Ok maybe it's just me but i always watch these movie with people and their first kisses and stuff like and it makes me want that even more i mean i'm 14 and never exactly had a real boyfriend and obviously havent had my first kiss yet but watching these movie always makes me want it even more it might sound crazy or stupid but i am definitely into the 'find your one true love' kind of thing and i know someday it will eventually happen but the wait is killing me and maybe that sounds stupid but it's just seeing these great relationships and how much in love people can be it really is a beautiful thing and maybe i'm just babbling and sounding crazy here but like i said i really want that you know that kind of relationship where of course you have your fights but in the end their always there for you where you can see how much they like you just by the way they look at you and stuff like that i want that and of course my first kiss but i want it with someone really special and it has to be that right moment and everything and the right person and the right place and i know it will happen someday and that the longer i wait the more special it will be when it does happen but i dont know i guess i just want opinions on this like have you felt this way before how was your first kiss what happened you know those kinds of things
Omg! I am in pretty much the same spot as you, but i have had a boyfriend before. I think my story might help you.
Well, i went out with this guy named Trevor and i went out with him four times. The last time that i went out with him, i really wanted to kiss him. I rushed things and he broke up with me. I wanted to be in love and kiss him and have my true love and stuff. He wanted to kiss me too, but we had our first kiss all planned out and i think we just screwed things up. I learned that you should go out with someone because you love them not because you want to be in love. Get it?
Also, I really love this guy named Brooks. He is my true love, I am not joking. I love him to death and he is my best guy friend. I really want to go out with him, but i don't think that he will ever ask me out, and i wont ask him out. I think about him all the time and when he touches me or looks at me, i feel like someone shocked me. He has the most beautiful green eyes. But i know that if it is made for us to be, that it will happen.
So my advice to you is, don't go out with some one because you want to be in love, but go out with them because you love them. So first, find someone you can be friends with and get to know. If things are meant to be, they will work out. Even if nothing happens this year, or the next, or the next, know that some day, someone will love you unconditionally and sometimes, it is better for them to be the only one that you loved. So don't rush true love! it will happen. And STOP watching romantic movies. lol.
teardrops7 answered Wednesday April 16 2008, 8:34 pm: well my first kiss, hmm...let me just say when you get it, you will remember it forever... But anyways family friends were on a road trip from indiana and they needed a place to stay so i stayed up and waited for them to get there. They got there about eleven at night. And the parents went into my room to sleep and then the son stayed out in the living room to sleep on the couch. (thats where i was sleeping) and i was laying down trying to sleep and i felt someone against me. (he had move to my couch ha ha). And we just stayed up all night talking, getting to know each other better. And he layed his head in my lap and then he sat up and began playing with my hair. And then the next thing i know morning came and before anyone got up, he just said "would you be offended?" and i said "offended by what?" and then he kissed me. But later he left for indiana and i decided i didnt really want that.
But yes i have felt that way before. I still do. I think that every girl does. Some guys too! It just gives me hope that there truly is a true love out there somewhere just for me. But you got to get through a lot of rain to see the rainbow. Just give it time. I never thought i was gonna have my first kiss, but i did, and it was great and special. Yours will be too! promise! ;]
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LM answered Wednesday April 16 2008, 8:23 pm: My first kiss was more or less on a dare. Well, it was a dare. But I really wanted to kiss him so my best friend dared me to. I had liked the guy for all of 8th grade and was totally psyched. Unfortunately, one of my friends who was also at the party at my house ALSO liked him. So when we kissed I thought she was going to kill me. Haha. After that I realized I liked him as a friend, but I wouldn't change anything about that kiss =)
Anyways, don't rush into things! It'll be a lot more special if you really like the person you're kissing, and not just "Oh, well you're cute enough, so I guess you'll do...." And don't worry about screwing up/kissing the wrong way. Your first kiss will be momorable- and most likely (actually almost definitely) not your favorite =P. At least in my case. Kissing is wicked fun and shouldn't be stressed over/planned out too much.
cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday April 16 2008, 7:42 pm: Everyone counts down the days until the get their frist kiss and first love, especially girls. First kisses are usually very very special experiences that one will remember for ever and having your first love is even better. But along with that comes your first heartbreak, which isn't so hot but you move on and you grow from it. I assure you everyone has these thoughts and the day of your first kiss and first love will come one day sooner than you think. Then everything will fly right by you, don't wish your life away. Enjoy every minute of it. But when you do find that special someone that you feel you want to experience your first kiss with, go for it. No regrets.
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