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best friend crushing
Oh I am 13 and Female.
Okay, so, I really like my best friend, *Nat*, he is smart, funny, handsome, athletic, and great to be around. He keeps his temper most of the time, and is very kind to me. He likes girls in general. My mother and friends say he likes me, but I'm not sure. I really like him, and he waits for me after class, but isn't that simply what best friends do? I mean, I've never really had a best friend before, and it just happens my first best friend, is a guy who I have grown to like. I just went through a break up though. About 2 weeks ago. This is Nat's best friend, and we had complications. So I ended it. I would like to ask Nat out in late April or May, but I don't know if it's such a good idea. I think I'll wait until summer, and then ask if he likes me the way I like him, but I'm not sure what to do. I would really appreciate advice on if you think he likes me or not. Thank you very much.
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Don't wait, ask him now. What if he likes you and you waited all that and he lost interst in you.
I think you should ask him right now. And be straight forward.
He likes you, bestfriend do nice things to each other, but he seems like he wants to see you everyday that's why he waits until you finish class.
Thats more than bestfriends.
Good Luck
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Woah woah woah woah... late April or May? Summer? How about you snag him NOW, while the crush is still active? That's a while away and trust me, it is NOT good to wait to ask someone out. Eventually either he'll lose interest in you or you'll lose interest in him. First of, confidence is key. Yes, best friends do wait outside of certain classes for you, but I think this guy likes you considering it's a guy who's waiting for you... so yes, I think he likes you. Now, what should you do? Well, I'll tell you something that's worked for me 98% of the time; flirt. Flirt with him a lot. This includes playfully touching/pushing him, giggling and smiling around him, etc. I assume you know what flirting usually looks like :) the trick is, you flirt with him enough until he asks YOU out. This method is great because he knows you're flirting with him (if he doesn't catch it, a friend of his will notice and tell him) and if he asks you out, that means he likes you (duh haha) but if he doesn't, that means he doesn't like you like that and you can play the whole "Oh sorry, I didn't know I was flirting" card and get yourself out of the embarrasment of rejection :) The thing is, guys are just as nervous as girls to ask someone out. Therefore, if it's obvious that you like him, he'll feel more confident to ask you out because he'll know you'll say yes :) it works with almost any guy who likes you, and sometimes it tends to cause a guy to like you :D So, goodluck!
-Jessica 14/f
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Ok honey..
First of all.. don't plan when you are going to ask someone out!! You will 99% of the time lose your chance.
Second, If you like him then talk to him about it. If he wants to be friends just respect that. If he wants to be your boyfriend then so be it.
You need to be confident and mature about the situation. You'll only learn from experiences.
Good luck :)
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