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The names BooGiE Im a cool well educated person, my colum is here to help people grow. Im trying to help people from my own experince from the life ive had so far and also learn from others so just ask and BooGiE answers!.
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ok so after i have sex with my boyfriend it burns hella bad like excruciating pain i d k but like sometimes if he doesnt cum in me it doesnt burn at all lol i used to think i was allergic to his cum but im sure thats not what it is cus usually it happens either way and it seems like every time he rips me open too and that happens as soon as he goes in and its not like im dry well usually im wet but either way i rip and end up bleading so i d k w t f is going on and i was wondering if anyone can help if you know whats going on with the burning thing and the ripping too and if you know what might help if you need anymore details let me know and i can tell you everything
much thanks
Well it seems you should be turned on more i have had the same problem with my girl and it seemed to help when more "foreplay" was done before we had sex it didnt hurt her so my advice is suck D!$% have him eat you out make out what ever else be creative... it really helps....and about the ripping take it slow at first you may be tight but you dont want to nbe loose lol good luck and keep me posted!
BooGiE
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is it wierd to shave my pubes, like most girls said they'd like it better if i shaved
Ive done it once or twice (at my girl friends request) and its not somthing I would advise to another guy but if you ARE going to go that route.. the safest way is a shower, soap, and a razor.. dont do it for others. If you think it would help in any kinda way then do it.. if not and its really just somebody elses idea then dont.. I regreted it
it turns out, tom likes me!
We had a huge huge fight, and at the end he said "Look im sorry, its just that . . well i like you, i have for a long time and its hard seeing you with this jerk freind of mine"
I wasnt expecting this
WOW See thats how this kinda thing happens...now all you have to do figure out is what your next move going to be... to save you alot of drama(i know from experince)quote: "Right or left there is no middle" which here means PICK ONE lol but as always good luck.... And keep me posted BooGiE
this is kind of a long story:
Well first off, ive been best freinds with this guy for a long time now. Hes not the jelous type, lets call him Joe. Joe is best friends with this guy Tom, tom is really sweet and seems to be a nice guy, so he asks me out and you know the rules of best freinds, you gottah talk to them first about it, so i did. Joe said that Tom only goes after the hot ones, im not saying im hot, cause im definatley not, haha. But point is, this guy Tom is really sweet, he said he loves me and that i mean the world to him and stuff, and he loves me for me, and not what i look like. But Joe said not to fall into his trap, but i cant help it . . hes so charming. So he asks me out, and i say yes and then later that day Tom says to dump him. I do, and i broke Joes heart, he wouldnt stop calling me, texting me, IMing me. he kept saying things like "why did you break up with me, i love you, i dont want to lose you". . . and just well mushy stuff. So i tell him that someone told me stuff about him that i wasnt happy with. Im not one to follow a crowd and believe rumors, but this was my best freind who told me this. So tom swares to god he would never do anything to hurt me, ever, and that hes sorry if the person confused me. He was begging me for a second chance. The guy was making me feel terrible! So i gave him another chance, were going out now and im so happy. But i know tom is gunna be mad at me cause i said i wouldnt date until im ready, he thinks im mad at Joe, when the truth is . . were going out!
I have no idea how to tell him this and i need some serious help, ive never been in this situation before!
thanks, im totally confused
tom was so proud of me for breaking up with him
now what do i do?
Well it seems to me that you have what i like to call "right or left syndrome", I have had many people go through almost the exact same thing and when i comes down to the point...you have to think of who has your best interest in mind, in the long run.
You realy have three choices
1) Keep going back and forth
2) Pick one
3) Find new friends
I dont mean to be so blunt but if you do choose to be with one or the other, choose the one that will still be there, if there your real freinds they will understand, and once you've made this choice, let the other know how you feel and why you've made this choice they will either be very understanding or not.
"Relationships come and go but TRUE freinds are forever" which here means, if "Tom" is a true friend then he will be there for you through out, as with "joe"
Like i said to let Tom know, just tell him how you feel and why you feel that way, and hope for the best. I no its worked for me... good luck and I hope Ive helped (and not been to mean) BooGie