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step sister's bf drunk texted me....
Alright, here's the deal... I was up last night at 1:30, and I received a text from my step sister's boyfriend. Up until this point, he's never texted me, so it was really weird. He told me he was drinking with his friends, and then asked me to come over. I told him no, because 1.) I'm not legally allowed to drink and 2.) I can't even be out past midnight because of state curfew. He kept trying to get me to come out there, so I just told him no, it's way too late. but after that he just kept talking to me, so I finally asked him where my step sister is, and he said she ditched him for a party, which is why he was asking me to come. So I know that I can't just leave this be. Should I 1.) Talk to him about it or 2.)Talk to my step sister? Because I don't want something like this to ruin our friendship. Please give me advice on this.
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Save the text messages and talk to your step sister.
If you guys are close, there could still be a chance where she may not believe you & throw a few insults at you. Save the messages so that you can show her if she doesn't believe you.
As far as all of that goes, I think you handled it as best you could & that your best was pretty well. Just talk with your step-sister & see what happens. You took it all in well though, so I wouldn't worry. :)
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It seems like you handled it really well. Talk to your step sister, tell her just what you said here. If you wait, his drunken memory could get him telling her you tried to start something. Besides, she needs to know what kind of guy she is with.
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You should definitely talk to your sister about it. She has a right to know, because if he's asking you to come to a party with him, he's most likely asking other girls too. You would want to know if the situation was reversed, so you should tell her before someone else does.
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