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should i break up with him or not?
okay - there is this boy i have been going out with for about a month or two - well lately he has been get on my NERVES!! - and i think i have lost feelings for him - and i dont no if i have or not - like we will go somewhere and he will be trying to get all like close to me and try to kiss me and - yes we have kissed before but i just dont like kissing him - you know what i mean? and i really dont want to break up with him but i just dont know if i have lost feelings for him or not!
so please help me!
thanks
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it sounds to me like you dont have any feelings for this guy..if you dont want him kissing you..then what kind of relationship is that?..i think the reason your afraid to tell him how you feel is because.. you dont wanna be alone..and want someone to be there when u need em..if u really cant stand him anymore..i would just end the relationship..before it gets to far into it
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I think a lot of people go through this. just give it time and thought maybe within a week you'll like him again. but if he just gets on your case more and you feel absolutely nothing and you see yourself looking at other guys, then you dont like him.
But usually when you are unsure, it means no you don't like him. you probably don't like him but want to(maybe he's really nice or somethingg) ,thats why you're trying to hold on to him and trying to make yourself like him again. so i'm sure you've lost your feelings for him.
you probably may want to break up with him but its up to you.
hope i helped!
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Okay. This is pretty common. Once you go out with some one for about a month or two, the feeling of true love and all of that stuff starts to fade. Thats what you are starting to feel right now. that is why most realashionships don't last very long. Don't break up with him yet. I think that you should just tell him that you need to talk to him. You should take a walk, or go on a nice quiet date with just the two of you and just talk to him. Get to know him better. He won't try to get all close to you when it is just the two of you. Try telling him how you feel and ask him what he feels also. A key part of having a realashonship is knowing what your parter feels. You have to work through things so that they will work out in your favor.
Hope I helped. :)
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