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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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a friggen 'bitch & moan' section..
where we can go let all our feelings out and complain about all the assholes on this site who try to bring you down and hurt your feelings for no goddamn reasonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!.

and sense this site doesnt have one..
ill bitch and moan right here :)

fuck all you fucking assholes who have no fucking lifes or nothing better to do than read peoples questions and fucking be jerks for no fucking reason!. youre so fucking pathetic and low its not even funny. i cant stand annoying FUCKKKKKKKKKKKSSSSSSSS. >:O

goodbye now:)

Or how about you grow up & get a LiveJournal & whine there? :)

We're not here for your shit, so take it somewhere else. :)

Ok. so i've been texting and talking to t his guy... lets call him T. well, he's 17! and i'm fourteen. he knows how old i am though. Well, i think i like him. and we 're supose to be haning out sometime. but he thinks i'm hot and whatnot. but geeze. Even though he freaks out about age/
do you think that after we hangout, if he likes me enough... we'll settle something, and maybe date?

ps. DON'T TELL ME I'M TO YOUNG TO DATE/ HE'S TO OLD FOR YOU/ HE'LL GET YOU INTO TROUBLE.

please.

It's possible that he could ask you out after you guys hang out, but if he's someone who likes to wait, he may want to hang out a few more times before he does.

Chances are you probably won't date for long especially if he's turning 18 soon, though. After he turns 18, it's illegal for you guys to be dating. So, kissing & whatnot would be illegal. :( And if people were to find out, you wouldn't be the one getting in trouble, he would.

Be careful.

Just wondering... But what is a blowjob?

Oral for guys.

K so today is my best friends birthday but i cant go because i just got a job and after a week of oreintation im finally working today is the day i get trained which im excited for but my best friend is really pissed because im missing her 16th but its not my fault she didnt tell me 2 weeks ago she just told me a few days ago what she was doing and i tried calling her yesterday to tell her i cant come but she didnt answer so i sent her a msg on facebook and i told her i would call today but she sent me a msg saying "fuk you seriously you cant even call in sick or anything" so ya i dont know what to do should i talk to her again or no because she really hurt my feelings shes only thinking of herself.

Your friend is being really selfish by asking you to call in sick on your first day of work. If she was really your best friend, she would understand the situation and would never ask that of you. She should've told you ahead of time, and not a few days ago.

If she's honestly being that childish about it, stop talking to her. She's selfish, and childish & isn't worth your time. Don't miss out on your job for someone who only cares about themselves. There's no need for you to lose your job because someone is that self-centered.

how can you get rid of your period a.s.a.p
..

You can't. Wait it out. It'll go away soon.

Last night, i had a realllly amazing sexual dream haha
it was the first one that i've ever had.
i'm not a sexual person, but i masturbate a lot.
how can i get myself to have more sexual dreams?

i've tried lucid dreaming before, but i can never seem to get myself to realize i'm in the dream. i just can't do it.
any tips on how to lucid dream?

i really want to have more sexual dreams though, so if you have any ideas on how to that'd be great!

I'm not exactly sure how you would have more sexual dreams, but I guess you could just concentrate on sex before going to bed.

As for lucid dreaming, I found these sites:

http://www.wikihow.com/Lucid-Dream

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http://www.lucidfun.com/

&

http://www.consciousdreaming.com/lucid-dreaming/how-to-lucid-dream.htm

I am having a sleepover with 1 of my friends and we don't know what we are going to do. So basically I need some 2 person games ideas for young teens. Anyone have any ideas?

Watch tv.
Rent movies.
Go online.
Take friendship surveys.
Read magazines.
Go swimming (if you have a pool).
Play Twister.
Play LIFE or Monopoly.
Play video games.
Listen to music.
Dance around.
Prank call people.
Take pictures.
Do makeovers.
Paint each others nails.
Talk about boys.
Make silly videos.

There's a lot you can do, you just need to think about it. :) I went on Google & looked up things to do at a sleepover & found a lot of sites. Hopefully you see something on these sites that you think sounds fun and can apply it to your sleepover:

http://www.keepandshare.com/doc/view.php?u=42651

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http://www.angelfire.com/tx2/coolwebpage1/slumberparty.html

There you go! Have fun at your sleepover.

Alright, here's the deal... I was up last night at 1:30, and I received a text from my step sister's boyfriend. Up until this point, he's never texted me, so it was really weird. He told me he was drinking with his friends, and then asked me to come over. I told him no, because 1.) I'm not legally allowed to drink and 2.) I can't even be out past midnight because of state curfew. He kept trying to get me to come out there, so I just told him no, it's way too late. but after that he just kept talking to me, so I finally asked him where my step sister is, and he said she ditched him for a party, which is why he was asking me to come. So I know that I can't just leave this be. Should I 1.) Talk to him about it or 2.)Talk to my step sister? Because I don't want something like this to ruin our friendship. Please give me advice on this.

Save the text messages and talk to your step sister.

If you guys are close, there could still be a chance where she may not believe you & throw a few insults at you. Save the messages so that you can show her if she doesn't believe you.

As far as all of that goes, I think you handled it as best you could & that your best was pretty well. Just talk with your step-sister & see what happens. You took it all in well though, so I wouldn't worry. :)

I think my parents may be running out of money, and I may need a job. My older sister is too lazy to go get one. Do you know any jobs near New Jersey that hire 14 year old girls? (Please don't put babysitting/lawnmowing/pet sitting)

Thanks!!

So basically you're asking us to not give you the only options you have? That's pretty stupid.

In all honesty, not many places will hire at 14. Some places hire at 15, but not many. The usual age to legally work is 16 & up. Some places won't hire kids until they're 18, so you're pretty much out of luck until you reach one of those ages.

For now, your best bet is babysitting, lawn mowing & pet sitting whether you like it or not. Deal because you don't have a choice.

do teens do it will i be able to stop is this wrong

Yes, teenagers masturbate. Even people who aren't teenagers (people who're older) masturbate.

It is possible to stop but I don't see why anyone would. It's a healthy habit & it doesn't cause pregnancy or STDs or AIDS.

I don't think it's wrong. If something is good for you, it can't be wrong. That'd be weird.

I feel like I am not that smart. I am on the honor roll this year. Which is cool. I get straight B's. I want to get all A's but no matter how much I try it doesn't seem to work quite the way i want it to! What should I do? (My dream is to got to Harvard)

B's are actually really good. It may not be good enough for Harvard, but they make the decision to accept based on a lot of things such as SAT scores, and grades, and extra curriculars & such.

I think as long as you try hard on your SATs and to bring up your grades next year, you'll still get your chance at Harvard.

He's being really weird around my girlfriend, and she doesn't know it, but he flirts with her all the time. I am afraid if I say something about it, my girl will get mad at me. What should I say without making my problem worse?

I am 16/m

Just talk to him about it. Tell him that he's flirting with your girlfriend & though she doesn't notice it, you do and you want it to stop. If he wants a girlfriend, then see if your girlfriend has a friend she can set him up with. Bringing it up won't make it worse, it could actually help so don't be afraid to say what you feel.

About 4 months ago i cheeted on my boyfriend. He know's all about it and were still together but i still dont no why i kissed the other guy and im still so confused.
Please help

If you cheated on him & you still don't know why you did it, I don't even think you should be in a relationship. You may not cheat again, but there's always a chance. You need to think about what may have to led to your decision making. If you can't seem to figure it out, break up. It's not fair to your boyfriend that you cheated and you don't even know why.

So im a 22 year old guy and my girlfriend and I have been having sex for about a year now. She is on the pill and we also use condoms. However, yesterday afternoon things got heated and we failed to use a condom. she also missed a pill early on in the week. It has been two weeks since her period. I did not cum inside her I stoped the whole thing before that happened. Is there anyway she will get pregnant.

I think as long as she resumed the pill after she missed it, things should be okay. I think if it's a one time deal, there isn't much to worry about.

Also, you may not have cum inside of her, but there's still a chance when it comes to pre-cum. Next time use a condom just to be safe. :) I understand mistakes can be made. Just be more careful next time.

My feet smell sometimes. What should I do?

http://www.essortment.com/all/smellyfeet_rcvu.htm

This should help.

I would like to know, which is better at cramps, midol or pamprin? If you have an answer, that would really help a lot.

Midol works better in my opinion.

my boyfriend is over protective and jelous

So what's your question?

Guys are going to be jealous & over-protective. It happens. If it's getting to the point where you feel smothered & that you can't turn your back without worrying about his approval, then it's time to break up.

If you're doing something to cause his jealousy, then he has every right & you need to stop what you're doing.

whats the best way to coverup a compleatly stupid joke or statement so the people around you dont pay you out and say "dude thats soo lame". ??? (chick 14)

Either laugh it off or tell them you're just kidding.

I usually just laugh off my jokes, but mine are usually funny.

I really want to get over this guy but i cant. were going ut for almost a month but then we got into a fight and he broke up with me. hoe do i get over this perso, i really did like him and i still do. but i dont want to. its hard for me because hes always around my friends. i just want to stop. any ideas for how to?

sign,
confussed and hurt:(

A month isn't even that long. It's a bad thing that you were only dating for a month & you were already so attached that the break up hurt.

You need to get over it. You sound really young. I think you should take time to get to know someone before you jump into a relationship because becoming attached within a month is a bad thing.

yo, how many girls in the 7th grade think shave there vaginas..like..do most do, or do most not

I honestly don't think it's a bad idea to shave. There is nothing wrong with personal grooming. I'm not sure if a lot of girls do it at that age, but I'm sure some do.

If you want to shave though, that is your personal decision & you should not feel guilty about it.

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