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Playing hard to get
Do girls really play hard to get when they know that you are on to them or somewhat you like them?
I have this crush on a girl and we've been hanging out together. I haven't told her that I have feelings for her... but I think she already had a clue that I'm courting her or I'm in love with her or something. Do they get pissed off when you don't say that you're courting them or is she playing hard to get...thanks
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hey~
well of one thing im sure of is that we are all different...when i play hard to get i get cute for a guy but not let him get too comfortable around me, and talk about other guys..tease him a little. the only way this girl could get mad at you is if she liked you back and noticed you didnt say anything...
here's what i would do
if she talks about other guys notice how she does it..does she talks only about one guy or is it about multiple guys she thinks are cute..etc.
whatever you do dont talk about other girls to her because this may give her mixed signals and confuse her. and if you see she hangs out with you and isnt really interested in anyone you should break it to her while you guys are hanging out...
probably taking her somewhere special :]boyycrazy :]
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Well, as the person below me stated, all girls are different. I, for example, don't play hard to get because some boys are clueless and just think I'm not interested in them lol. However, I assume it would be the more daring, prettier girls that would play hard to get, because they know they could get by with it because boys will always be chasing them. If she's trying to avoid you, ignoring your calls/texts/messages, she's probably just not interested. It gets pretty obvious when she continues to be "busy". However, if you two run into each other every once in a while, or if she says something like "Well, I'm busy this friday, but next saturday is good", or if she answers some of your calls/texts/messages, or if she laughs a lot around you, she might just be playing hard to get. It might help if, when she says something like "I'm busy this friday", you ask what she is doing that is making her busy. If she gives you a reasonable excuse, she's probably not interested. Girls playing hard to get usually try to be more mysterious about something like that and say "oh I've just got something I need to do" or something along those lines. However, it could also be completely different. All girls are different, all girls play hard to get differently. I think the best thing for you to do is just keep at her because persistance is the key. That's why most of my friends go out with the boys they do, because after the boy tells them they like her about ten times, the start to believe him and think he's sweet and must really care to keep wanting her. So just keep at her buddy :) I wish you luck!
Jessica 15/f
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every girl is different. maybe she feels like she wants to be the jeans in the relationship. whether or not she is playng hard to get, you should tell her how you feel & that you like her before she finds someone else
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Depends,
All girls are different and they all have their own ways of flirting and showing it. If she shows any sort of interest than maybe she does like you and maybe she is flattered by it so she wants to play hard to get, or it could be that she wants to make sure you are serious about it and so she wants to see how far you'd go to try and get her. Or it could be plan and simple she may just not be that into you. It could be a number of things. The only way to really know how she feels back is to approach her. If she already knows you like her than try talking to her, Ask her out, Get to know her after all the least she could do is say "no" and the best she could do is say "yes!" ;)
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