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im sprung....
me and my bf have been togethr for almost 2 months. and i liked him so much like a month or two before we got together. well we both told eachother we fell for eachother. and were in love. and i feel like im hella sprung. every song on the radio reminds me of him. i cant go a second without thinking bout him. i get butterflies. i think im seriously sprung. but is that a bad thing? i just dont want to get hurt. cuz my friend is the same with her bf and she got hella hurt recently but there beter now. but my question is how can i not be so sprung? and not be so much in love. i dont want to put all of myself into a guy and something does happen (which i dont think will happen) but still. i dont want to get hurt. well thanks so much in advance!
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You've only been dating for two months? Your just completely infatuated with him. It may feel like your in love with him, but your not. This happens to a lot of people their first couple months in a relationship. Your just in the honey moon stage. There's really nothing you can do to stop it. If you really like him, I encourage you to feel this way.
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dottie4
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I'm sure we've all been there at some point.
You're in love - that's definitely not a bad thing. and at this stage, you should be focusing more on the present and enjoying the aspects of it, instead of worrying about getting hurt.
If you two love each other and any problems should arise, you will work through them - that's what love is all about - Sticking together through thick and thin.
It might not be easy, but if you're meant to be, things will work out.
and always remember, it's better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
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It isn't a bad thing if you're sprung over him, just as long as you don't let your feelings for him get in the way of your judgement to handle to certain situation should it arise.
The best thing to do in those situations is to just think what's best for you and for him and work throuhg that situations. One way is to talk to each other and listen when one has got a problem and if something does arise, be sure to be honest with other and commited to the relationship (which I'm sure you are!). If you care about each other (and I now you do), then you there should be nothing to worry about.
However, the one thing which you shouldn't do is to act differently around him because sometimes, you can change just to keep your partner happy. So just be natural around him.
I'm slightly confused by this line though: "cuz my friend is the same with her bf and she got hella hurt recently but there beter now" so maybe you could clarify that for us.
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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First of all, are you gay?
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