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likes me, or just wants some?
18/f
i am very confused whether this guy likes me or just "wants some" and is attracted to me. now he's only had one girlfriend, and lost his virginity to her meaning he's only had sex with one girl
liking me signs:
1. whenever i see him he always asks about ME. he asks how i'm doing, whats new, hows school and my new job, etc.
2. he opens up to me, he shares almost everything with me!
3. he always notices if i dye my hair or cut it, or if something is different
4. he can ALWAYS tell if something is wrong with me
5. he gets upset when he finds out something about me, and i didnt tell him. he says "you never tell me anything anymore" :(
6. he always wants shotgun when we're in my car and we're with others
7. we'll have those moments where i'll be talking to him and after i'm done he'll just be looking at me and we'll both start smiling
8. we've known each other for 4 or 5 years now
9. we've cuddled when we're alone many times and fell asleep together
10. when it's cold and i don't have a jacket he'll give me his to wear
11. some people think that we're already dating because of how we act with each other, but i dont know if it just because we're so close or what
signs he just "wants some"
1. usually when i see him he'll whisper in my ear.. "wanna fuck" and have a little smirk on his face
2. he flirts with me ALOT, sometimes in a "sexual" kinda way
3. he recently broke things off with his ex of almost 3 years, rebound?
4. when we hang out alone, he tries to get down my pants 95% of the time
5. when we're texting, usually something dirty will come up
it's just hard for me because i've never been in a real relationship before.
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I'd like to say that not all guys "want some". In fact, I know that most guys DON'T just want that. And most don't even want that now. Yeah, sorry, just wanted to clear that up, because the first person seems to think she knows guys.
I like to think of myself as pretty mature, but I have many immature moments, much like this guy.
I'd say that since there are twice as many signs that he likes you as signs that he just "wants some", he probably just likes you. If he seriously wanted to have sex with you and that was it- you would know it. And since it's up for debate, then I'd say that that's not what he wants. Sure, he may do some of those things, but the only one that is kind of irksome is the 4th one.
Just try to observe and see where it goes. That's probably the best advice anyone could give you.
--Jack
(17/m)
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He may really like you as a friend, but if he can score, he will. Obviously, he's trying his best to do that.
Don't do it. If you do, you can kiss him goodbye. He wants to conquer you. Beware.
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Well, first off, all guys "want some". This doesn't mean emotions can't be attached to it, but if you ask any random dude if he wanted some, he'd probably say yes. I'm not saying it's a bad thing, but it's usually true. So yes, it sounds like he "wants some" but it also sound like he likes you a lot as well. Especially if he's been treating you like that (liking me signs) for 4 to 5 years. So yes and yes, I think he wants some and he likes you a lot too. If you really want to know, ask him flat out "So what's the deal, do you want a relationship or sex?". Usually if you put him on the spot, you can tell if he's lying so he won't be able to lie. Well I hope I helped!
Jessica 15/f
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