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hi again I am in a sticky situatioun see i said yes to a boy i dont want to go out with him now i want to break up with him and i dont want to break our friendship our him never talk to me ever again he is very nice but i dont want to go out with him please understand
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Ok. I hate this kind of situations because someone always get hurt without a reason, so it's unfair.
But as long as you feel you need to break up with him, do it without thinking twice.
But abour becoming friends, as many times as you say/believe it's not going to be weird/awkward, well you're very wrong.
Relationship in the world, start as friendship and then goes to relationship but never goes back to friendship, so when your going to break up with him, your breaking the relationship itself, so there is no going back to friendship, but that doesn't mean you can't talk at all, and be all awkward but dont you ever think you'll actually talk on the phone or hang out.
Even though if you feel from your side it wouldn't feel weird because you never liked him the way he does, then he'll feel weird about it. But what's very wrong when you ask him to be friends he won't tell you no but it's going to be very wrong and something very bad is going to happen in the end between you.
You made a mistake by going out with him in the first place now get what you deserve by loosing him.
Good Luck
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Honestly, just tell him exactly what you wrote up there. That you really don't like him as much as you thought you did and you would just like to be friends. Tell him you think he is a nice guy and that he should understand.
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Ok, honestly, I think everyone's been in this situation before. As hard as it may seem, you'll need to break up with him. Just tell him that you like him more as a friend then a boyfriend. Whatever you do, don't tell him you didn't like him when you said yes. Just say "Well, I did like you, but it's a bit awkward now that we're going out. Can we just go back to being friends?". Also, you might think he's going to be crushed, but believe it or not, he won't. He might be a bit hurt, but not enough to never talk to you again. People move on and he will too :) Goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
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