Question Posted Tuesday September 2 2008, 12:48 pm
Hi everybody,
my ex-boyfriend (who I'll conveniently call S. now) and I dated for about two weeks about a year and a half ago.
I've had several other boyfriends after him, but he didn't have one. We still remained good friends, and a lot of our friends (we have the same friends) thought we were a couple, but we never were.
Now, the last few days, S. has been cuddling me more than usual, asking me if I was warm enough, said it was such a shame we weren't in the same class,..
And I think I'm starting to love him again. But I'm not sure, because my heart has recently been broken, and maybe I'm just so desperate for love that I'm seeing this as signs, when they aren't.
And even if they were, what should I do to let him know I'm falling in love with him again?
Thanks a lot if you can help me!
(I'm 14 and a girl, but I'm mature for my age, and he's nearly fifteen & we both live in Belgium.)
rae141307 answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 4:23 pm: you said than after you 2 broke up he never got another gf and this is a good sign it suggest that he still hasn't gotten over you and this was almost two years ago.
to love is to risk not being loved in return and when your heart has been broken it's even harder to let anyone in.but is S's feelings are true and so are your's than i say do it!take a chance bc life's too short and if you really think this is love than why not?ya see falling in love is the gratest gift there is and it seems like hes getting really close to you bc he wants to be more than friends.
my advice is to tell him that your heart has just been broken so if he's just playing around than don't get back with him bc than you risk getting hurt again.your heart is the most valuable thing you posses and when you're in love your so vulnerable to getting hurt again that you should know if he's falling for you again or not.get the facts stright b4 you go out with anyone.good luck and i hope i helped you [ rae141307's advice column | Ask rae141307 A Question ]
Katlyn answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 3:35 pm: Aww thats really cute and i think you two are just perfect and i do think you should tell him your falling in love with him again i think he really loves you i think if your hearts been broken before then you should really take a chance here because it will just make you stronger and more confident i hope i helped you good luck:) [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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