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CONFUSING signals
Ok I will make this as brief as possible.
I am 18/F, been dating 21/m for about a month.
First date no kiss, second date kiss, third date nothing, fourth kiss, fifth nothing.....
but he keeps asking me out, is he just nervous?
He's also told me he "wants to make sure it's right" before committing to a relationship. Which I think I can understand if he really means what he said...
I'm confused. Does anyone have any idea whats going on?
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I think that he doesn't want to go too fast and screw anything up. If he keeps asking you out, obviously he wants to be with you. But maybe he doesn't want to come on too strong and scare you off. I can respect him for that. My best friend would probably tell you to make the first move if you want something to happen. I guess it depends on how comfortable you two are, but you could always tell him that it's okay if he moves a little faster.
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To me it sounds like he is just uncertain if he wants a relationship with you yet, therefore he is trying to feel you out. He also probably is nervous as you thought, because he may think you are not interested in him. A question for you, who normally gives the kiss you or him? If he does, maybe you should step it up and kiss him to let him know you are feeling him, guys actually like when girls make the first move, it takes some of the pressure off of them. Also, I would straight out ask him what he considers you guys to be either friends or in a relationship/interested in starting one, instead of having the whole mind game situation going on.
hopefully this answers your question, good luck.
Brittni
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