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making out
15/f
I want to make out with my boyfriend but i scared evertime i think he wants to. We only pop kiss. I don't know how to make out so can someone please tell me what to do? thanks!
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Hey girl. I know the first time you make out with a guy its scary, but dont worry, it comes naturally. when my boyfriend wanted to make out with me i was scared and i spent HOURS looking up how to make out...and a lot of them were just useless and made me worry more.i cant tell you how to make out, but i can give you tips like the other girl.
1-make sure your breath smells good and youve brushed your teeth. if you eat something that could be questionable use a mint, gum, or mouthwash too.
2-close your eyes as your leaning into the kiss. if you dont you may bump heads...way to ruin a moment huh?
3-start out with a pop kiss, and then run your tongue along his bottom lip and his mouth will open. then massage his tongue with yours.
4-RELAX! haha neither of you will enjoy it if your stressing about it, because then it will just be awkward and weird..
it may feel weird the first time, but its very enjoyable and fun. Hope i helped =] xoxo. good luck!
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It really isn't too hard. I was scared the first time too but you basically just go with the flow :) If he's made out with people before, he's probably experienced and will do most of the work. If he's inexperienced, then you won't be alone if you mess up. Plus, he won't have anything to compare your make out with because he'll never have experienced it and won't know what it's supposed to feel like. And he will probably just think it's cool that you two made out, regardless of whether or not he liked it. I mean, when you're done it's not like he'll give you feedback on the kiss, so the only humiliation you could possibly experiance is if you bump teeth/noses or something like that. But that's not really too embarrasing, I've done it before and we both just laughed and tried again haha :) I know how nervous you are the first time, but believe it or not, the guy is always a hundred times worse then you. Just follow his lead and keep it smooth and simple. Here are a few tips:
-Don't wet your lips before you make out. Making out can sometimes get a little too wet and you don't want to be drooling all over the guy :/
- Try to put on some kind of flavored lip moisturizer or something so your lips aren't all dry and chapped. A good way to start a smooth make out is with smooth lips. Plus the flavor won't hurt either ;)
- Don't cram your tongue down his throat. Try to take notice of how his tongue moves and try to just copy that. Too much tongue and you could choke the guy, too little and you're basically just breathing your spit into him.(ew haha)
-As weird as it make sound, watch a movie where the characters make out. It may be weird, but study the way their lips move and what they do with their hands. Believe it or not, it helps a LOT :)
I hope I helped a bit, and goodluck!!! :)
Jessica 15/f
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