My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. At first, everything was great. We were really happy and we never fought or argued at all. For the past 3 months it seems like all we do is fight and argue. He's changed a lot. He's 19 with no job, no license, nothing. When we first starting dating, he had a job and seemed to be doing well. Now, it seems like he's letting his life go downhill. He has recently become friends with two people that did me and him both wrong in the past. Ever since he's starting hanging out with them again, he's been a real jerk. I tried talking to him about everything, but it always seems to go in one ear and out the other. It seems like he doesn't care about my feelings or me in general anymore. Well, my question is, what can I do to make him actually listen to my advice. I want him to be happy, but our relationship is really starting to suffer because of choices he's making. I love him and I don't want to lose him. Any advice on how I can get through to him?
xospbabiiexo answered Tuesday September 2 2008, 2:19 am: well try talking to him and if he doesn't listen to whatever you have to say then I guess the best thing to do is end your relationship.I mean he's hanging around bad influences which affects your relationship with him. and if he doesn't listen then why bother hanging onto a guy who doesn't even show that he love or care about you.every girl deserves to be treated right and if you don't break up with him now then he's gonna leaving you. and if keep staying with him,you're just only hurting yourself more because you're with a guy who doesn't even treat you right or tells you that he loves and care about you. so your choices are:
stay with him and end up getting hurt more? or end the relationship with him before he leaves you? which one is it.
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