know how to manage your time so she doesn't feel like you're spending more time with your new friends then her. Balance it out, so no one feels left out :) Goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
Hi, this question relates to a friend of mine not me. If have this friend who is infatuated with this girl. The girl doesn't want a relationship with him but likes the attention. I also found out that she gets jealous when he doesn't call and mad when he flirts with other girls. What should I do as his best friend, and how should he respond to this girl.
Honestly, you probably shouldn't get involved. First off, chicks are really over dramatic about guys and stuff. If she finds out you're discouraging him to flirt with her, she could pull you into it. And you can NEVER know who will get hurt when a girl pulls you into their problems O.o As his best friend, I think the best thing you can do is just support him in whatever decision he makes. And then, if it doesn't work out between those two like you say, be there for him when they break up to pick him back up and help him move on :) He needs to make his own decisions and you need to be loyal and supportive of those decisions :) I hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
i need a way to rephrase my purpose-----The purpose of my project was to test the hypothesis that warmer seas make stronger hurricanes....HELP!!!
I'll asume you mean just rephrasing the question?
"Does ocean temperature effect hurricane strength?"
"Does a warmer sea effect the strength of a hurricane?"
"Is a hurricane effected by the sea's temperature?"
I heard this really cool song by queen, but i dont know what it was called. It was like only freddie's voice and it was like recordings of him overlapping eachoter each voice in a different pitch, it was so cool. Anybody know what im talking about?
Hm, could it be death on two legs? He kindof overlaps himself there :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUWhb-GddXA
If not, here's pretty much all of Queen's songs:
http://www.youtube.com/user/WLQonlineMusic
hi again I am in a sticky situatioun see i said yes to a boy i dont want to go out with him now i want to break up with him and i dont want to break our friendship our him never talk to me ever again he is very nice but i dont want to go out with him please understand
Ok, honestly, I think everyone's been in this situation before. As hard as it may seem, you'll need to break up with him. Just tell him that you like him more as a friend then a boyfriend. Whatever you do, don't tell him you didn't like him when you said yes. Just say "Well, I did like you, but it's a bit awkward now that we're going out. Can we just go back to being friends?". Also, you might think he's going to be crushed, but believe it or not, he won't. He might be a bit hurt, but not enough to never talk to you again. People move on and he will too :) Goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
i need to download a font with really tight letter spacing (like where the letters are close together) for free but i cant find any. anybody know where some are at ?
http://www.stumbleupon.com/toolbar/#url=http%2525253A//www.1001freefonts.com/
There you go :) I use that one all the time, they've got a LOT of cool fonts!
im 13, turning 14 on april 21, weigh about 173.
how do i lose weigh without excersing.
and will it look gross if i do lose weight without the exercising
i want to get skinny before swimsuit season or at least before my class and i go to seaworld in the summer
Losing weight:
-Drink 8 glasses of cold water every day
-fruits and vegitables are a must (especially the greens and the stuff that's solid like apples)
-Healthy things that change your body temperature, like the cold water, burn extra calories because your body burns calories warming your body back up.
-Healthy things that are solid, like apples or celery help you lose weight because they contain nutrients and take more effort to eat and digest, which is more work for your body so it burns cals.
-If you want to lose a lot of weight by that time, you're going to have to put in a little exercise. What I used to do is I would call up one of my friends that I could talk to for a long time and while I was talking to them I would just walk around the neighborhood. It's exercise and fresh air :)
-get your friends to go to a park or something with you and play some basketball or tennis :)
-Remember that basically any physical movement helps burn calories, so just try to be more physical overall.
-you could start a dog walking business. Me and a friend did this one summer and got lots of money, so not only will it help burn cals., you'll have enough money to buy a cool swimsuit too!
Hope I helped! Also, sometimes when you feel hungry, your body is actually just thirsty. So like I said, drink a LOT of water!
Goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
13/F
Well Valentines day is coming upp..duhh.
And i have a bf rightt. and i have no idea what to get himm. Because he's likee nerdy and stuff..and i wanna get him something nerdy but cute. haaa.
Well any helpp?
Wellll :) almost every guy I've ever met has a MAJOR sweet tooth. So, nerdy or not, he's bound to like chocolate, which is great because chocolate just happens to be the ideal valentines day treat ;D So, I would go find a corny-ish valentines day phrase (since he's sort of nerdy) and make him a card and get him a box of chocolate :) Bingo, he'll love it! Hope I helped!
-Jessica 14/f
im nearly 16 im gay ive been with my bf for over 6 months we are really great together i love him and i want to tell him i love him im a bit nervous about hown he will react is it too soon do i wait
a little while what should i do?
If you love him, I think you should tell him :) he probably feels the same way, but might be too scared to tell you! And even if he doesn't say it back, it's ok because that means he does have very strong feelings for you and they're stronger then what he's used to because he doesn't know what the feeling is :) but I think he'll say and feel it back :) I think you should tell him on Valentines day or something ;) you know, so it's all romantic and what not :D Goodluck dude!
Hope I helped!
-Jessica