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Cheeting...


Question Posted Saturday June 6 2009, 5:14 pm

About 4 months ago i cheeted on my boyfriend. He know's all about it and were still together but i still dont no why i kissed the other guy and im still so confused.
Please help


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Cux answered Sunday June 7 2009, 6:55 pm:
Obviously the fact that you're still together means he still cares about you. Maybe he's forgiven you?

I would talk to him and let him know you're confused. Maybe he can help you work it out.

--Jack
(17/m)

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christina answered Sunday June 7 2009, 3:25 am:
If you cheated on him & you still don't know why you did it, I don't even think you should be in a relationship. You may not cheat again, but there's always a chance. You need to think about what may have to led to your decision making. If you can't seem to figure it out, break up. It's not fair to your boyfriend that you cheated and you don't even know why.

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hitler_the_goat answered Saturday June 6 2009, 5:57 pm:
thats cheating? jesus, what world are you from? thats absurd, my co-workers are railing any german tail they can get ahold of while their wives are back in the states, and using the excuse that its cool because its not in the same zipcode. don't worry about it, and if he's still pissed off, tell him to retire his prudish puritan ways and enter the 21st century.
-gunner

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LagunaBabe answered Saturday June 6 2009, 5:21 pm:
Well, based on the bit of information you have given us, I would suggest taking a step back and remembering the day that this kiss took place and what we said or what happened before the moment you two kissed, as it led up to it.

Also, I recommend thinking about your relationship and if there may have been anything during that time, that may have made you upset enough or vulnerable enough to kiss another guy.

These two things could help you analyze things better, and hopefully not be as confused. :)

Best of luck!

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gogurl10 answered Saturday June 6 2009, 5:18 pm:
I think you probably cheeted on him because you wanted some excitment or something like that. Maybe you don't like him as much as you think you do? And I don't think you should still be together, because if he didn't dump you when he found out about that, then he is desperate and has no self respect. He probably dosen't love you as much as you think he does and may just want a gf. You need to seriously think about it

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