About 4 months ago i cheeted on my boyfriend. He know's all about it and were still together but i still dont no why i kissed the other guy and im still so confused.
Please help
I think you probably cheeted on him because you wanted some excitment or something like that. Maybe you don't like him as much as you think you do? And I don't think you should still be together, because if he didn't dump you when he found out about that, then he is desperate and has no self respect. He probably dosen't love you as much as you think he does and may just want a gf. You need to seriously think about it
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i want a tattoo meaning survivor...
survivor of depression, rape, molestation, abuse.
basically a survivor of my life...i grew up horrible...but i still survived and i am a survivor
Put a cross. Jesus survived after he died phyisicly.
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me and my bf have been togethr for almost 2 months. and i liked him so much like a month or two before we got together. well we both told eachother we fell for eachother. and were in love. and i feel like im hella sprung. every song on the radio reminds me of him. i cant go a second without thinking bout him. i get butterflies. i think im seriously sprung. but is that a bad thing? i just dont want to get hurt. cuz my friend is the same with her bf and she got hella hurt recently but there beter now. but my question is how can i not be so sprung? and not be so much in love. i dont want to put all of myself into a guy and something does happen (which i dont think will happen) but still. i dont want to get hurt. well thanks so much in advance!
First of all, are you gay?
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okay, i broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago and we were going out for about 10 months. I really liked him but i liked someone else and he was just really immature. I still like him though and i cant convince myself to not like him. he has another girlfriend now but i think he still thinks about me. sometimes i can see him looking at me throuh the corner of my eye and i glance at him sometimes too. One thing is though, he never really liked to talk to me at school because we didnt have alot in common and he talks to his new girlfriend ALL THE TIME! I still cant help liking him though because i was never going out with someone that long. now im going out with someone else who i dont like at all but i did it so i would get over the other guy. i dont wanna break up with the other guy but i donno. does anyone have advice on what i should do???? PLEASE!!!
cool
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hi again I am in a sticky situatioun see i said yes to a boy i dont want to go out with him now i want to break up with him and i dont want to break our friendship our him never talk to me ever again he is very nice but i dont want to go out with him please understand
Honestly, just tell him exactly what you wrote up there. That you really don't like him as much as you thought you did and you would just like to be friends. Tell him you think he is a nice guy and that he should understand.
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Where can I buy degrassi seasons 1-8 or 1-6 at least, for a good price? i would also like to put them on my ipod, so where can i buy a cheap high-quality dvd ripper or something like that? is it possible to buy them all on itunes and burn them to blank dvds? any ideas are appreciated. please dont leave something like 'dvd ripping is illegal' because i dont really care.
If you want to get them in a store, lots of blockbusters have them and so do any movie or t.v. show stores. You can get them for cheap there and not be illegal...
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So I don't really know why but
today in science class we were pricking our fingers to draw blood and test our blood type, and I couldn't get my fingers to bleed enough to fill this little tube. so this guy, we'll call him adam, offers to help me and i say ok, because i really do need the help.
well ive been mildly attracted to adam for a while, sort of off and on, but today when he pricked my finger and it started bleeding it really turned me on. I think it might have had something to do with him causing me minor pain. But when he did it I cried out in..well i guess it was pleasure rather than pain. I have been thinking about him ever since. I flirted with him the rest of the day. Is there anything...weird about this turning me on like this?
Nope! I don't really want to get into it, but that is kinda sexy what he did. Just flirt with him and see where it goes.
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This guy sort of asked me out, but I dont know if he was joking or not. I was in gym talking to some friends and a guy I hate. Then the guy I hate went and sat by these other two guys. Then like five minutes later the guy I hate called over to me and said, "hey, Lynn!, Edward likes you and wants to know if you will go out with him" and I ignored him. But he asked me like three times. Then our gym teacher told me n the guy i hate and my two friends that it was our turn to play badmitten. When i was walking up to the laughing with my friends, "Edward" said hey...lynn? and I ignored him too because hes the kind of guy that asks people out as jokes and laugh in the persons face if they say yes. And I kinda like this guy but I dont know if hes joking. Any thoughts? Thanks
Well, I think you should just take a chance and tell him you will go out with him, if you really like him and everything. I think that it will be better if you say yes and he is joking and you get embarased for a few days than if you never hook up. Just say yes. If it turns out that he's joking, oh well! Just move on and find someone else to like.
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Lately my life has been not at it's high point. I feel like I cant achieve anything! It seems like I can't do a thing...I really dont know what to do for life and how to boost my self esteem...help please??
You need to accept Christ in your heart. Go to church.
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14/f
I've been friends with this boy since I was in kindergarten and we were really best friends all the way up to 6th grade. Last year, naturally, we weren't as close but we remained good friends. Now, I understand that because I’m a girl he doesn't feel completely comfortable being "best" friends like in kindergarten due to horny 14 yr old boy issues, but I still believe we can be friends. He's into this blond (the hottest girl in school) and has ditched me to spend time with her. He knows he's not going to date her; he just hangs around her because she's hot. He knows she's a (in his own words) "a dumbass". She's also unpleasant and arrogant. Not to mention slightly narcissistic. So anyway, he’s ditched me. He doesn’t talk to me. He doesn’t even look at me when I say “hi”. He’s made me almost non-existent. I can understand him not wanting to spend time with another girl and ditching her for “the blond” but what about a friend? He barely ever even considered me a girl before anyway. He always thought I was a lesbo, and a total guy. (Ugh, I’m not getting to the point.) So here’s the question. He didn’t ditch his guy friends for the blond but he ditches me. I’m hurt and miss him. Why did he ditch me and not any of his other friends? Is it because I’m a girl? I can’t think of any other reason and I know for a fact it’s not because he’s tired of me as a friend. During our school trip to Monterey, he sat next to me constantly for hours on the bus, on the plane, during meals, ect. We talked, laughed, flirted, ect. For hours! So why does he choose to ditch me? I really don’t understand and feel very hurt by being pushed aside.
Hey!
I think I can explain this.
Are your friend's friends into this "blonde" girl too? If they are, then it's probably not you that is running your friend away. And it's not because you are a girl.
Friends are a big part of everyone's life, and if too many of your buddy's friends dissaprove of you and approve of the blonde, then he of course whould turn away from you and to the other girl so that his friends will accept him more.
I honestly don't think that he doesn't care about you anymore, it's just that he wants to keep climbing the social ladder, even if it means leaving a part of an old friendship behind.
So what do you do? I think you should follow his lead. You need to keep making girlfriends and start flirting with other guys. Then he will see that you are acceptable and so will his friends. Then, they won't care if he is hanging out with you, because you are fun to be around.
That's probably the only way to get things back. Just find a few really nice popular girls (yes they are hard to find) and talk to them until you get on their nerves. Find some cute guys to flirt with, and sooner than you know it, your friend will come back.
Or, you could sit back and wonder why he isn't talking to you and you could sulk.
Hope I helped!
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18/f
I have a bit of a weird situation.. I have a best friend who is turning 18 who I haven't seen since I was 7 so I don't really know much about her.
For my 18th she bought me a silver necklace.
I was thinking of doing a scrapbook or photo album but I don't have any photos of us from when we were little and we don't have many memories together.
What can I get her?
Write her a nice letter. Tell her if she wants a present, come to see you. I don't think you should be friends with someone who never sees you. Hope I helped...
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Hello, me and my girlfriend have been dating for quite a long time and valentines day is coming up its our first and though i already got her her present and card i need some advice on what to write (on the card) we have a very good relationship and i love her lots so i don't wanna screw this up. please help.
Thanks in advance!
Bye
Hi! I think that you should just try to be funny and thoughtful. Say something cute and compliment her too. Just write what comes to mind and I'm sure she won't think bad about it. :)
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okay, so on the 12th of May I will have been with my boyfriend for 1 year..
It's not my longest relationship but it's the longest he has ever been with someone.
I was just wondering what to do?
Presents... going out etc
What would you do?
I'm never very good at this stuff..
But i wanted to make it a nice day.. so I was just wondering about presents and stuff..
So please help!
Thanks x
Well, if I was you, I would make sure that he was getting me something first. (don't ask him directly. Ask one of his friends if he has said anything about getting you a present) If he is not getting you a present, then don't bother. You can write him a poem or a nice letter or go out on a date or something, but don't get him a present. He will think either you are trying to hard to be nice, or he will feel awkward because he didn't get you a gift. But, if he is getting you a gift, then you should get him one too, no duh. Get him something that matches his interests and something romantic too since you are his girlfriend. (if you are a guy then boyfriend) I would get him a card and a stuffed animal and maybe like a guy bracelet or his favorite magazine and possibly some candy if he likes that kind of thing. You could rent him a movie and give him candy so he will invite you over to watch the movie and eat the candy with him.
I hope I helped
Gogurl10
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Okay, my BestFriends birthday is coming up. and her like pride and joy are the two new puppies she got last year and how when there old enough she will let them mate/ well. It's her birthday and she's like my second mother basicly I love her that much so I wanna do something awesome on her birthday.
Well I know someone who paints on like placks and stuff and I wanna get one that says "Carolyns 2nd Heaven" to hang it on the door to the welping pen. I knoww she'll love it but she's like hardcore christian and i was wondering she wouldn't like it because its her 2nd heaven.., and stuff. Would you find offense to it if you were realy religios? I mean she's not like cracka whip but would appreciate it if I didn't like mak a fool of myself really.
So with Heaven in like the happiest place she can think of... just give me your opinion
ya i think that it would be fine. if you are not sure about the wording and stuff, you could probably find the same plaque with different words. But no, i am a christian and i dont think that that would be offensive, although i dont know her.
hope i helped :)
gogurl10
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okay - there is this boy i have been going out with for about a month or two - well lately he has been get on my NERVES!! - and i think i have lost feelings for him - and i dont no if i have or not - like we will go somewhere and he will be trying to get all like close to me and try to kiss me and - yes we have kissed before but i just dont like kissing him - you know what i mean? and i really dont want to break up with him but i just dont know if i have lost feelings for him or not!
so please help me!
thanks
Okay. This is pretty common. Once you go out with some one for about a month or two, the feeling of true love and all of that stuff starts to fade. Thats what you are starting to feel right now. that is why most realashionships don't last very long. Don't break up with him yet. I think that you should just tell him that you need to talk to him. You should take a walk, or go on a nice quiet date with just the two of you and just talk to him. Get to know him better. He won't try to get all close to you when it is just the two of you. Try telling him how you feel and ask him what he feels also. A key part of having a realashonship is knowing what your parter feels. You have to work through things so that they will work out in your favor.
Hope I helped. :)
gogurl0
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Ok maybe it's just me but i always watch these movie with people and their first kisses and stuff like and it makes me want that even more i mean i'm 14 and never exactly had a real boyfriend and obviously havent had my first kiss yet but watching these movie always makes me want it even more it might sound crazy or stupid but i am definitely into the 'find your one true love' kind of thing and i know someday it will eventually happen but the wait is killing me and maybe that sounds stupid but it's just seeing these great relationships and how much in love people can be it really is a beautiful thing and maybe i'm just babbling and sounding crazy here but like i said i really want that you know that kind of relationship where of course you have your fights but in the end their always there for you where you can see how much they like you just by the way they look at you and stuff like that i want that and of course my first kiss but i want it with someone really special and it has to be that right moment and everything and the right person and the right place and i know it will happen someday and that the longer i wait the more special it will be when it does happen but i dont know i guess i just want opinions on this like have you felt this way before how was your first kiss what happened you know those kinds of things
Hey!
Omg! I am in pretty much the same spot as you, but i have had a boyfriend before. I think my story might help you.
Well, i went out with this guy named Trevor and i went out with him four times. The last time that i went out with him, i really wanted to kiss him. I rushed things and he broke up with me. I wanted to be in love and kiss him and have my true love and stuff. He wanted to kiss me too, but we had our first kiss all planned out and i think we just screwed things up. I learned that you should go out with someone because you love them not because you want to be in love. Get it?
Also, I really love this guy named Brooks. He is my true love, I am not joking. I love him to death and he is my best guy friend. I really want to go out with him, but i don't think that he will ever ask me out, and i wont ask him out. I think about him all the time and when he touches me or looks at me, i feel like someone shocked me. He has the most beautiful green eyes. But i know that if it is made for us to be, that it will happen.
So my advice to you is, don't go out with some one because you want to be in love, but go out with them because you love them. So first, find someone you can be friends with and get to know. If things are meant to be, they will work out. Even if nothing happens this year, or the next, or the next, know that some day, someone will love you unconditionally and sometimes, it is better for them to be the only one that you loved. So don't rush true love! it will happen. And STOP watching romantic movies. lol.
Hope i helped. :)
gogurl10
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okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 years off and on. Just recentley we found out that we were FOURTH COUSINS! it really bothered us both. we broke up cause of it, and im so upset, cause i really wanted our relationship to grow, and i wanted us to be together. he wants us to be together also. but i jus tell him no, cause i dont want my family to know. and it wood just be too secretive, ya know? but i really want to be with him. i honestley do love this boy. is that nasty? whats your opinion on this situation? what would you do?
If you really like him, it won't matter that
you are realted. Besides, fourth couzin is like
way down the line. If your like great, great,
great, grandparents loved each other, than you
should be able to also. Okay, i know that made no
sense but i think you should date him anway. hope
this helped. :)
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okay soo i dated this guy and he broke it off like three times.lets call him "leon" and its been a while since we have last talked to eachother..but i guess he is mad at me..i'm friends with his brother(who likes me)lets call him "dan" and dan tells me all this stuff his brother said about me..for example that me and leon made out..not true..that leon called me a slut...and that he never wanted to talk to me again...i cried...then i went to a lockin at this place from like 11 to 6 in the morning.and they were there..leon kept looking at me and dan said that when i was sitting down stairs at the building that leon was going to come down and ask what was wrong...but dan said not to, to leave me alone!!!!i wanted to kill him so much!! me and leon had been off and on for about two years..we went out three times...one time last year..and two times this year...well anyways after dan came up to tell me what he said to leon we went gocart riding..and so did leon and a bunch of their friends.. but i had fun..but i was freezing...
today i almost bumped into him..i'm thinking i should have..but yeah...lol...but he looked at me and i just really want him back..now that i moved i could walk to his house and we could hang but idk i want him back...help me....please....i'm begging
wow. I know how you feel. I have been off and on with a guy that i like and also i like this other guy that really needs to make a move on me lol... but okay here is your advice:
I think that you should just try being
friends with leon right now. Just talk to him
like you would to a friend. Maybe the reason that
you keep breaking up is because you don't know
each other well enough. When Dan sees that you
are just friends, he may try to flirt with you
even more. If you like him, you should go out
with him. It will make leon jealous and if you
and dan break up you and leon could go out again.
bottom line is that you should just try to get to
know them for right now. Maybe you dont even like
them as much as you think you do. When you know
more about them, wait and see if things happen!!
I hope this helped. :)
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I've read everyone of Sarah Dessen's books and absolutley loved them! Does anyone have any books similiar to hers to recommend? (Please not Gossip Girl and/or A-List) I love a good romance comedy! Thanks!
I read Sarah Dessen's Dreamland and my best friend read This Lullaby. I like to read a lot and I think that if you liked Sarah Dessen, you will love Stephanie Myers. She wrote Twilight, New Moon, and Eclipse. I know they seem like weird books when you look at them or find out that they envolve vampires and werewolves, but believe me, I HATE fantasy books, that is why I like Sarah Dessen. You should really read them. They are very addicting. You will love them. And by the way, I am currently working on a book that you would love. I am an author and the book that I am writing is Dear Ivory. Look out for it in a couple of years. It is by Jenna Hampton. (thats me) And remember that name. I will be famous one day and you can say that I gave you advice on what books to read. :) I hope I helped.
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is anyone really good at writing essays?
if so please write back asap =] thank you soo much !
I am good at writing essays? What is it about? I want to be an author so I can probably give you some tips. Tell me what the essay is about
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