Question Posted Wednesday February 11 2009, 10:46 pm
Lately my life has been not at it's high point. I feel like I cant achieve anything! It seems like I can't do a thing...I really dont know what to do for life and how to boost my self esteem...help please??
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? life_luv_music16 answered Friday February 20 2009, 5:20 pm: I'm so sorry that you feel this way! Its not a good feeling. But just remember that you don't have be an expert at something in order to acheive something. What you have to do is ask yourself, 'What things am i good at?'. Think about even the things that seem little to you. Can you draw? You could become an artist! Are you a good reader? You can be a narrorater! Do you like pets? You can be a groomer or a vet! I mean there are SO many things for you to o. But they aren't just gonna walk up to you. You have to go find them. Try to find a good hobbie that you think you might enjoy! Don't give up hope! :^D [ life_luv_music16's advice column | Ask life_luv_music16 A Question ]
MODERNDURATION answered Thursday February 12 2009, 9:25 pm: I think everyone goes through this at least once in their life, especially when things in your life aren't going well. You just have to remind yourself of who you are. Something that helped me was to write down all the good characteristics about myself on a piece of paper and read it back to myself, then refer to it whenever you are feeling down and/or ask someone close to you what they like about you. Or what may help is going out and doing something you always wanted to do, such as learning a musical instrument, get involved in some sport, or even pick up an odd job that you find interesting. You just need to get out and do something so you feel more useful and get your mind off of things going on in your life that seem to suck. Everyone has something that they are good at stick with it once you find it and give yourself praise when you do a good job of it.
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