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i have two lovers right now, and ive always believed this to be wrong, but i love my girlfriend, karla, and when my best friend james asked me out i couldnt say no b/c ive liked him even longer than ive liked karla.
whats YOUR OPINION on this...is it ok for someone's who's bisexaul to have a bf and a gf at the same time????
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um no.


okay, thanks for reading this

what i need advice about is songwriting. i need to write the lyrics to a song, just lyrics to a melody or both the melody and the lyrics, but my problem is i just can write songs! lol, i just dont know how to do it, for me is much more easier to write stories and that stuff.
but anyway, i just want some advice on where to start and how to write lyrics, it would be awesome if you could help me :]
thank you in advance
xo, (link)
Ohhh Ohhh Ohhh I feel so a alone I can see the sky and thats pretty much all i see


thats part of one i wrote hope it helps


Hiya

Well basically my hair has gone from brown to ginger to blonde over the years and ive recently had it highlighted with b blonde hair bleach and he used the 30vol 9% peroxide and it went white blonde for about 5 days.

Its turned real dull and I think its turned yellower even thou my friends disagree.

I know that i have loads of colour residue from the numberous times i tried to go blonde with home dying kits. and this makes it hard for colour to stay on, but i thought that if bleach removes the colour from your hair shaft it would effectively remove the colour residue awell?

i dont understand lol.

What i want to know is How can i keep it white blonde?
And if i bleached all of my hair would it all dull down to yellow again?

thankyouu xx x (link)
i really dont know, but surely your hairdresser can tell you this? just ask them.


my parents dont want me dating yet, but i've been dating this guy and they've been getting suspicious, i really really like this guy but i dont want to lie to my parents what do i do?! (link)
talk to your parents and find out WHY they dont want you dating guys? if you can think of a counter argument against what they say, tell them in a mature manner, without shouting, or acting like a child (shows maturity, and they might agree with you). If however, they are doing it for your own good, and you understand why they are doing it, you can put the relationship on a break, or carry on lying to your parents (as harsh as it sounds, lol).


so i recently purchased an herd grinder

i got a simple 3 piece one with a magnetic top

does anyone else own something like this?
if so how do you keep the magnetic lid closed as to not spill any contents?

also, is it bad to keep herbs in the grinder portion for storage? will they be ground too fine?


thanks in advance! (link)
by herbs do we mean..um...the green? or are you wanting to grind up your rosmary & thyme? :S haha!

surely the magnetic top should stay in place? i have a plastic, non magnetic one..so i really dont know, :P.

its not an amazing idea to keep it in the grinder portion, unless its like, quite tight. you dont want to spill the herb ifyou knock it down by accident. If its ground to fine? no wories, it shouldnt make a different at all. I doubt it will be ground too fine, because its not an electric one. hope i helped? (i seriousely doubt i did tho? haha)


I use duac and retinA and it gets my face SOOOOO DRYYY

I use mario badescio moisureizor but it works for that seconds and my dryness and peeling comes back

(especilly in the morning)

what should i do??? (link)
Perhaps it is one of those products that is reacting with your skin. Maybe if you stopped using them for a while you could see if it clears up a bit?

Personally I would suggest drinking more water -this helps to hydrate your skin-

If it gets any worse then i would recomend going to see a doctor just to see if they help you out =]]


Me and my boyfriend are starting to have sex. He tried sticking it in but it only got in like halfway and it started REALLY hurting. like it was a deep sharp pain. I know my hymen hasn't been broken, and I know thats why it hurts.
Anyway, we tried again last night to try and push it in further. It got a little further but it still really hurts. Is there anything I can do to break my hymen myself? I heard if I finger myself, It will break.. But I don't believe that.
PLEASE HELP. (link)
I doubt the problem is your hymen if you got it in half way. Also, it wouldn't cause a deep sharp pain. The same thing used to happen to me when my boyfriend and I first started. The pain used to be just...horrible. Like you said, very sharp. But anyway, your problem is that you're not wet enough causing too much friction and makes it much harder for him to get in. Either you aren't turned on enough which can be fixed with a little extra foreplay or you can just use lube. Doing both would probably be best. If you just use lube without being ready for sex (not turned on enough) it will still hurt a little. So you need to figure out how to get you in the mood more. foreplay is the best...having him eat you out before had will do wonders. Always works for me


So, I watched Napoleon Dynamite (starring Jon Heder) and was wondering about the liger thing. Do ligers exist? If so, how are they any different from regular lions and tigers? Do the male ligers have manes like male lions or are they more like tigers?

Can anyone supply some liger pictures too if ligers are real?

Also, how in the world can a lion and tiger breed if this is true? I mean, they're totally different big cats, right?

Any information about ligers is highly appreciated, even if it's just an article explaining the joke or myth. (link)
hahahah yesss theyre realll.
They just have to be specially breeded, and are extremely uncommon.


Here is a pic:
http://www.fahad.com/pics/liger.jpg
And some more here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Liger


well im 18 female. and i had unprotected sex a month ago with my bf and a week later i ended up with a sore throat the was hurting soo bad that i finally went to the doctor for them to look at it.. the doctor thought it was strept throat butt they took a swab of it and it wasnt strept troat. it was either mono or gonoreaha. but they culdnt tell me for sure. so they gave me a shot and 4 pills to take and so after 4 days it went a away.. but a couple of days later i started to get my period but it was 4 days late.. and i took a pregnany test it came out clearly negative.. but after that i started feeling nausas and sick and i got heartburn and i had loss of appeitie cause i couldnt eat and i lost weight.. i went to the doctor and got tested for hiv an stds. they all came back negative. but after that i still felt symptoms of pregnacy..im feeling more tired then usual and my body kinda aches and i just dont wanna move at all. and my head hurts so bad sometimes. so since it has been a month now and i feeling all theses symptoms. could i be pregnant? cause im not getting any better (link)
if u were pregnat you would not have your period untill you had the baby


i spilled red nail polish on my white carpet. besides calling a carpet cleaner & getting the carpet replaced, is there any carpet cleaner you know for a FACT works to remove nail polish? i tried nail polish remover and it helped a little but not all the way. (link)
i use detangler and hairspray and scrub it when its still wet from the hairspray and detangler


Iam moving in with my cousin and i need ideas for decorating for my new bedroom and iam 19 years old if that helps and i like bright colors. (link)
Hot pick walls or Neon green walls bed spread should match


Right.

In the past few weeks, you can see veins in my boobs and around my chest really quite frighteningly clearly. I thought, on holiday, I might be pregnant but then I got my period - besides, I had been on the pill when we did it although I took one about 9 hours late about 4 days before - but he didn't do anything in me, and we were in my grandmothers house so I know he hadn't 'let off' recently, so I don't think the pre-cum would have been much of a problem.

Considering this, I'm still worried. It's the end of summer here and I often get skin problems like bad echzma at this time of year.

What could these veins be? Will they go away?
I'm proud of my boobs, but I feel really self conscious like this.


From a suddenly insecure advicenator!
x (link)
my boobs do it to how old are you but i no ur not pregnat


Are friends with benefits really that bad?
This kid Dillon wants to have sex with me but doesnt like me as a girlfriend...If I have sex with him is it such a bad thing? (link)
Hes a manWHORE thats all i no


Hi everybody,
my ex-boyfriend (who I'll conveniently call S. now) and I dated for about two weeks about a year and a half ago.
I've had several other boyfriends after him, but he didn't have one. We still remained good friends, and a lot of our friends (we have the same friends) thought we were a couple, but we never were.
Now, the last few days, S. has been cuddling me more than usual, asking me if I was warm enough, said it was such a shame we weren't in the same class,..
And I think I'm starting to love him again. But I'm not sure, because my heart has recently been broken, and maybe I'm just so desperate for love that I'm seeing this as signs, when they aren't.
And even if they were, what should I do to let him know I'm falling in love with him again?

Thanks a lot if you can help me!

(I'm 14 and a girl, but I'm mature for my age, and he's nearly fifteen & we both live in Belgium.) (link)
Alrighty then LIke yoU SAID HE NEVER HAD A GF SINCE YOU GUYS BROKE UP SO ITS A SIGN HE STILL LIKES YOU MAKE A PROS AND CONS LIST OF WHAT YOU LIKE AND HATE ABOUT HIM IF THERES MORE CONS THEN DON'T D8 HIM AGAIN ITHE THERES MORE PROS YOU STILL LOVE HIM


My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. At first, everything was great. We were really happy and we never fought or argued at all. For the past 3 months it seems like all we do is fight and argue. He's changed a lot. He's 19 with no job, no license, nothing. When we first starting dating, he had a job and seemed to be doing well. Now, it seems like he's letting his life go downhill. He has recently become friends with two people that did me and him both wrong in the past. Ever since he's starting hanging out with them again, he's been a real jerk. I tried talking to him about everything, but it always seems to go in one ear and out the other. It seems like he doesn't care about my feelings or me in general anymore. Well, my question is, what can I do to make him actually listen to my advice. I want him to be happy, but our relationship is really starting to suffer because of choices he's making. I love him and I don't want to lose him. Any advice on how I can get through to him? (link)
A jerk you got that write girl dump him hes a bad influence and you have notin together so dump him if its not working and if hes being a jerk and a jackass


this guy i like asked me out the 3rd day that school was out and i said yes but he told me not to tell any one but i did. He is telling every one that we are not going out but we are and no one but my friends beleive me. He calls me and tells me to tell every one that we arent going out untill school starts. So school started and he has been not listening to be and not talking to me. I still have feelings for this guy but i dont know what t do now. (link)
Jerk Hes a jerk i can declare that that happened to me before


Okay, I posted this on another website, so, if you see it on there I am NOT copying it, well I am, but, I wrote it =].

So. I hate school x].
I have pretty much my whole life, yes, pretty typical for a kid, I guess.
Buut, I guess I don't just hate, I can't STAND it. I hate the way it feels walking through the hallways, I hate the way kids treat each other, I hate the feeling of being uncomfortable, I HATE it. annd, I have my whole life. No, I don't hate it because I just had the summer break. No, I didn't have a fight with someone. I just hate it.
I love math, science, I like the subjects.
Anyways, to the point of the post.
I think I wanna be home schooled :].
I don't know much about home schooling, I do know that there are different programs, I think.
My mom won't home school me, she works full time.
My dad however, might be able to, I haven't talked to him about it but xD. He was planning on becoming a teacher and only needed to one more year to finish his schooling, then he had his accident and yeah.
So, I always heard that you can do this program were you do the work, hand it in, then, you just come to the exam at the end of the year, which I could handle.
I think I would learn alot better like that.
Would you recommened it?
Any sites were I can get information?
How are you homeschooled?
Help :]?
Annd, sorry for the typo's.
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No way dude don't just because you hate something don't try to change anything being homeschooled would cost alot for all the books and you'd have no friends plus you'll have 8 hrs of non stop studing you won't get drama class gym class woodshop weight training and art and computers you'll have the worstest time in your life even tho worstest isn't a word i should no how public schools are i go to one and people call me pineapplehead be cause i died it blonde and it looked like a pineapple and they call me pinky,shrimp,shorty and plenty more because im in the 8th grade and im really short and yes you do work for 8 hours because i was homeschooled for a year and i didn't like it


uh yeah i spilled a bottle of red nail polish on my beige carpet... and i went to this site:

http://www.thriftyfun.com/tf205186.tip.html

and i tried EVERYTHING. i tried...

1.) nail polish remover
2.) windex
3.) shaving cream

and the nail polish remover is the only thing that got most of it out. the stain is still totally visible. i tried the windex alone and it did nothing...

now, if anyone has any other suggestions besides calling a carpet cleaner in order to get the stain COMPLETELY out without spending tons of money, let me know. but until then... i want to call a carpet cleaner (actually i'm 15f but my parents agreed to call one). naturally, i googled "carpet cleaners new jersey" and all these search results came up. but what about cleaning a SINGLE stain? would a carpet cleaner do that? or would they have to clean my entire carpet because the one spot would be whiter than the rest of my carpet?

feel free to make any further suggestions about the nail polish stain besides a carpet cleaner. i'm really embarrassed about it and i really wish i hadn't accidentally tipped it over. i know everyone makes mistakes but i'm supposed to have a friend over tomorrow and it's no big deal but it's a long stream about two and a half feet long and as much as four inches wide in some parts (the bottle kept rolling). i'm really upset so if anyone can make any further suggestions? the stain is like, three days old now (link)
When i have a stain i spray detangler and hairspray on it and then scrub while its still wet and whala


My boyfriend is always super sweet and romantic, now I want to do something special for him. He absolutely loves spanish and spicy foods. I, admittedly, do not cook or know very much about these types of foods.

Can you tell me a classic meal (that fits into "spanish" or "spicy") or just a great meal that I could fix him for dinner? (link)
Um well theres spanish rice for the spanish part and for the spicy chile if you had lots of spices that are spicy and add extra chile powder its great that way and add jalopeno peppers


15/f

My mom gave me the chore of taking all our pictures and scanning them into the computer, and then throwing away the paper copies so we have more room in our house for other stuff. She's paying me like $250 to do it, and I got everything scanned, but now I've got 9 big boxes of pictures to put in our trash compactor (not like the ones at the mall, but like an appliance that fits under your kitchen counter), and one box will fill it up. Our trash men charge us more when we have more than one bag, so Mom's pretty obcessive about only having one bag of trash per week, and I don't get paid until I complete the task. But a bunch of my friends are going to Six Flags next week, and if I don't get this done, I won't have the $$$ to. How can I make this happen? (link)
Tell ur mom the prob




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