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how do i get him again without everything screwing up again.


Question Posted Wednesday April 16 2008, 5:23 pm

okay soo i dated this guy and he broke it off like three times.lets call him "leon" and its been a while since we have last talked to eachother..but i guess he is mad at me..i'm friends with his brother(who likes me)lets call him "dan" and dan tells me all this stuff his brother said about me..for example that me and leon made out..not true..that leon called me a slut...and that he never wanted to talk to me again...i cried...then i went to a lockin at this place from like 11 to 6 in the morning.and they were there..leon kept looking at me and dan said that when i was sitting down stairs at the building that leon was going to come down and ask what was wrong...but dan said not to, to leave me alone!!!!i wanted to kill him so much!! me and leon had been off and on for about two years..we went out three times...one time last year..and two times this year...well anyways after dan came up to tell me what he said to leon we went gocart riding..and so did leon and a bunch of their friends.. but i had fun..but i was freezing...

today i almost bumped into him..i'm thinking i should have..but yeah...lol...but he looked at me and i just really want him back..now that i moved i could walk to his house and we could hang but idk i want him back...help me....please....i'm begging


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gogurl10 answered Thursday April 17 2008, 6:08 pm:
wow. I know how you feel. I have been off and on with a guy that i like and also i like this other guy that really needs to make a move on me lol... but okay here is your advice:

I think that you should just try being

friends with leon right now. Just talk to him

like you would to a friend. Maybe the reason that

you keep breaking up is because you don't know

each other well enough. When Dan sees that you

are just friends, he may try to flirt with you

even more. If you like him, you should go out

with him. It will make leon jealous and if you

and dan break up you and leon could go out again.

bottom line is that you should just try to get to

know them for right now. Maybe you dont even like

them as much as you think you do. When you know

more about them, wait and see if things happen!!

I hope this helped. :)

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cloudy_conscience answered Thursday April 17 2008, 5:28 pm:
Well it sounds like you kind of can't trust Dan, considering the fact that he does like you, and won't want you to be with someone else. I think you should try talking to Leon about it, let him know that you still like him and would like to try it again. Maybe you should even tell Dan that you like Leon and not him and would like to give it another chance with Leon.

If you don't want to go with the up front method, maybe try convertly talking to him about lets say the weather, or 'accidently' run into him and flirt around once you do. You have to put yourself out there and let him know you are interested in him.

Hope I Helped.

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